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| | *sk JenniHearts's profile:Hi my name is Jenni Hearts. i've been helping people for about 3 years. i've been through it all. i wish that alot of this havn't happened but they always do. i'm not your average girl so you ask me guy questions cuz i most likely can answar them. and i'm still a girl so you can ask me girl stuff to.
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The sex is horrible - should I marry?
Q. dear cupid i have been with my bf/fiance for over a year now and the sex is horrible..we both know we have issues in that section but he always want to do it and i dont..today he wanted to do it and i said no..he like do you want me im like yes but ...
A. 19 April 2009: ... stop... physical chemistry is just as important in a relationship just as much as emotional chemistry... you have to be able to love someone for their everything to be in a married situation and to b happy marriage isn't always the key component ... (read in full...)
The whole story - I don't know what to do any more?
Q. I love my boyfriend of 13 years with all my heart and soul! I can't picture my life without out him and I really don't want to! We have always had an awesome relationsip! Right now it's a bit rough-1st time ever! I just wanna fix it! He recent...
A. 25 March 2009: e-mail me... we can talk on a deeper level...
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Is my boyfriend being disrespectful?
Q. Today my boyfriend was talking to his friends and they were talking about me and saying how much of a baby I am and then he was talking about our sex life and stuff like that and my boyfriend was just sitting there and laughing and thinking that it ...
A. 25 March 2009: no that was rude and disrespectful! how dare he.. confront him and tell him that is not i repeat NOT OK!!!
hope this helps
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I'm a virgin but I haven't had my period in 2-3 months
Q. Ok I'm 13 and I'm a virgin but I havnt had my period in 2 almost 3 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom what should I do?????...
A. 20 March 2009: because your younge your cycle is adjusting to your body and your activities.
if you play alot of sports sometimes you will miss it
but its nothing to worry about ... if your a virgin....
hope this helps
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Is he jealous that I'm with his friend now?
Q. I met this guy one night and we ended up getting into a makeout session lol He was really horny but I didnt do anything with him. I found out that he was a major player and he sleeps around a lot. My friend lives with him and he tells me that he ...
A. 20 March 2009: OHHH he;s got it bad.. you are the fish that got away... you were his prey and you should him you didn't care by coosing his friend... he'll keeping being sort of a cock block and trying to get in the middle of things... just keeps strong and ... (read in full...)
Can our relationship ever go back to the way it was?
Q. Hi Im 23 and really need some advice on the biggest mistake I have ever made. My boyfriend and I have been dating since I was in high school and is the greatest guy in the world. We live to together and know that someday we will be married. A fe...
A. 18 March 2009: well it would take alot of time and healing. things like this sometimes go back and sometime wont. you just need to be strong about the the situation and hold your head high its noones fault you where slipped that pill.... so dont let your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date someone who I'm very attracted to but with whom I can't see a future together?
Q. I've recently started dating / going out with a girl (31 yrs old) who I'm very attracted to, and who I get the impression is also really attracted to me (I'm a 28 yrs old guy). Which is great. The trouble is, we both have ideas about our long-ter...
A. 12 February 2009: this is just the beginning of the relationship. feelings like that grow with the relationship you can' just force them there. its smart you want to wait and have kids later with the economy how it is. she wants kids which is understandable. but you ... (read in full...)
Has a woman ever broken up with a man and then realized what she had?
Q. I was in a very good relationship with a wonderful woman. She broke up with me by email, when just a few days before she told me she was the happiest she has ever been before in her life and it was due to me being in her life. In the email she ...
A. 24 January 2009: "never know what you got till its gone" its a fase that many people go through. i don't know her side of the story so i cant very well promise you she'll be back. but i can tell you to give it a few days, maybe a week. but she definatly needs the ... (read in full...)
Twisted relationship with cousin
Q. I have had and am having sexual relations with my cousin. He is my age. We are both 16. I have always kind of liked him but never said anything because he is my cousin obviously. So nobody ever knew. The summer before 8th grade he started feeling ...
A. 22 January 2009: well he's your cousin so you need to tell your self that constently. keep reminding yourself that and you'll get more descusted by it... tell him how you feel and maybe he;ll think the same way...
hope this helps
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We got into a bad fight and he slapped me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Our relantionship has always been up and down. He has cheated on me couple of times and I've forgived him. Just last Sep we broke up and got back together in late Nov. Things were going good trying to ...
A. 20 January 2009: it is time to leave.
i;ve been in abusive relationships and they start out like this
he slaps you and makeyou think its your fault and you take himback
then you hits you and says you made homdo it
then your sitting in a hopsital and y... (read in full...)
I have alot of issues and just wondering if anyone has any advice?
Q. Hi, umm..this is a little tricky to start cos I've never used one of these before. I suppose I'll start with some background? When I was younger, my dad used to abuse me a lot. I mean both just being violent and sexually. It's made me feel rea...
A. 19 January 2009: Don't be sorry for anything first of all... none of this is your fault. your not being selfish by telling people. your doing the right thing don't ever put yourself down. thats the last thing you need to do right now! you sound like a good guy and ... (read in full...)
I don't prefer breast feeding, but I have an alternative, what do you think?
Q. I'm not pregnant, I don't have any children, I'm not in a relationship. But I have been asked the question if I did have a child would I breast feed. I don't want to. Now, I'm willing to pump the milk and bottle feed. People have reacted so hosti...
A. 17 January 2009: some people say that breast feeding is another way a mother and her child connect on a special bond. some people are just old fasioned and think it should be doe that way. some babies now a das refuse to breat feed because of the chemicals we put in ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait for a ring?
Q. Hey, I've been in a relationship for 3 years now with my boyfriend. We met when I was 16, it was quickly love, we're both very serious about each other. After a year I started thinking about getting engaged, I spoke with him. He hinted that it was ...
A. 17 January 2009: there is really no nest step. it;s realy the three roads
1. he commitsyou get engaged and ultamatly get married
2. you stay content with the relationship that you are in (you don't always need a ring and wedding vows to have a furfullin commited... (read in full...)
Attracted to a girl in my class but I think she's straight...
Q. Ok, I really, really need help .I am a senior in high school; and I think I have a "Different" kind of crush. You see, I sit behind a girl in class, who I consider to be talkative and extremely annoying...But I think I have fallen for her. Recently ...
A. 16 January 2009: its always hard to fing=d out if some one you like is straight or gay. i'm a bisexual living in south texas... i can hear the kkk running up as i type. you have to watch her movement twords girls and see how she approaches them. as around and just ... (read in full...)
How do women feel about a foot fetish man?
Q. Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...
A. 16 January 2009: My brother in-law has a foot fetish and he kept it from my sister for a good porton of them before marrige. my sister found out about it and thinks its cute. she takes pictures of her feet and send them to him in iraq.
not all women are grossed ... (read in full...)
What is with exs??
Q. WHY DO EXES ALWAYS....? why do exes always ring you after so long and try to talk to you and wants to get back together?? soo dumb they had their chances and they messed about.. whats up with that? PLEASE ANSWER...??...
A. 16 January 2009: its the insicurity factor. they want to know that they can get some thing. it's not that they think your desprite or anyting but they wanna know that they can have a fall back. its awful but it happens. some are actually truthful and want you back ... (read in full...)
Spicing it up
Q. hey guys, im looking for things that will really turn my boyfriend on while we're together or making out. we have some uhm..games i guess you could say and i've tried alot but i want to spice things up. so girls, anything you've done* to yous guy ...
A. 16 January 2009: while your kissing him take one hand out from behind his back and put it on his tummy area and move down slowly tickling him with your nails. but down go in the pants. get to his package and whisper in his ear that thats what you want...
hope this... (read in full...)
My dad says either the family or the boyfriend...
Q. I am 18 years old and have a bf who is Hindu. I am sikh which can be seen as a problem within my family. However my mum, who is relaxed knows about my boyfriend and has met and spoke with him on several occasions. His parents and grandparents know ...
A. 16 January 2009: this is a very tricky question. i am just dumbfounded that your father would go to so extreme messures as to make you pick between the family you love and the man you love. i understand about the culture difference but this is 2009. women are ... (read in full...)
Great at giving advice to others but can't help myself... HELP!
Q. Teenage issues, friends with problems, I give them advice, but when it comes to myself, I'm useless! Boys, one in particular, but we've been amazing friends for just over a year. I liked him before, told him and he rejected me, we continued bei...
A. 15 January 2009: tell him you like him. tel hi to atleast try it out.
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I don't want him to think of me as a child because of our age difference...
Q. I am almost 17, and I met a guy at the place I work. I instantly felt a connection with him, and I think I really like him. He's a freshman in college, so he's probably about 19. We were talking a lot and he seemed to be interested but I couldn't ...
A. 15 January 2009: age means nothing in todays generation... we live we laugh we learn but age isn't something that men have problems with.
he wont look at you as a child if you don't act like one...
i'm with a guy 2 years older then me and we have a healthy s... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend doing this???
Q. We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...
A. 15 January 2009: teo words came to me as i read this...MOVE ON. this isn't a healthy relationship. you might think that your falling for him but it seems he'l fallingout of it with you... i know its not fair and we don't get what we want but you need to find someone ... (read in full...)
I'm up at my dad's and BORED!
Q. I feel really depressed, I am on holidays at my dad's and the only kids I know up here are two girls who when we first met, got along really well but now I feel they only talk to me when they have to because they are friends of the family. I took a ...
A. 15 January 2009: do what i do. make friends. go to a mall or the movies or to an arcade. when im bored i write another chapter to my stories.
hope this helps... (read in full...)
Dating 3 years, pregnant and he tells me he don't love me!!!!
Q. Well, My name doesnt matter. I'm 19 years old. My bf is 28 years old. And we've been together for almost 3 years now. And I'm pregnant almost 3 months. I love him, and I do love him to death, It's just hard for me to tell him, I love you, after ...
A. 15 January 2009: move out... you have a baby to think about. this stress you bad for you and the baby. you depressed and not happy. leave him to his porn. i know you love him but sometimes we love something we shouldn't. i know you have the baby to think about but ... (read in full...)
Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?
Q. I want to plan a nice night leading up to sex for my girlfriend. Ladies do you have some suggestions on planning a nice night leading up to sex?...
A. 15 January 2009: cook for her. take her dancing maybe something you think will knock her off her feet and into your bed. maybe write her a poem from your heart.... (read in full...)
He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!
Q. Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. ...
A. 15 January 2009: hi my name is jenni hearts... goe ahead and e-mail me and i'll be here to listen... (read in full...)
Is this what it's like to be in love?
Q. what is wrong with me.. whenever me and my boyfriend get mad at each other he says goodbye then i say bye but i always end up trying to get him to talk to me. and he doesn't.. he just talks to me when ever he feels like it. and it makes me so sad.. ...
A. 15 January 2009: in the past i've tried to find lov in all the wrong place. i've been beaten by all my other boyfriends and i've been dated raped. but 3 years ago i met someone i thought it was just something of a fling but now we talk every day every hour. i moved ... (read in full...)
Any couples still together after high school?
Q. ok ive been with my bf fi a year. and im not going to college for another yr but i grad this year. he wont graduate till next year. and im not going to college for a year. i would really like to know is there any couples out there that've graduated ...
A. 15 January 2009: my next door neighbors were middle school sweet hearts... and life is alot in collage but i'm two years younger then my boyfriend... and he's in collage now and i'm following soon.. we've been together for 2 years ...
it will work but remeber ... (read in full...)
Is wanting to have sex with your step aunt wrong?
Q. is wanting to have sex with your step-aunt wrong? is that incest if you have only known her like 4 years?...
A. 15 January 2009: its not incest if it's a step aunt. i wouldn't edvise it because it could make tention between the families. but you go with yo bad self
hope this helps
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Confusing guy problems
Q. I know this is a little long but please read. This guy has been so confusing lately. It all started in the summer when I told him I liked him. He said he wanted to get to know me more and just stay friends, but that a relationship was a possibility ...
A. 15 January 2009: he might be just messing with your head but theres a strong possibility that he may like you
but on the other hand alot of my guy friends tell me how pretty i look or complament me i guess i'd have to know how he acts around everyone to really s... (read in full...)
Three years and he still calls me by HER name
Q. HI. I am having a similar problem to one problem that I just read. My Fiance called me by his ex wives name. AGAIN!!! First time we were in bed in the A.M. and he said "H" go make my coffee. Now my name is "P". Those names are nothing alike. Second ...
A. 15 January 2009: don't sweat it too much but don't just let it go either. they most have been married for a while to still have her name sitting in the bback of his mind but really he must have a loton his mind because he knows that it must hurt you when he says ... (read in full...)
Why am I always falling for "taken" guys?
Q. Why is it that the guys I like either already have girlfriends or get them as soon as I realise I like them? Is there something wrong with me?...
A. 14 January 2009: there is nothing wrong with you sweetie. taken guys are the ones who are the best to talk to. look you can still be there friends and be there for them. i have more guy friends then gal friends and we hang out and watch movies and when their days go ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this mystery caller?
Q. Hallo, i think u can help. I am a single guy of 19. Um so shy n introvert. Had never been in a relationship before. Well da thing is for last two weeks i ve been getting friendship texts n miss calls from an unknown number. I did never reply cause ...
A. 14 January 2009: how she got your number is a good question indeed. but she got it and she likes you enough to keep talking. i think that you should just keep talking to her and be friendly try and meet up some where not just as a date maybe she brings friends and ... (read in full...)
Am I his girl or what?
Q. I have been seeing a man for the past 4 months... We usually spend time at his place. We eat together, and cook sometimes,watch movies,t.v., talk and spend quiet time. We are intimate, and have amazing sex. We truly enjoy each others company ...
A. 14 January 2009: yes you are a major women in his world but you need to tell his friend to back off politly. you need to take the first move and ask if this is a commitment or a dating thig. not to be harsh but some men have 3 women.
1 the main woman
2 the w... (read in full...)
Can we make it work when we can't see each other?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a good 5 months now. Recently he got kicked out of the house by the lady he was staying with which was supposed to be his mother that took him in to help him make a better life. Well being that his real ...
A. 14 January 2009: i'm currently in a long distance relationship. and i'm holding up fine i moved away three states over. they work. but only with alot of effort, time, trust, and love. and a web cam helps. lol.
if you two want this to work. it will work
hooe... (read in full...)
Husband had an affair!
Q. I found out my husband of 3 years had an affair with his colleague. They even had sex. He promised to change but i do not how to forget and forgive him. I wanted to leave him but i have no heart to see my only daughter grow up in a broken family. ...
A. 14 January 2009: my father did the same thing to my mother but she stayed and he did it again. they finally got a divorce and he married one of the people he cheated on her with. look the moral of the story is that leperds never change their spots. i'm sorry i know ... (read in full...)
Fitness advice for thighs
Q. Fitness question! I'm currently a student having a bit of a fight with the fat on my thighs. I love my body everywhere else and am worried if I start trying o loose lots of weight, I'll loose weight form the parts of my body I'm already happy ...
A. 14 January 2009: i have the same problem i've been on a great diet. one really great excersise you can do. lay flat on your back with one leg bent up with your toe faceing the cieling. then thrust your pelvis upwards (slowely) do this 10 to 15 times (if its easy do ... (read in full...)
How do I tell b/f I watched porn and it made me horny?
Q. my boyfriend and and i were talking today and i asked him if u saw porn(we were just getting to know each other better). he told me that he he use to watch porn, but its been awhile since he has seen any. yet when he asked me idk what to say cuz i ...
A. 14 January 2009: look guys watch porn its a givin... they might not just come out to a new girl that they do. but think of it this way. if you watched a porn and it made you horny then you to can do it together. some guys like it when girls can do that kind of stuff ... (read in full...)
Is she prego?
Q. Hey, my girlfreind might be pregnant, shes really worried bout it. and now her pants are getting tighter and that worried her more. I think its just extra fluf from the holydays. but shes really worried nad doesn't want to get a test. so how long ...
A. 14 January 2009: it depends on how her body is structured. my friend is pregnate and its been 4 months and she's barley showing. she could show in 1 months she could show in 4. but the most important thing is to watch for spotting. that could be a sign for a ... ... (read in full...)
Period now late by 10 days
Q. Im going to ask a question about pregnacy again; i really need help well its been almost 3 weeks since i been done sex we used a condom tho but still and i suppose to have my period few days ago and i missed it already for 10 days and im really ...
A. 14 January 2009: just incase you should take another test. but a different brand. but if it says negative then your fine. some times your body sends out hormones that have some charactoristics of the prego ones ... because you've missed they are hormones still in ... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!
Q. Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the uglie...
A. 14 January 2009: i've seen this happen before. now let me start out by saying DONT LOOSE GRIP! you know what you did was wrong and i bet you would take it back. but now that it's happened you have to keep moving forward.
she was the one blind to it in the firs... (read in full...)
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