How to turn down Guys?
Q. So I feel a little ridiculous posting this but I never thought I'd have this problem! I need to figure out how to quickly, unambiguously turn men down. I feel so uncomfortable doing it that sometimes when I am asked to get together, I just...
A. 6 May 2019:
I actually think what you are doing is just fine , I don't like out and out rejection either . You don't have to be blunt and rude , just say " Sorry , its just not the correct time for me " and if you are that worried about it , do as you do a... (read in full...)
Why say you'll do something and then not do it?
Q. I'm just wondering if anyone has an insight into this coz i don't have a clue. I woz talking to this guy online last night, seemed like a nice guy and were having a nice conversation. He messaged me this morning saying he cud chat tonight, if i woz ...
A. 5 May 2012: You cant rely on On - Line chatting , anything could have happened ..his family might have come over . I have no problem with meeting people online ..But SOME just take it far too seriously , and who wants to sit around looking at a Screen ?? or ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship but in love with my chiropractor
Q. Hi I'm 24 and I've been In a serious relationship for 3years with a 1 year old daughter. I love my fiancé but I'm no longer In love but I wouldn't leave him. The last 3 months I been have real strong feeling for my chiroprator...i think about him in ...
A. 28 April 2012: The bottom line is that you are No longer in love with your Current Man , and you are constantly thinking about the Chiropractor and even lusting for his touch , you are Young and my the sound of it you possibly have not had " Great " Sex in a while ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to explore women but not be interested in them?
Q. I want your advice and insight. I'm straight, I have a boyfriend but I often have fantasies of having sex with girls and I really enjoy watching lesbian porn. It feels weird to say that, but I feel like it's true. Or...maybe it just really really ...
A. 30 March 2012: There is nothing Weird about it at all ..Dont put yourself in a Box , enjoy watching what you like . Its not unusual for girls to enjoy each others bodies , even if you consider yourself " Staight " .. Well , I know I certainly admire " Sexy " ... (read in full...)
Fallen for a teacher from my old school after only 4 dates! Am I actually his girlfriend yet or not?
Q. so this is kinda a long one! but i want to give you a clear story before i ask my question! i'm 19 yrs old and i'm still a student and i never had a boyfriend. as part of my course at my college i am doing a year abroad to study. so far out of 1...
A. 30 March 2012: You know what ?? ..My answer is WHO CARES what you call him ?? ..Its an exciting NEW relationship , you potentially have the start of something special ...
DONT WORRY ABOUT IT !!
Just get home and begin to enjoy each other ..See whic... (read in full...)
I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?
Q. Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I ...
A. 30 March 2012: Nothing wrong with an OPen relationship .
The problem is that reading between the lines ..Its NOT what you want . Now you must be honest ..What do you really want ? and are you Okey with it ?
Missing someone is still completely possi... (read in full...)
Would you spent a lot on a birthday gift for your partner if you received nothing for yours?
Q. Im curious to find out others opinions on this. Would you spent a considerable amount of money (over $400) on a birthday present for your boyfriend, if he did not get you anything for your birthday? (birthdays are few months apart). I know it isn't...
A. 30 March 2012: Well , Its not very nice of him I must say ..But to be honest , you cant give some awesome gift with a Condition on it . eg : I gave you this , so you have to get me that .
I think the honest answer is You spent to much on him . If you are ... (read in full...)
We had sex for the first time then he told me about all the other girls he had
Q. Hes been with a lot of other girls, and I want to be the last one. We just had sex for the first time, and when he was taking me home he started talking about all the other girls hes had. It made me feel really bad, but i didnt tell him cause I know ...
A. 24 March 2012: Honey ..Sorry you probably wont like this answer ..BUT YOU ARE TOO YOUNG . Leave this guy to continue with his ways , seriously ..Its not worth it . I can see he is going to make many problems for you ..
Please Please ..chalk it up to experien... (read in full...)
Do you think doggy style is romantic?
Q. honestly ,do you think doggy style is romantic or it`s just for fun ,animalistic passion . would you have doggy style with a woman that you`re in deep love with ,if she `s the sweet n nice type ,if not which position would u choose ? think u g...
A. 12 March 2011: I couldn't care less if its romantic , ITS GREAT ..THe pentration is just awesome and its my " fav' position .. The romantic link ..well thats up to the individual .. It sure destroys missionary ..certainly in my view .. ... (read in full...)
He spat on my vagina to lubricate it! Now I don't want him to touch me!
Q. While making love, my vagina was a bit dry so my partner spat into my vagina to lubricate it. i feel so degraded by this i cannot bear him to touch me since. Am i over reacting?...
A. 12 March 2011: In a word " Yes " ... Just a natural lubricant ..just relax enjoy , and get back to having some great Sex .... (read in full...)
I'm just confused about what's going on with this dude!
Q. Okay, i have a huge problem in here. I'm so confused as to whether this guy likes me or not. I first started having a crush on this guy who goes to my school in a party. That night i really felt like i wanna dance with him and get to know him and ...
A. 12 March 2011: Honey ..Its tough , but reach into your heart ..Just grab the courage to break the ice ..Its really not as difficult as I know it seems .... Id even be prepared to find his cell number though others and text ..But better face to face .. ... (read in full...)
Why do I like this guy when I know he's such a player???
Q. Well I really liked this guy last year and we would talk everyday. So my friend and I went over to his house one night, I was so happy until I saw the real him. He was such a player! The whole night he was touching me all over and when I saw him the ...
A. 12 March 2011: Girls always go for guys like this ..and you know what ? They rarely are " Cute " ..but they have " Something " .... You know what ? Dont do anything , just continue with your life ..this guy is rearly " risky business " .. I'd just flirt ,... (read in full...)
How can I be just friends with her, as she wants, when I'm in love with her?
Q. So I've been talking to this girl since Christmas and felt very strong about her, we became really close, she'd call me almost every day and we'd sometimes talk for hours, she'd often constantly joke about us getting married, which any guy would ...
A. 12 March 2011: This ones Easy ..Continue not to repond ..Any form of friendship is a complete waste of time , She just wants to control the situation . Dont do anything ..just continue to ignore her , It's a waste of energy .... (read in full...)
Is he needy and hard to please?
Q. im a 30 year old professional female,i met a guy through work who is older than me and divorced (hes 48) i didnt find him physically attractive but after asking me out a few times i agreed,got on well and formed a relationship and now see each other ...
A. 12 March 2011: I think he is testing you ...Thus far you have just agreed , I firmly believe this guy is an absolute soft on ...If you want to continue with him ( and thats up to you ) ..Tell him , you will be calling the shots .. Tell him you want some de... (read in full...)
Weekend fling. Now what??
Q. Okay, so I finally gave into one of my fantasies and had (protected) sex the other night with a complete stranger. It's completely out of my character for one, but I have to admit that this guy was the best I've EVER had in bed. I explained to him ...
A. 12 March 2011: Sweetie .. you are worrying about nothing ! There is nothing wrong with what you did ..you dont have any STD s , he wore a raincoat . Don't do anything , just enjoy your sexuality ..Nothing better than really enjoying a STRAY ... Dont pest... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to become a stripper. I am not sure if I am ok with it.
Q. My girlfriend wants to be a stripper. She has started working in a peep show. i.e women behind glass dancing together. I think she wants to do this as part of her sexual growth and exploration. She mentioned that she is thinking of working in a ...
A. 12 March 2011: There is nothing wrong with dancing ..Its a great way to make a few $$$$$ , I find it extremely liberating , and do I find it Great when the guys get turned on ? Absolutely ..It makes me feel a complete woman , knowing that I have caused their ... (read in full...)
Kids having sex!
Q. OK lately I see a lot of questions here where children from the age of 14-16,17 years think that they are old enough to have sex. They don't understand anything about it. They think that they are ready. There are even parents who agree with the idea ...
A. 12 September 2010: I think these Kids are FAR too young ..I encourage all ..Please where possible , wait ..wait ..until you are Older . I wish I did . Its an emotional time , especially for a female .... (read in full...)
Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?
Q. They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other ...
A. 12 September 2010:
Not that beautiful ..Dont trust or believe Any guys , you would be horrified if you saw exactly who they would have sex with ..Guys like to spread their seed , they will bang " nearly " anything with a heartbeat ..NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY .Guy... (read in full...)
Testing the waters...is it wrong to want to do so?
Q. So heres the situation, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He's the only serious and sexually relationship i've been in. I'll admitt he is a bit controlling and won't let me do much. And we've been dating since I was 15-16. Ever since ...
A. 3 May 2010: Time to cut clean the dead wood , I agree try someone who is going to have some real feeling for you and date an older man .
Variety is the spice of life !... (read in full...)
Men: Would you have treated a woman like this?
Q. I when out with this guy from work with his friends. We when to a couple of bars and a sushi place. We really hit it off. He bought me drinks that night. He stayed the night over at my place. We did not have sex but pretty close. The next ...
A. 3 May 2010: Sorry , I dont get why you just wanted him to buy you drinks ? Yet you wanted to pay for the train fare ? Why does he have to buy you drinks ? So he could get sexual favors in return ? Your pulling my chain girl !
I suggest the problem ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my want of a threesome?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend. She does not want to. i also like looking at porn and chatting on the net and understandably this upsets her. she says the threesome(watching porn ...
A. 2 May 2010: I think Its important that you do have a threesome , tell her to lighten up , Its just physical pleasure , once you have a great threesome , she will see what shes been missing out on ..and become a little more relaxed .
Theres nothing ... (read in full...)
He had a sly errection ..what did I do ??
Q. Hi everyone , Im a little confused over an incident that occured recently . There was a group of us going out for dinner and my boyfriend was driving ..we were one seat short , and seeing Im the smallest I jumped onto a male friends lap in th...
A. 2 May 2010: But that last answer kind of turns me on , I like the thought of him thinking about me , and even masturbating while he considers what it would be like to enter me ..Wow , What a turn on ...
But , you are correct I would just Deny Deny Den... (read in full...)
Big age difference--I'm afraid of being rejected so I don't show how I feel
Q. I have met somebody who I find completely lovely in every way. He is funny, really smart, he makes me smile all the time, and we share a lot of the same interests, I feel like we kind of have a connection but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...
A. 1 May 2010: My opinion ..Dont worry about anyone else , 14 years is nothing ..I say " Go fot it babe " ..run with your heart , live your life ..Go give him a call Now ! ..
Good luck .... (read in full...)
Is he just being nice to me, ...or does he actually like me?
Q. i've recently met this guy (one of my brother's friends), and to me personally he isn't that good looking; i never gave a second thought to ever liking him. situations have lead to the present, and he is now staying with us for a bit until he gets ...
A. 1 May 2010: There no doubt in my mind hes HOT for you , but I think maybe he thinks you dont feel the same .
I would MAKE SURE he knows you are keen , focus on him and look directly into his eyes when you talk to him , give his arm a gentle touch ..... (read in full...)
Can you dry hump naked?
Q. Can you dry hump naked?...
A. 22 March 2010: It is risky thats correct ..But I have done it , I like seeing the Big Penis nearly going in but just rubbing on the clit ..
Watch out for that pre - cum also , but sometimes they get so aroused they shoot when they are trying to hold on ... (read in full...)
Can a Teenage guy get an erection just from hugging a girl ?
Q. hi. could teenage boys get an erection even from a girl hugging them? ...
A. 22 March 2010: Its a funny question ..I have to go back in time , but when I was about 13 / 14 I remember the guys always having stiffies , we used to point at them and try and grab their hard ons from the outside of their pants .
I can remember sitting ... (read in full...)
Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns...
A. 22 March 2010: Not sure that there is an absolute answer , I can only answer from a personal point of view .
I love being licked ..I even love it when its a guy who isnt that good at it , if I could get just a little more flexible Id lick myself!
A... (read in full...)
My husband has colon cancer... need prayer and information.
Q. Hi. I have been married for over a year and a half now. July 16th will be our two-year anniversary. My husband has stomach and colon cancer. His hair is starting to fall out. He recently lost his job, and will be trying to look for another one so t...
A. 22 March 2010: Was very upset to read your question , but there are many positives . It sounds like he is young ? as you are only 22-25 ? , this means he has a good chance of beating it .
He is obviously undergoing Kemo ? thats why his hair is starting... (read in full...)
Why are men so cruel when it comes to dating us curvier women?
Q. Ok..I previously posted a question...I went on a blind date with a gentlement who I was talking to for 2 weeks..we were constantly on the phone and texting galore..It felt fantastic, he learned about me and I of him... I'm not big, but I'm not a ...
A. 24 February 2010: Some people here are saying men can be superficial and cruel ..lol lol Make no mistake women can be also !
If hes not attracted to you its NOT his fault , It was a blind date ..He told you he liked Slim girls .
You either get into ... (read in full...)
Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me ...
A. 21 February 2010: Monica , answers the question really well .
I have danced in the past , and really enjoyed it ..but the thing I didnt need after work was Sex , I had no interest . When you have just done 35 privates , and all of those guys had errectio... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says my work dress is too Sexy !
Q. Hi everyone .. A problem about the clothing I wear to work. My boyfriend says that the clothese I wear to work are too sexy and too revealing . BUT THEY ARE NOT! I do like tight body hugging dress / suits which suit my figure, but Im very care...
A. 16 February 2010: I admit honestly ..I like to be looked at . I think that MOST women do .If you dont that cool ..
But this has nothing to do with the question , most women want to be looked at ..and admired ..
Thats certainly what I want ..no matter... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says my work dress is too Sexy !
Q. Hi everyone .. A problem about the clothing I wear to work. My boyfriend says that the clothese I wear to work are too sexy and too revealing . BUT THEY ARE NOT! I do like tight body hugging dress / suits which suit my figure, but Im very care...
A. 16 February 2010: I think all girls like to be looked at , relationship or not ..makes you feel Sexy .... (read in full...)
He makes me feel like a criminal because of my past. Help?
Q. Hello. I'm at my wits end. I'm hopelessly in love with my boyfriend. The problem is he is obsessed with my past. I have been completely faithful to him. In the beginning of the relationship he said he didn't want to know anything about my past, he ...
A. 16 February 2010: Sorry Honey ..after reading all that , Its simply not you who has the problem . When I started reading I thought you going to say you had committed some criminal act! I know you say you love him ..But my advice is to get of him , hes an idi... (read in full...)
I spent Valentines Day spent alone while my bf preferred to be with his friends!! Advice?
Q. well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for ...
A. 15 February 2010: Sweetie ..Its says you are about 14 ?? Is that correct ?
Then seriously all seems such a BIG DEAL at 14 , please just do something active and dont worry about it too much .
Hes just a young boy also , you two will be fine ..
Ta... (read in full...)
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