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writes:Guys, do any of you simply not like to give oral sex to women? Does it smell or taste bad? My b.f. almost never goes down on me and I'm trying to figure out if it's too wet or he simply doesn't like doing that in general. He said it's both and I'm wondering from a guy's point of view if you don't like it, why?, and what would make it more pleasant?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): I can't cum unless I perform oral on her first. I love it and I love the pleasure that it gives her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): He wont go down on you? Dont give him any blow jobs then. Relationships are all about give and take! If he complains that hes not getting any blow jobs, say "Im not giving you oral, because you wont give me oral. End of!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): He doesn't know what he is truly missing! My girlfriend say that I am the best oral lover she has ever encountered. I guess it has to do with the fact that it is my main forte per say and I know exactly what I am doing when I am down there. Tell you boyfriend to read up on the net the art of cunnilingus ( eating pussy). I haven't met a woman in my life yet that does not like a man who loves to go down on her. Tell him to be patient, take it slow and easy and concentrate on the three major areas..the entire inner/outer lips of your vagina, your "G" spot and the little sensitive button known as your clitoris. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't. It's all in the technique and the tongue action. Good luck!
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reader, Keria  +, writes (25 April 2007):
I'm not a guy, but I've done my fair share of going down on women and have been gone down on myself. Sometimes there's an odour.. I'm not sure why, but I've always associated it with needing a little freshening up... just a quick jump in the shower and a rince with water should do the trick.
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reader, penta +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Some guys really like it; others don't. But tell him that you really enjoy it, and that just as he enjoys a good blow job, you'd like it to be on the menu sometimes. Or else blow jobs will be off the menu too -- fair's fair, right? You might try purchasing a flavored lubricant, just in case. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): I personally enjoy it very much. There are times when there is an unpleasant odour, and when that happens I discretely move back up and don't stay down for very long. Most of the time the scent is not unpleasant at all. Hygene is very important. Remember the rule "always wipe from front to back", but being freshly showered first is a definite advantage.
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I'm a male with experience in that department dear.
Consider Oral Sex as the advertisement promoted 'Marmite'
You either love doing it.. It sends you completely wild giving your partner that much pleasure..
Or..
The thought of doing it makes you want to put your head down the toilet and say hello to the meal you ate earlier.
Assuming you shower or bathe regularly, The smell is fine.
It may just not be his thing..
Another possibility is that
Some guys have never done that before to a girl.
It's really being put on a spot giving oral sex, your expected to do such an amazing string of events, and sometimes you just frankly don't know how to do it.
He may be nervous about doing it.. I remember I had a similiar problem back in the days, I was just scared.. and once my girl slowly guided me into it.. It would be me asking her if I could do it for her. (It grows on you) ;)
Good luck..
And happy times in the bedroom!
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I'm not a guy, but I just wanted to say that there are lots of women out there who don't like giving head, so it's not so weird that there are guys who don't like giving their girlfriends oral pleasure.
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