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female
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26-29,
*obolamp
writes:I asked a guy if he liked me and he said no. His reasons were that I was mean and that I was hurting a guy I had ended it with half a year ago.It may be a stupid question but I really don't think I can get over him anyway, with our friendship. He's so nice and every time he talks to me he makes me think he likes me when in reality he treats everyone else the same. The thing is, I'm not good at trusting people so I sometimes act very differently of what I actually am so people will at least leave me alone and respect me. I wouldn't say I'm mean, I just don't show my softer side. I've been working a lot on letting down the wall around me and I've already succeeded around my best friend.Should I show him who I really am too?I really want him to like me and this would probably be my and try before I finally get it through my hard head that he simply doesn't like me.I just need to hear others opinion on this plan.
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 YES! being yourself is always the best thing to do! if he likes you for someone you're not, then what's the point, if he likes you for the real you, what's the problem.
Good luck sweety! xx
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