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*helseacrandel
writes:Hi Im 23 and really need some advice on the biggest mistake I have ever made. My boyfriend and I have been dating since I was in high school and is the greatest guy in the world. We live to together and know that someday we will be married.A few months ago we got into a huge fight at a bar because he was flirting really bad with some girl. So I left and went to another bar with a few girls I worked with. I got really drunk and made out with some guy just to get back at my b/f. A few drinks turned into alot of drinks and I apparently called my b/f in tears saying that I was needed is help then hung up my phone. I guess my b/f and his friend searched all night for me. (I dont remeber calling him or even leaving the bar for that matter). The next morning I woke up in a strange hotel room naked. I called my b/f and he came and got me. after going to the clinic i found out thar the guy I was with slipped me te date rape drug and now everyting is under a police investagation. My b/f blames himself and I feel so guilty I can barely look at him. Can our relationsip ever go back to where it was?
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 well it would take alot of time and healing. things like this sometimes go back and sometime wont. you just need to be strong about the the situation and hold your head high its noones fault you where slipped that pill.... so dont let your boyfriend take the blame.
if he really loves you he will be willing to keep going and support you still..
love is a major key in a relationshipp and you kniw he cares because he is trying to take the blame. i was slipped a date rape drug a year a go. and it changed my entire life... dont let it take over ... you control the fututre not that one night...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): wow, I'm sorry this happened to you. I think your relationship can go back to normal, depending on you. You need to get counseling, otherwise you're going to keep blaming yourself. He will stand by you throughout this. Keep positive and accept his support.
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