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writes:Okay, so I submitted this once and got no replys so i am trying it again. So please please help me!this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend. And I had no idea who they were. one was bugging me so much to give him my number I had my friends mom blocked him. the other still trys to talk to me but i ignore him. But he still hits on me asking me if i think hes cute.then I went to my other friends house to stay the night, two of her friends added me on facebook and one said i was too hot to be her friend and i told him not to say that and he stopped, then the other one is from another country asked me some weird things( I dont wanna say them but if you wanna know just ask) and he wouldnt leave me alone no matter what i said so i blocked him. but i felt so bad when they called me that because im with my boyfriend and I love him but why did I feel so bad?
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (18 May 2011):
If simply being called hot bothers you, you should just learn to take it as a compliment, because as a teenager, it's going to be a while before you start looking old... at which point people will no longer call you hot, and at which point you will probably really miss it...
If someone is harassing you, you should understand that's going to happen as well to some degree and you should just limit your exposure to people who might behave that way. For instance, try making it so that people who aren't your friends on FB can't see your pictures, and only add people you actually know and like.
Basically, you should start by recognizing that your life would be a lot worse if people were calling you fat and ugly.
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reader, Odds +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Was this you?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/when-guys-hit-on-me-i-feel-badly.html
Give it a day or two, there are only so many users.
Anyway, you're probably the kind of person that wants other people to be happy. I'll bet you have a hard time saying "No" to reasonable requests, or that you get upset easily whenever there's any kind of conflict around you. That, and their attempts to hit on you were pretty clumsy (normal for your age, though). Flirting can be really annoying when someone isn't any good at it, but hopefully they'll learn from this and be better at it for the next girl they meet. It's just annoying to be on the receiving end of it.
I wouldn't worry too much, the feelings will go away.
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 i don't know why you felt bad hun, but you should just forget about it, maybe you should tell him to get it off your chest? because it's not like you've said anything back or anything that would be bad because you have a boyfriend. xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): you feel bad because u know the other guy is hurting..i went through the same thing.my boyfriends cousin wanted me to be his gf and i turned him down.i cried because i knew he wanted me so bad to be his gf.and althouh i didnt really like him.he liked me.and now i think that he hates me.ughhh.i think no matter what its wrong to date other ppl that arent ur bf.and i know that u feel bad.i felt awful when i turned down justin.good luck.i hope more ppl answer your question lol...
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