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writes:I still love him..There was this boy who i really liked, we had a little thing going on and he felt the same for me. He used to mess me around and say he would meet me but never would. A year on i still really like him i cant get him out of my head, he made me feel special like no one ever did. He confused and confuses me soo much i just dont no where i stand with him. We was getting on really well and i thought things could progress until i slept with a mate of his and now he is not talking to me, i think, is this my fault or am i being silly and paranoid? Reply to this Question
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (23 April 2007):
 ''I slept with his mate now he won't talk to me! Is it my fault? ''
You expect people to tell you it's all okay and not your fault? Maybe next time try keeping it in your pants, and waiting for the person you apparently care about.
Some people just like to take it slow.
Maybe this will give you experience for the future.
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (21 April 2007):
from what you say hes a shy uncertain man who lacks in self confidence (which is common in young men who are just starting out in the world of women). by sleeping with his mate youve not only dented his pride (teenage boys point out 'conquests' to each other, if he really likes you i doubt hell appriciate his friend reminding him) but the progress that you were making with him is all but undone.
why on earth did you go and sleep with his mate if you liked him?
if you genuinely like and want someone you dont put in the leg work of getting them only to sleep with someone 'while your waiting'
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reader, nologo  +, writes (20 April 2007):
 The truth is boys do communicate with each other.
I think he knows that you slept with a mate of his.
He is not talking to you at the moment and this is normal; he could have dumped you by the way.
Why you slept with a mate of his? - There must be a reason.
You should think about that and find the reason; it will help you to understand yourself better.
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