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female
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30-35,
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writes:My ex and I broke up in October, but we're still really good friends and there's a lot of sexual tension. He's made it pretty clear he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me again, and after being sex buddies for a long time I finally decided I need to move on or I'll never get over him. I'm seeing this new guy I'll call P(who just happens to be a friend of his) and we're getting on really well, he's a much nicer guy, more my age, and is really sweet. Actually I've had a few guys show an interest in me. I thought this woud help me get over my ex, but it seems to just make me more sure that we were good together and that we should be together. He's trying to put these guys off me, particularly P, he's been spreading lies which are 100% made up, even though he's with a girl he's totally in love with. What should I do? I feel as though I'm supposed to be with my ex, and although we get on amazingly well and he's obviously jealous of me being with other guys, he really isn't making any sense at all. I know he sounds like a complete jerk, but he is a really nice guy, he's just a bit crazy.
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (24 April 2007):
 My advice to you would be see your Ex, one last time and ask him what he wants.. Quite bluntly... Spreading lies about you dosen't really suggest his love for you is strong.
It might just hurt him to see you with other people.
Did you do anything in particular to make the relationship end, and him state that.. '' he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me again, '' ? I'll check back in awhile to read your reply.
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