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I'm 25 and love a married man who's 52! I know it's wrong but down know what to do...
Q. I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is aweful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I ...
A. 25 May 2007: You answered your own question dear..
It's hard to break away from a loved one..
But it appears that would be the best move to make..
I hope you get through it with minimal pain.
Good luck, A x... (read in full...)
I get the feeling he's only using me for sex...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 8weeks now and i get the impression he is only using me for sex he says he isnt but thats not the impression i am getting. he wakes me up touching me and everytime that we go out he always touches me in my private ...
A. 25 May 2007: Middle finger job dear.
If your not comfortable with him touching you like that then you have to clearly let him know that.
If he continues after that, progress with the middle finger.
You don't have to ''give him'' sex to keep him happy.
Sex... (read in full...)
We seperated for two months and he slept with two other people... can this be overcome?
Q. I am new to this lifestyle but after 3 years my partner and I ran into so tuff time, we sperated for 2 months, I so loved him but had serious jealousy issues, He would come to see me often while we were apart, We had gotten back togeather and I ...
A. 19 May 2007: You just have to trust him mate..
If you were broke up he didn't do anything wrong.
If you ever get worked up about him doing somthing...
Close your eyes, and remember him telling you he woulden't.
You can get through it.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
When I try to give her a little peck, she squirms and says that my lips are too "wet".. ! Yet she lets our dogs lick her face!?
Q. Dealing with intimacy and self-image.... I am 32 and my girlfriend of two years is 26. Our relationship is good in that we work very well together as a team, running our household, get along well, have very similar senses of humor, tastes in...
A. 19 May 2007: They are solveable..
By the sounds of it she's not comfortable in her own skin around you.. Or anyone for that matter...
I had this once.. This is not my advice, as it could go very wrong, but.. Go in when she's in the bath, or shower.. and jus... (read in full...)
how do i get over my best friends boyfriend
Q. how do i get over my best friends boyfriend? this guy is amazing, he has told me he has though about us but he loves my best friend too much, he doesn't know i like him but I'm sure he suspects it. my parents want me to go out with him but cons...
A. 13 May 2007: A wise owl once said..
'' You don't fall out of love with someone untill you fall in love with someone else. ''
Nobody wants to be alone, and the heart won't start moving on from someone untill it has somewhere to go.
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What do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together?
Q. I really need help, what do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together and your friends don't understand and your mum would proberly say that your not in love its proberly just ...
A. 12 May 2007: First of all.. Ignore your friends. You know how you feel, they don't have a clue. Parents have a way of putting young relationships' down and that can be frustrating.. Care to follow up with abit more detail on the situation? Who are you in lo... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any idea why my periods are so strange?
Q. hi its just a short question, does anyone have any idea why my periods r strange?? i dont ge period pains but they kill me with pain it doesnt hurt or give me stomach pains but i get a pain i can not cope with when the blood actually comes o...
A. 12 May 2007: I'm a guy.. Sorry, hold out for a more.. informative answer. If it really hurts i suggest you go and get it properly checked out though, nobody can give you the proper advice on here.... (read in full...)
His so-called friend is creating problems in our relationship! What should I do?
Q. My future husband has a friend which is constantly trying to ruin our relationship out of jealousy as he spends all his money and days getting drunk. My fiancee knows im sensitive about him as we have only gotten into arguments when he has been with ...
A. 9 May 2007: Broken trust is a hard one to replace..
Tell him you need help.. Ring him when hes' not with you and let him know you want an answer to get the re-assurance.... (read in full...)
He cut me off completely...is this because he needs spacea and does it sound like we'll get back together?
Q. My boyfriend and I had dated for 5 months but we became so close in those 5 months. Our relationship was what I consider healthy and we didnt fight much. One day however we did get in a fight and that ended our relationship, he broke it off suddenly ...
A. 9 May 2007: A wise hamster once said..
'' It's not how much you argue.. It's how you get past them arguments and how you deal with them. ''
Maybe the fact you didn't argue says somthing about how close you really were? First real argument and he's off?
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He says my blow jobs are out of this world, so why the need to finish him off by hand ??
Q. I have been sleeping with this man for about a month. I really enjoy giving blowjobs and he seems to enjoy them aswell. He keeps saying that my blowjobs are 'out of this world', that I am a tease and how much he loves that... however, I'm not quite ...
A. 9 May 2007: It's all about Rhythem.. it's hard to get into a steady one with your mouth, as the other reply said - Guide it with your hand.. Take him by suprise and use both towards the end. He'll sure as hell appriciate it.
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He says that we will marry and have children, but cant seem to believe him as he wasnt there for me!!
Q. I'm really confused about the way my boyfriend feels about me. He says he loves me, says he's going to marry, says we'll have children. He says all the right things, like i'm the most important thing to him and he just wants to see me happy. (h...
A. 9 May 2007: People aren't perfect.. He made a mistake.
He sounds like a nice guy.. genuine which is rare in the 'market' - You have to cut him a little slack.... (read in full...)
I'm back home in Egypt but want to tell this girl in Canada ..I love her! Any tips?
Q. I used to live in canada for a semestre, but now i have come back to my home in egypt, but while i was in canada i loved this girl,and i still love her,but how can i tell her i love her?...
A. 25 April 2007: I think your best bet was to tell the girl you love about your feelings back when you were in the same country.. now it might be hard to convey the feelings, at your age I don't really have any realistic advice to give..
If it's worth it.. Han... (read in full...)
I can't stop loving my cousin still!
Q. Hi I'm 19 years old and I've been in love with my cousin for so long. Ever since i wa 5 and he was 10. We were deeply in love until he was 15 and he started to change his way with me. That now we almost never talk! Every time i meet someone new i ...
A. 25 April 2007: This is just one of them things that hurt dear..
Your going to have to swallow down and forget your childhood hero. He's moved on, it's time to do the same.
Good luck with finding new love.
It is out there.... (read in full...)
Dating 2 months, and don't know what move to make on her next...any suggestions?
Q. My gf and i have been together for 2 months. It is both of our first relationships, and we are attending the same college next year. I like her a lot, but since we go slow, i dont know what to do next. We make out and cuddle, is there something i/we ...
A. 25 April 2007: That's great.
My advice to you is that you talk to her, and let her know that your serious about the relationship.. most importantly let her know that she does turn you on.. (Don't want to offend her now...) But you just want to wait untill t... (read in full...)
Will he be turned off if I tell him..I am a virgin?
Q. Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this? We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him. ...
A. 24 April 2007: As the other posters said.. It would make him more into you.. You and him would have a special bond..
Dear, I think almost every guy out there has started Sex with their girlfriend and realised.. Woops, Period?!
Bad timing indeed, but it h... (read in full...)
Thouight the new guy would help me get over the ex..but it's not working! What should I do?
Q. My ex and I broke up in October, but we're still really good friends and there's a lot of sexual tension. He's made it pretty clear he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me again, and after being sex buddies for a long time I finally decided ...
A. 24 April 2007: My advice to you would be see your Ex, one last time and ask him what he wants.. Quite bluntly... Spreading lies about you dosen't really suggest his love for you is strong.
It might just hurt him to see you with other people.
Did you do an... (read in full...)
Do I take my drinking husband back-I have to make a decision soon! Any advice?
Q. I have been with my husband for four and a half years and married for 21months, since we got married things have gradualy got worse. He has aquired a seriouse drink problem in recent months (we have two children aged 10 and 2) and does nothing with ...
A. 24 April 2007: First of all, Your not running out of time.
Never rush your feelings.
if the worst came to show, He would have to stay at a friends of reletives place while you got your head sorted out. You can't rush a decision that will change your life.
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I thought, I didn't feel there was anything wrong with porn! But now that I caught my bf watching porn..it hurts me a lot! Any advice?
Q. Hi, i'm having some problems with a partner at the moment. we've been together for 3 1/2 years. He was a really loving guy to start with, sooo romantic but as time past he just can't be bothered. I recently discovered that he's been using my P.C in ...
A. 24 April 2007: Hey dear..
First of all, don't doubt your self.
There are many guys out there who have grown up watching porn, and are used to just watching some of it. You need to really stress that the Porn bothers you, You need to explain that it makes you fe... (read in full...)
There is no trust, no affections and he gets aroused by gay porn! What is going on with this guy?
Q. Hi I need your advice as my relationship has come to a crisis point and am on the verge of ending it. We have been together two years. We are both in our late 40's. He has been previously married for 18 years, which he says he hated and he did...
A. 24 April 2007: I think you found a bad cookie, Dear.
You sound like an amazing lady who wants a loving relationship with two honest and trusting people..
He sounds like he is a bit of a wreck right now.. As for him not cuddling you and leaving you alon... (read in full...)
In love with my cousin for years now! Any advice?
Q. hi iv been in love with my cousin for years now 4as long as i can remember she is 12 years older then me and we both say that we wud be the perfect couple together. we havent had sex but we hav kissed and touched each other, she says if we were ...
A. 24 April 2007: I think this is a type of ''forbidden'' love..
If she's telling you it's wrong then she clearly dosen't want to do it anymore. My best peice of advice to you is find another girl that can take care of your needs.
Sometimes it's just not me... (read in full...)
Dating 2 months, and don't know what move to make on her next...any suggestions?
Q. My gf and i have been together for 2 months. It is both of our first relationships, and we are attending the same college next year. I like her a lot, but since we go slow, i dont know what to do next. We make out and cuddle, is there something i/we ...
A. 24 April 2007: It's a tricky one, because making a move on her could put her in an uncomfortable position.
Sex is one of them things that get better the more you do it. You need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend..
But let her know that she's not under ... (read in full...)
Why can't I reach orgasm?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and almost 3 months. .but weve had this problem that really confuses me. .he cant seem to make me cum at all anytime we do things. .i always satisfy him and never have any problems but for me it jusz doesnt ...
A. 24 April 2007: I was with a girl once, and we were using a type of Condom that we hadn't used before, it was dripping wet.. but we thought what the hell, we gave it a shot.
When we was using the condom, it came off inside, due to the fact that it was that wet... (read in full...)
Does a lot of 'wetness' from a woman's vagina, gross guys out?
Q. Does haveing alot of vaginal secretion when a guy fingers you, does that gross guys out? And how can you temporarily get rid of some of the "wetness"?...
A. 24 April 2007: From my point of view (Male) when a Vagina is wet after I have performed some fore-play (Or even better before I have ;) ) it is basically the girl holding a flag above her head saying.. '' Your doing it right. ''
It's a great sign, Don't worry ab... (read in full...)
My bf never goes down on me! So I was wondering..Guys, do any of you simply not like to give oral sex to women? Does it smell or taste bad?
Q. Guys, do any of you simply not like to give oral sex to women? Does it smell or taste bad? My b.f. almost never goes down on me and I'm trying to figure out if it's too wet or he simply doesn't like doing that in general. He said it's both and ...
A. 24 April 2007: I'm a male with experience in that department dear.
Consider Oral Sex as the advertisement promoted 'Marmite'
You either love doing it.. It sends you completely wild giving your partner that much pleasure..
Or..
The thought of doing it m... (read in full...)
My 15 year old gf has told me she wants me to "have my way with her"! How do I deal with this?
Q. my girlfriend ov 3 months says she wants me 2 as she put it "have my way with her" but i am 16 and she is nearly 15 and it feels like i am taking advantage so i havent. i have low confidence and im scared she will leave me because of it. she says ...
A. 24 April 2007: First of all your not useless, your shy.
It's common for teenage girls to feel the way your girl does, in my experience it's a turn on for younger girls just getting into the sexual scene to have a guy who can just '' have his way with her '' s... (read in full...)
Is it harmful to put aftershave on your scrotum?
Q. Is it ok to put aftershave on your penis and scrotum when you masturbate? It feels really good, but I didn't know if it could be harmful or not....
A. 24 April 2007: Dosen't that burn?... (read in full...)
We just split and he's now on the search for new women! Is he doing this to make me feel bad and to bring me down?
Q. hi everyone, Okay so I think I am finally over the whole "let me sort out my life and well get back together" line. Thats all it was, a line. now I have a questions for everyone out there, why do people use this line? Also, I have started going ou...
A. 24 April 2007: 3 days and he is already on the Prowl? Issues there I think.
Because you acted like you don't care, perhaps he got a little offended by that and moved on? Or he could be trying to spear you, because he thinks you don't care.
My advice to ... (read in full...)
Didn't hear from my so called boyfriend the entire weekend! What should I do about this guy?
Q. I didn't hear from my so called boyfriend the entire weekend, but as soon as I got into the car he had texted me twice saying sorry, that he loved me, and missed me. There were a few more after that. He asked if I would talk to him if he called. ...
A. 24 April 2007: Only advice I can give to you is... Instead of him telling you when he is going to see you... You go to him and tell him that you want to talk.. If he brushes you off, then give him the boot.
Good luck, Dear.... (read in full...)
My fiancee is depressed! How can I help him get his life back together?
Q. my fiance has became real depressed and sad and no mater what it seems i cant make him happy i tell him ilove him and i am here for him but he says he so stressd out because he has to get a job. he says he doesnt blame me and i believe him about he ...
A. 24 April 2007: If I was in his position.. I would be depressed to!
You need to show him that serving time, because of you WORTH IT! Take him out... Make him the happiest guy alive.
You have to keep trying to get him to look at things more positively..... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and we broke up! So tell me...why on earth does she call me every single week?
Q. We broke up maybe a month and a half ago. It wasn't an easy breakup for me as she was the one to dump me. I didn't want to break up at all but she thought it was necessary. When she broke up with me she still told me she loved me though and gave...
A. 24 April 2007: Some girls (And guy's to, don't get me wrong) love having people within their.. '' Grasp '' so to speak.
She wants you at a place she can have you if she wants you, but not close enough to be restricted by you.
The above answer, I coulde... (read in full...)
How do I convince my girlfriend of 7 years I did not cheat on her?
Q. How do I convince my girlfriend of 7 years I did not cheat on her, and get her to take me back?...
A. 24 April 2007: Well this is a hard one to answer, due to the question being 21 words long and most of them with less then 4 characters.
The eyes are the key to the soul, My friend.
Sit her down, Look into her eyes and promise her that you have been faithfu... (read in full...)
Her new guy friend is attracted to her! As her bf, should I be concerned?
Q. I have been going out with my grlfriend for 2 years and everything was great, but 6 months ago she made a new friend. He is a male and I had no problem with this but after meeting him on a number of occations it is obvious that he is attracted to ...
A. 24 April 2007: If I was you I would be very worried indeed. My advise to you is.. You have been together for 2 years and you still have a communication problem... I find that far more worrying then a possible affair. Randomly ask her if you can sit down and have a ... (read in full...)
I get a thrill from cheating on my husband, but feel guilty afterwards! What do you think?
Q. i am happily married woman...yet i cheat on my husband...i always feel bad afterwards...but i get a kind of high thinking about it and doing it..till its over..what do you think?...
A. 23 April 2007: I think your a very sad woman who thinks about nobody but themselves, in a very egotistical way.
Why the hell would you cheat on someone you Married? It makes no sense.. If you get a rush off it.. Divorce.
Your in the wrong place.... (read in full...)
She's had sex before we met, so I feel like cheating on her to make things even!
Q. I keep getting the urge to cheat to even things up for my girlfriend and I. She had sex before she met me. I know this feeling is wrong. I want to stop having this feeling. I just want to accept that whats in the past happened. What do I do?...
A. 23 April 2007: It's natural to feel a little insecure about the fact that she has had sex before you.. But I doubt you have anything to be worried about.. Cheating on her won't solve anything.. I suggest talking to her about it, telling her that your a little ... (read in full...)
I slept with his mate now he won't talk to me! Is it my fault?
Q. I still love him.. There was this boy who i really liked, we had a little thing going on and he felt the same for me. He used to mess me around and say he would meet me but never would. A year on i still really like him i cant get him out of my he...
A. 23 April 2007: ''I slept with his mate now he won't talk to me! Is it my fault? ''
You expect people to tell you it's all okay and not your fault? Maybe next time try keeping it in your pants, and waiting for the person you apparently care about.
Some pe... (read in full...)
My partner had a fling with someone else, but had assured me nothing happened.
Q. My partner of 5 years had a "fling" or something with a much younger woman. He says nothing happened but I know he has texted her and talked on his mobile. After I found out about this, We both went away on holiday togehter to sort out our relation...
A. 23 April 2007: I'm abit like you... Jealousy and Paranoia really can be a pain in my backside.
Some guys like to take pictures, so you don't have to worry about why a guy would do that.. As for him sending the pictures to another girl... That's differen... (read in full...)
A girl offered my boyfriend a blowjob...
Q. Heya..Me and my boyfriend Dexter have been on and off for about 2 months now and at the start of the relationship he said he would stop smoking for me then admitted it was too hard to do so he didnt stop.. i appreciate him telling the truth but ...
A. 23 April 2007: I don't agree with the above reply.
Love can bloom at any age.. and it frustrates me when I hear people patronising young lovers.
To the question.. Did he take the Blowjob? If not.. Then you don't have anything to be worried about.
If a guy... (read in full...)
I'm involved with my boyfriend but I have fantasies about my teacher.
Q. Im 17, im in a very long term relationship with my boyfriend everything was great up until a few weeks ago! Ive started having feelings for another man... slightly older men have always been my preferred choice, a major turn on... but i never th...
A. 23 April 2007: I think you need to stop messing around, quite frankly.. By the sounds of your boyfriend he's an great guy.. Ask your self how would you feel if he was fantasising about his Nurse, Or somthing? Treat the lad how you'd like to be treated.... (read in full...)
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