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writes:I'm being shallow, but am I being stupid thinking this. I mean of course, most the time guys don't think in the same way girls do.Anyway, Facebook is of course what teenager use a lot of. Well, These two guys who i've been talking to for a while after meeting them at a party have asked for my Facebook (I like both), but thing is I know if I accept them of course they'll go look at my photos. But what I'm unsure about is, what if they look at my profiles and think 'she's not that pretty', 'that's a bad photo of her', 'she looks stupid doing that pose' etc. Basically what i'm saying is what if they judge me and lose interest in seeing me again based on my photos and don't think i'm as they say 'beautiful', as they remember me being, I don't want them to think 'I must of been fairly drunk' to of been interested.I don't think i'm bad looking, I do think i'm attractive. But what I think are good photos and have posted on there, they might look at and not think so. Am I being silly and what should I do? I mean does anybody else think like this? What if they stop talking to me, I'll think it's because of that!
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reader, Angel S  +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Hi,
Just accept them, don't change your picture just because of some boys and do not worry about them either. Those pictures are you and I am sure they are not 'bad photos' as you may think because lets be honest you would not post them online if you thought they were that bad! And again its not always about photos they obviously liked you at this party so you shouldn't be worrying.
If tey did stop talking to you it could be for several reasons, us girls know what some guys can be like, talking to a number of girls at once just because they can. And if they do appear to be guys like that then it isn't you that has lost out.
Never be afraid to be who you are, let us know how you get on!
Xo xo
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