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There's a school dance coming up but, I don't know how to ask him!

Q.   there is this guy that i really like and we are pretty good friends. we weren't always friends. the first time i actually had a good conversation with him was when he was going out with my friend last year. this is the first year that i think he is ...

A.   18 December 2010: The easiest way is just to walk up an say , "Do you want to go to the dance with me?" It's the only way to be sure.... (read in full...)

I hate seeing my best friend with my ex!

Q.   ok, so i'm totally inlove with this guy but because of all the crap we've been through i like hate him now. so now my bff is dateing him and i want to cry my sees out everytime i think about it, am i over reacting?...

A.   18 December 2010: Completely, I understand about how if you hate someone that you can love them at the same time. But whatever he did doesn't sound like it was too good. So if you hate him then you shouldn't go out with him or be gelous of you best friend. After all ... (read in full...)

Very disturbing behaviour from my son

Q.   Hi everyone, I hope you can take the time to help! I have a ten year old son, and since he was born he's been the sweetest, smartest, and generous boy I've ever known and wanted. He did his homework every night and I've never had to ask him twice to ...

A.   17 December 2010: I can tell where you are comming from, and yes this does seem scary. The best ting that you can do is just sit him down and talk to him 1 on 1. If he is uncomfortable have him talk to his father or any other male figure in his life. If this doesn't ... (read in full...)

Should I try smoking?

Q.   smoking should i try it or not? cause i want to. hi, this question isnt about relationship, i already posted one aobut that, anyway, i want to try somking but im only 14 some its not like i can go out and buy them or say to my parents " i want...

A.   10 October 2010: First of all it is your choice whether you want to smoke or not. Second it depends on if your bf really likes you or not, it has to be enough for him to stay with you if you decide to. Third you won't get addicted if you try just one. Fourth if this ... (read in full...)

He has webcam chats with men, but won't have sex with me.

Q.   Hi I have been dating this guy for 2 years, living together for 6 months. His bisexual. We have never had the honeymoon stage, he has never seemed to chase me for sex. I thought this was odd and found out he web cams to men and mastubates to porn ...

A.   10 October 2010: The absolute honest truth is that he is not bi anymore. He is homosexual. If her only talks to men and masturbates to homosexual porn then he is no longer sexualy attracted to women. Especially if he won't kiss you or hug you in a loving boyfriend ... (read in full...)

Can I keep seeing my professor, or is it a lost cause?

Q.   About a week ago, under fairly casual and normal circumstances I accepted a ride home from my college professor. The classes I take are evening classes part time, and he is not employed by the college directly, but began teaching this past ...

A.   10 October 2010: What your said about what you two did as being far from illegal is false. What you two did is called adultery and is against the law. If you want to slow down all you have to do is talk about it, but don't do anything drastic like what you did. This ... (read in full...)

How do I get her to fall in love with me?

Q.   How do I get the girl I love the most to fall deaply in love with me???? Maximum answer please......

A.   10 October 2010: There really is no trick to it, there is no magic spell or charm or anything like that. What you can do is answer to these questions. I f say yes to most of them then she most likely will fall in love with you. 1)When you are sitting in class do... (read in full...)

What does a naked man look like?

Q.   Hello. I am a teenager. My hormones are all over the place. I have always had more of a physical/emotional attraction to women. But I also like men. I just dont know what I am yet. I know what a woman looks like naked because I see myself in the ...

A.   10 October 2010: It's really hard to describe in just words, All I can say is to go on google and look it up. JUST DON'T GET CAUGHT!!!!!... (read in full...)

Is he serious when he says he wants a serious relationship?

Q.   MEN! how would i know when a man is serious when he tells a woman he wants to start a serious relationship? And HOW would i know if he just saying this because he's vulnerable and despaerate to just have someone to be with at that moment and time? ...

A.   9 October 2010: You can tell it in their voice. If he sits you down and looks you square in the eye then he is serious.... (read in full...)

Guys put off by a 24 year old virgin?

Q.   Do guys feel put off if a girl is a virgin at 24? I'm pretty shy and lacking in confidence because of being mentally and physically (not sexually) abused when I was younger. I've never told anyone that I'm a virgin because I find it really embarr...

A.   9 October 2010: First of all there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. You don't need to be jumping in bed with anybody if you don't want to. Guys aren't turned off if they find out, most actually prefer it. Just start a steady relationship with ... (read in full...)

Did my ex get my virginity?

Q.   my boyfriend and I were discussing our pasts with each other and we can't seem to agree on whether or not I am still a true virgin. Right before my ex and me broke up we did try and have sex, however he is quite large and after getting just a little ...

A.   9 October 2010: Yes it was your first time, it doesn't matter how far he went. He still put it in.... (read in full...)

Did I do something to turn him off?

Q.   I'm in Boston right now, met a cool guy. We hung out for a month, then he made a move on me and we've been close since then. I'm leaving Sunday to go back to the UK, we've hung out but he's different. Not as close, he's tired from class which I ...

A.   9 October 2010: He is probably just having a bad day. Something bad probably happened back at his place. Just wait a little while to let things start over and text him again. When people get hurt or sad they are really just crying out for attention. So give it a ... (read in full...)

The only time my b/f is nice is when he's drunk?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 yrs. All of a sudden, we haven't been getting along at all. Seems the only time he's nice, is when he's drunk. Last week, I went out for drinks and a game of pool like I always do with a c...

A.   9 October 2010: First of all drinking just to get drunk causes huge long-term problems, especially if you want to start a family. When I was a child I grew up in an alcoholic family. I can tell you all of the psychological problems that it comes with. If he only ... (read in full...)

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