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Is she playing hard to get?

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Question - (17 July 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I've been talking to this girl for the past 2 weeks and I've told her that I like her and she said that she likes me too. We would always text each other everyday and flirt.

But last sunday we were supposed to hang out, but she cancel on me last min...ever since than she has been giving me mixed signals. One min she would say how I make her smile and the next she would be completely ignore me and won't even bother texting me back. I don't know what to do...does she still like me or is she playing hard to get? Should I ignore her back and just stop texting her?

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A female reader, Angel S United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2012):

Angel S agony auntHey,

I guess if I was in your situation I would just stop texting her. See if she does end up contacting you again. She sounds like she doesn't really know what she's doing and hasn't made her mind up about you yet.

I guess you could try and call her and arrange something over the hpone rather than in a text or if you really wanted to start speaking to her again you could just text/speak to her normally just forgetting about meeting up to take the pressure off and then suggest it later on.

Good luck, let us know how you get on!

Xo xo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012):

She said her mom wouldnt let her leave. I've been trying to do that, but she's been ignoring me so I can't really talk to her.

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A female reader, BondGirl72 United States +, writes (18 July 2012):

BondGirl72 agony auntWhat was her reason for canceling on you? I did this once in high school. I agreed to go out with a guy and then when he showed up, told him I was getting back together with my ex boyfriend. I just didn't want to go out with him, but then, I quit talking to him completely. I did not send mixed signals. If she really liked you, she would not be playing hard to get. She may be intimidated or a bit scared if she hasn't dated much before. I would call her and ask her to go out again. Tell her there is no pressure, so if she does not like you or does not want to go out, it is ok. See what she says.

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