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... Send *ethevans a private message | | | *ethevans's profile:Hello. I'm Beth Rhianna Evans, i am in my last year at school, currently studying my GCSE's. in life my main target is to help others before myself, because i think that it's an amazing feeling. just knowing that you've helped someone, and that warm feeling you get when you do.
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Guys hit on me and I rejected them, so why do I feel bad?
Q. Okay, so I submitted this once and got no replys so i am trying it again. So please please help me! this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend....
A. 18 May 2011: i don't know why you felt bad hun, but you should just forget about it, maybe you should tell him to get it off your chest? because it's not like you've said anything back or anything that would be bad because you have a boyfriend. xxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I let go of his past and continue our relationship, or move on?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together going on three years now. We've known eachother for a long time, all throughout middle school, and high school and the years after. So we know eachothers past relationships very well. When we first got ...
A. 18 May 2011: hm, that's very confusing. Maybe you just need to give it some more time and then i know you sholdn't really but maybe check if hes been mailing her in like a months time? xx... (read in full...)
Should I let go of his past and continue our relationship, or move on?
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been together going on three years now. We've known eachother for a long time, all throughout middle school, and high school and the years after. So we know eachothers past relationships very well. When we first got ...
A. 16 May 2011: hi there,
well i know this is probably not what you want to hear.. but babe, how are you believing all of this. i understand how hard it is when you don't want to believe something like this (trust me i really do) but sometimes you just have to real... (read in full...)
Do you have to be a "bad boy" for girls to like you?
Q. This question is for women ,I never had a girlfriend and I'm still looking. But I heard girls like the "bad boys". I'm a sweet heart guy and I do have confidence, faith, and not a pushover. I am responsible and I would protect my girlfriend from ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hello there :) aw, don't get yourself down about this, the only reason us girls like bad guys is because we like the chase. i don't know why, to be honest with you i really wish it wasn't this way; but that's how it is. although, we do prefer b... (read in full...)
Do I believe what people are telling me or what I know in my heart?
Q. hello i recnetly answerd a question on yahoo answer, it was to a guy who wounderd why he was hated at work. with what he said i belived him to be hated because of how he treated gay people at work. i am a christian and was sooo shock at how he talk ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hello there, well i am actually catholic so therefore i believe that there is nothing wrong with being gay. they are being very wrong in what they are saying because if they researched into it they would realise that firstly, there are 4 sets of c... (read in full...)
Should I show him the real me?
Q. I asked a guy if he liked me and he said no. His reasons were that I was mean and that I was hurting a guy I had ended it with half a year ago. It may be a stupid question but I really don't think I can get over him anyway, with our friendsh...
A. 15 May 2011: YES! being yourself is always the best thing to do! if he likes you for someone you're not, then what's the point, if he likes you for the real you, what's the problem.
Good luck sweety! xx... (read in full...)
I can't quite figure out what to do!
Q. I have a friend who told me he loved me and we have a lot in common . . . I really like him. I'm a virgin and he is not and I don't know if I can be with him now because of it. I wanted a virgin boyfriend, and I look at him differently for it, I ...
A. 15 May 2011: Hi There,
well to be honest, i am going to try and help you see his point of view to make you feel better. i know where he is coming from as i made the mistake of losing it when i was drunk, it is not a good feeling and especially if there is some... (read in full...)
I am confused about this girl
Q. well am 14 and there is this girl i really like, i have known her for almost 3 years now and nevered really talked to her because am shy well one day i went to my friends ...
A. 6 November 2010: Hiya,
i'm really confused by reading this :P
i think she could possibley be playing hard to get by the sound of it.
i don't really understand what you meant by 'she was making fun of 2 abs or something' but it sounds to me that it's also a possi... (read in full...)
My friend lied about how far she went with her boyfriend, should I talk to her about it?
Q. Hi. I found out recently that my friend lied about how far she'd been with her ex-boyfriend. We were at a sleepover and she told all of us that he'd fingered her and she'd given him a blow job. Im friends with her ex-boyfriend and i had a feeling ...
A. 6 November 2010: Hello,
i'm just a bit older than you but i thought seeing as i'm near your age group i would explain what i felt when i read this.
your friend obviously feels pressured by the fact that she has a boyfriend and nothing has happened; no doubt th... (read in full...)
Autism is preventing me from having relationships. Help?
Q. I was diagnosed with Aperger's syndrome when I was a young child. The basic description of that is that you are exceptional at some things and lacking at others. I, for one, have photographic memory. Many people say that they have it, but the...
A. 9 October 2010: Hiya,
well i have asperges and so does my brother and sister. firstly, i only have a mild case so all that i have is just the lacking confidence bit i guess.
my brother however, has all of the things you have. and i am pleased to tell you he's... (read in full...)
How can I be happy and single?
Q. All advice would be much appreciated! I'm 16 and have never had a boyfriend, and I think I need to work on myself for now as I keep having crushes and it's distracting me from school. So what do single people do in order to make themselves happy...
A. 9 October 2010: Okay i'm single, and at the moment i'm LOVING it. :')
firstly, do you have a lot of friends? because if you do just go out and have fun, explore different friendship groups aswell because that will stop you thinking about guys so much; you'll j... (read in full...)
Two girls like me, but will going out with one of them ruin their friendship?
Q. There is girls in my class and they both like me. But I like only one of them and I am afraid if I go out with one I might screw up their friendship. How can i decide? I need help....
A. 9 October 2010: Firstly,
you sound like such a decent guy, first i've heard a guy actually caring about what happens on the girls behalf.
if i were you i would just tell her, because that's all you can do really, and i think if the girl was to find out that... (read in full...)
She left and now she wants me back
Q. Well, She left me on Friday, Since Thursday was going to well, We didn't speak, Never even looked at each other, So the same night, I phoned to speak to her about things, Telling that I'm going to try to improve our relationship, She didn't sound ...
A. 28 October 2009: Okay, hey hun, first off think of it this way, you don't want a girlfriend if your only together because of her decisions, you should be involved in it to.. you see when she said she regretted what she did, i think she's just saying that because ... (read in full...)
He cant get over his ex fiancee and wont let me in
Q. okay, so my boyfriend and i broke up 4 days ago. This is a really confusing story - so try to stick with me... I moved back to my home town, after living in the city for 3 months, and when i got home, my bestfriend - Whitney* and i hung out ...
A. 29 September 2009: Okay my dear, i've been the back up girl and no it's not nice.. but you're just going to have to face it hun because it will hurt even more if you don't. He's just like you at the moment.. falling for someone .. very very much .. and the only ... (read in full...)
We just broke up and he's dating my best friend!
Q. So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started ...
A. 29 September 2009: Okay first off, to be honest with you .. i think he dumped you .FOR HER. which means she'd been keeping this secret all the time. which also means she's not being truthful to you and she is not a very decent freind, my first question, how long have ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to play it cool when I'm interested in a guy?
Q. well am 22 years old female and am a good looking girl my problem is that i get so confused in front of good looking guys i mean i show that am so intrested and i dont wanna be that way , then when the moment passes i go crazy and blame my self for ...
A. 6 August 2009: - may sound gay but maybe just imagine yourself talking to a guy ... ya know how i got good at chatting to guys.. i watched loads and loads of films :).. and i was like that's how they do it .. thats how im going to do it (mainly romantics) and well ... (read in full...)
Do you think he could be serious about marriage?
Q. My BF came round to see me and meet my parents for the first time the other day. Whilst we were out walking together he made mention that maybe we should tell my parents that we were engaged just to see how they'd react. At the time I thought he was ...
A. 6 August 2009: - short and simple;
in my opinion he was just gettin prepared for the future.. probs not to soon x... (read in full...)
Do you think we could get back together? I miss him so much
Q. So me and my bf have been going out for about 10 months. He is my first love as well as I am for him. We have been through a lot thogether and we have both been there for one another through so much. He is so sweet and caring and lately he has not ...
A. 6 August 2009: - Okay well.. you may not like what i have to say .. but i am going to try and tel you this without sounding mean, Tbh.. i think this guy just liked the feeling of having someone to fall on.. ya know? like you said he sounded shocked that you ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's ex but I don't want to cause any problems!
Q. My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, who I secretly liked. Now I would never want to hurt her by trying to take him from her! Don't get me wrong, I'm not like that! But I'm not that sure they'll get back together. Something about being ...
A. 4 August 2009: Okay, i agree with 'Charlpop' umm.. the saying is always 'chicks before dicks' i know sad but true:(.. i can already tell that you probably are more of a friend person becos uve asked for advice before doing this behind ur friends bak .. even tho u ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad the secret I've kept for two years?
Q. this question is about family problems.. 0k.. i have a problem.. when i was growing up my dad had ah gurlfriend and they were together for about 7years and they have been seperated for 2 years now and i dont get along with my dad very good becaus...
A. 2 August 2009: Right, well i think that you have a right to go round there because they were together for that long, she may have taken up the motherly place for you .. and it's your fathers fault for bieng with her that long.. he can't just expect you to watch ... (read in full...)
How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?
Q. hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking ...
A. 2 August 2009: no problem xx... (read in full...)
What can to a boy I've never talked to but reeeally like?
Q. i like this boy, and he likes me too, i guess. im planning on talking to him for the first time, and i dont know what to say. btw ive liked him since last august, . so my question is: what to say to a boy that you've never talked to but have a h...
A. 2 August 2009: To be honest.. find out if he has msn or something:).. if u chat on ther first it's easier to talk in person
:)Bethh xx... (read in full...)
How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?
Q. hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking ...
A. 2 August 2009: Yeah, i know what you meaan, maybe spend some more time with him ? and then at the best time u get go for it:) xx... (read in full...)
We have a baby together, but conflicts are pushing us apart...
Q. My girlfriend and I have a child together (3 months), we live together. But, there's constant conflicts that take place...I've tried writing letters to her, love letters, offered to go out on a date while someone watches our son. And she would ...
A. 2 August 2009: Okay, well .. My Brother and his girlfriend have started to solve this.. the solution is to actually not just say something randomly wen shes in a bad mood get her in a good mood and just say how u feel .. My brothers baby is now 8 months old.. and ... (read in full...)
How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?
Q. hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking ...
A. 2 August 2009: Okay first off do you like him? if so then theres one answer.. Your friend can't do this do you it's very unfair and a tad selfish if she is dating your brother or even ' has a thing 'with him .. then there's no need for her to be angry at you for ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do about the two guys I like... please help!
Q. okay so lately im pretty much always in a love triangle. theres this guy i met in school, we hung out and stuff, we even kissed, but then he went to florida to visit his family. i understand that and i wasnt mad at all. over the summer though my...
A. 2 August 2009: Okay so, i've been in this sticky situation before my dear:). and god i know how u feel lol.. right wel what i did. Was just think to myself.. Who would care for me more, and who would treat me better and i got my answer. i know sometimes it can be ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to ask out girls?
Q. Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...
A. 1 August 2009: The thing is, i've thought about your question long and hard.. and i've come up with what i would like a boy to say:).. not sure if other girls too ..but i'm a girl and probs around ur age so heey maybe shes the same.. well .. if you maybe get her ... (read in full...)
Is 4 years too big of an age gap?
Q. Hi Im 16 and like a 20 year old man he's a cashier that always flirts with me. I was wondering if 20 is too old for me i'm not an immature person but i'm not really sure if it's okay for me to say something to him or ask him if he would like to ...
A. 1 August 2009: Hey there, well the thing is no.. you're 16 so it's not illegal .. the thing is my best friend is 16 and her boyfriend is 20, there parents are fine with it and they have been together nearly a month now. She's the same as u quite mature.. so i ... (read in full...)
I should have told him in person that I like him
Q. Okay well, i'm in the sea cadets and recently i went on a training navy course on a ship called ts royalist.. and on the ship .. i met this guy .. who is the perfect guy for me.. i can barely breath everytime i think of him.. but he lives in wales ...
A. 6 June 2009: thanks x i will ask him ... (read in full...)
I just don't know any more...
Q. There's this boy I have really liked for about 6 months now ad my mate keeps saying he likes me too but I really don't know if he does or not. Every time I see him he is looking at me an he smiles at me a couple of times but when i add him on bebo ...
A. 26 April 2009: WEL DUH lol.. babe this guy is madly into u .. hees even told his mates about u and for a guy thats big.. so yeaah he dus.. and think sumthing of it babe u need to think quick and tel him how u feeel x... (read in full...)
I'm afraid she thinks our relationship is moving to slow.
Q. Hey again. This isn't much of a question. More like a thank you. I'm the one who asked what to do next with my girlfriend. The few replies I got actually worked! But I had a problem. We got caught and I got detention. They don't allow PDA ( Public ...
A. 26 April 2009: tbh with you just arrange with her to go to your house, or somewhere .. tht her friends dnt no about:) becos u need to kiss her lol and ur such a cutieee :) ... (read in full...)
Does this guy want my girl?
Q. I'm the jealous type and my girl has a close freind who is a male, its not that i dont trust her i want to know what the hell they be talking about, and it seems like ever since me and her has been together ive seen his name all over her "AIM" icon, ...
A. 26 April 2009: Hiii, riteeys my best friend is in the same situation exept its her boyfriend thats actin like u r .. its not wrong.. its perfectly normal but u just need to be cool with it act like theres nothing rong babe and then she'l realise tht ur not acting ... (read in full...)
This boy slapped my bum, what should I do?
Q. Today i was walking up the stairs in my school when suddenly a boy slapped me on the bum! I turned round to see it was a year seven (i'm in year eight) who also happens to be my cousin's best friend! My cousin is also in year 7, and he is real...
A. 23 March 2009: Hun, when boys go to senior school .. they start growing up .. (or they think they're growing up anyway ) ... one thing i learnt bout bieng in senior was all the boys are so immature.. they tap girls on the shoulder then stand on the side of the ... (read in full...)
I was raped by my brothers best friend
Q. i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ...
A. 23 March 2009: awwww sweety, don't worry.. okay so you're pregnant.. if you parents know that's good.. you're brave for telling them .. to be completely honest .. if your brother doesn't know i would tell him because he needs to no hunny .. it may be akward.. but ... (read in full...)
Is 30 years old, OLD?
Q. is 30 years old ,old? because i think its old. ...
A. 23 March 2009: nooo, 30 .. is like nt even half your life.. your young.. your free ;) make the most of it :S x ... (read in full...)
This way too confusing....please help
Q. Well my best friend since 3rd grade told me the other day that he was bi-sexual i have no problem with that , i see nothing wrong with being gay or bi. I am however straight male and a couple months before he finally told me , i noticed when we spen...
A. 23 March 2009: i agree with the person below.. maybe this is your time to realise you are bi .. :) and ya no hun im reli glad u have so much confidence cos i hate seein ppl on here saying horrible things about themselves.. soo maybe i think you should sleep on it ... (read in full...)
Should I try and move on by dating other guys?
Q. Im in love with a guy but he ended it with me a few days ago he says he still loves me but then just today he told me he doesnt like me more then a friend because i pissed him off to much but it wasnt me pissing him off because id come home fro...
A. 23 March 2009: well if i was you, i'd tell him .. if the telling him doesn't go wel.. move on show him you can have a good time without him cos BABE U CAN!... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to perform oral sex on her
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and have a healthy sex life. Just recently I've wanted to find more ways to pleasure her and one being eating/licking her out. She has had a few male previous sex partners, one being who she let ...
A. 23 March 2009: No, it doesn't mean that .. maybe she's just bieng truthful maybe she doesn't like itt .. in time people get used to things if she's only done it once before.. there's still time maybe one day she'll be in the mood :) just say to her .. i wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I fell for a guy who I don't know anything about! How do I find him?
Q. I fell for a guy I don't know anything about. Few days ago I went to concert and it was then when I saw HIM dance with his group. I've never been attracted to guys who dance. His dancing was beautifull! It was like one was those rear moments ...
A. 22 March 2009: Well.. tbh with you i'm not going to tell you to get over him, you have pictures right.. maybe.. put them on facebook or something and say anyone know his name someone might see the picture and be like yeah i know him :) thatts... so and so .. and ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I haven't had my period in 2-3 months
Q. Ok I'm 13 and I'm a virgin but I havnt had my period in 2 almost 3 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom what should I do?????...
A. 22 March 2009: right well, babe i really wouldn't worry, usually if you have started your period before .. it can just stop .. and then come back to you. I started my period in year 6 at my leavers disco.. (embarising) .. and then i had it for about 4 months.. ... (read in full...)
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