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writes:So, i need some help. My and my boyfriend of 6 months just broke up and now he's dating my best friend. I have to see him with her everyday since i have no other social connections. We broke up saturday while she was over at his house they started dating that same hour. So, idk how to get over him or what to do. They're acting like I'm the one making it awkward so IDK what to do. help?]=thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): okay first of all, thank you guys and yes from all the drama that's been going on I have learned he broke up with me for her so he wouldn't cheat on me.She still wants to be friends and is actually mad at me for ignoring her and hanging out with other people to avoid them. she doesn't ask me if im okay she just expects me to be okay and they're making me the bad person in this. It doesn't really matter cause, im over this. New friends. New life.Thanks you guys.=].
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
She sounds like a pretty bad friend. As a matter of fact ( and I don't mean to hurt you), it sounds more like they planned this and were maybe even seeing each other before that. Get rid of this friend as well. She's no good. He's no good. Good friends dont do what she did and a good boyfriend awaits you, so find him instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): She doesnt sound like a good friend. Dump her too.
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reader, bethevans +, writes (29 September 2009):
 Okay first off, to be honest with you .. i think he dumped you .FOR HER. which means she'd been keeping this secret all the time. which also means she's not being truthful to you and she is not a very decent freind, my first question, how long have you to been freinds, if a very long time .. then i have another solution but if not then i think the best solution is to just walk away from it all. Just say i can't be friends with someone that would keep a secret from me like this. and even if you wasn't keeping a secret you should of been my shoulder to cry on not his new girlfriend that hurts me even more.
Now if as i said erlier she is a longterm friend. and you have family that are freinds aswel.. then i think you should just talk to her about how you feel say everything above, but don't walk away; because trust me.. i've tried it.. they don't leave you alone.. and unless you really don't like this person anymore then i would just skip all the effort of falling out with her..
now onto your second question.. how to get over him. the first thing to do is not to get angry .. because when you're angry you just get upset when all the anger goes away and then you will hate yourself for hating him .. (experienced) .. the best thing to do .. is just cry for one whole day .. eat icecream .. watch soppy love films.. and then go out the next day glam yourself up and start a whole new living girl ! ... when you find someone else.. don't worry .. he'l be old news :). .and if this doesnt work get back to me :) xx
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (29 September 2009):
 first off thats a big no no for your friend that is so wrong. its breaking the girl code. lol. but i can tell you that if you dont let it bother you i know it sounds easy but its hard to do but dont let it seem likes it bothering you and then you can get over him faster and plus he'll probably want you back because he notices that your not paying much attention but if thats what you might be after he will probablly want you back. just dont let it get to you.
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