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Condoms in his wallet change? Is he cheating?

Q.   My boyfriend is 19 and I am 18. We've been together for around 5 months now. Im his first girlfriend. He is so gentle, caring and affectionate, and is generally a very nice guy. We get along exceptionally well, and it has been this way since ...

A.   2 November 2012: My boyfriend has them in his wallet, and we haven't had sex yet, he told me he keeps them for a just in case moment hahah. Totally nothing to worry about. If you are worried just ask him. ... (read in full...)

My grandfather is very ill, b/f wants to go out drinking for his birthday and I'm in a funk! HELP!

Q.   Need advice on how to shake this mood off I've had a for a few days now, it's really taking a toll on my relationship. So I got told that my Grandad has only a couple of days left. But my boyfriend birthday is soon and is going out to drink and...

A.   2 November 2012: We talked it through and stuff and decided to go for a meal a day before his birthday, I'll be staying in and he will be going out. He did say he was gutted more than anything that I'm not gonna be there but he totally understands. I just feel ... (read in full...)

My second Bf ever. He's older. Do I tell him I'm a virgin? Will that discourage him?

Q.   I'm in high school and my boyfriend has been out of high school for a few years. I'm still virgin but he doesn't know it. We have only been dating for about a month. We have talked about our past and he has had more experience with other girls ...

A.   2 September 2012: Don't tell him till he asks you. Odds are he probably be able to guess if you are or not depending on how much time you spend together. If he does run away or whatever for you being a virgin then he's not worth it.... (read in full...)

Will using a dildo make first time sex any easier?

Q.   I want to use a dildo before i have sex for the first time to avoid pain, possible bleeding and so that he'll be able will fit (and not know that i'm a virgin). Some of my friends had bad experiences with their first time- like their BF got a p...

A.   24 August 2012: I know you've probably heard this before but, if the guy doesn't has a problem with you being a virgin then he's not worth your time. I'm a virgin with a boyfriend and I really didn't want to tell him but when he eventually asked I told him, and he ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my boyfriend get jealous when other guys look at me?

Q.   So I was wondering whether I am right to be concerned that my boyfriend never gets jealous of other guys looking at me or get jealous at all, why? Is it because I'm a virgin? ...

A.   29 July 2012: I thought it was normal because of boyfriends ive had in the past have always been jealous. Thanks for all your advice, I will go thank my lucky stars I have a wonderful boyfriend!... (read in full...)

Love, virginity, scared. How do I deal with my fears about losing my virginity with my BF?

Q.   So I'm a virgin a complete utter virgin, but I think I might be too childish or I am thinking too childish about sex. My body is telling me it wants to but my head is saying different. I'm not scared of having sex, I'm just scared of what my ...

A.   27 July 2012: Well I've been with my boyfriend 4 months, he isn't a virgin he knows I am and isn't pressuring me into and is willing to wait. The only thing that he is wanting to do is finger me, (sorry don't know the correct term). I'm just afraid of what he'll ... (read in full...)

How do I confront him without sounding childish?

Q.   So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...

A.   18 July 2012: Angel S I keep thinking it probably is nothing but even if it is I'm still going to tell him that it hurt or upset me so that he doesn't do it again. Thanks for the advice though! xx... (read in full...)

How do I confront him without sounding childish?

Q.   So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...

A.   18 July 2012: Karlos5021 I'm not sure of when she slept with him because it was before I knew him, but she did sleep with my ex after we broke up. I don't want to come across as though I'm totally blowing things out of proportion. I plan on confronting him but ... (read in full...)

How do I confront him without sounding childish?

Q.   So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...

A.   18 July 2012: Hi Angel S Thanks that's what I was planning on doing, it's just the people around me are saying that he'll just say that or whatever, and make me look like a mug or something. I do trust him to a point but the people around me are making me doubt... (read in full...)

Guys, what the hell? Why do you do this to us girls?

Q.   I've been dating this amazingly gorgeous and super smart guy for over three months now. In the first weeks he was really into me, taking me out to dinner all the time and really affectionate with me. After two months I made the mistake of telling ...

A.   18 July 2012: I'm not a male answering this; But just be upfront with him and ask him if he was alright or not with you saying the L word. Just be open and honest that's the best you can do. Good luck! ... (read in full...)

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