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writes:dear cupidi have been with my bf/fiance for over a year now and the sex is horrible..we both know we have issues in that section but he always want to do it and i dont..today he wanted to do it and i said no..he like do you want me im like yes but i dont want to have sex//i always try to avoid it and get myself out of it..what should i do..i hate sex with him and i dont know if i should marry someone when i dont have a psychical chemistry with Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): I am a very sexual person, and have always enjoyed it any where and any time but with my fiance he just doesnt last long enought, I have to remain still in order for him not to orgasm, the list goes on. In the begining he was a champion for like the first month and a half now its been a year and I just want to go to sleep when hes there. I feel your pain and wish I could say yes thats what you should do but I am currently trying to figure out whether I should go or stay. I have relatives that tell me I place to much importance on sex but when you have someone that is so inexperience and unskilled I think they are dead wrong, currently working up the nerve to say good bye...!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i have enjoyed sex before..i lost my virginity to my ex and i still have feelings for him..i love both..but the sex with my current bf is horrible..he has a small one which i dont mind jus know how to work it..but he doesntknow how to work it either..and i cant break up with him because he is amazing and is so sweet and caring but then there is no chemistry in sex..i dont kno if with him there is but with me there isnt..i always find myself avoiding interaction with him and he knows it..i want to marry him but i dont kno what to do about this
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): You hate sex with him? Why? Do you like sex with other men? Another guy in particular? What's going on?
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 ... stop... physical chemistry is just as important in a relationship just as much as emotional chemistry... you have to be able to love someone for their everything to be in a married situation and to b happy marriage isn't always the key component in life but you should tr sex therapy maybe you are meant to be but the sex life hasn't reached it's climax.
hope this helps
Jenni Hearts
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