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writes:my fiance has became real depressed and sad and no mater what it seems i cant make him happy i tell him ilove him and i am here for him but he says he so stressd out because he has to get a job. he says he doesnt blame me and i believe him about he just got out of jail a week ago sfter going for sleeping with me im 16 and hes 20. hes parents told him to stop talking to me but he hasnt he still calls even thow they just shut he cell off i dont know how to help him i love him with all my heart and want it to work but now he has a felony on hes record and if he doesnt get a job he'll go back to jail. what should i do? does any one know of places in california that hire felons? please help!! He never deserved to go to jail and i want to help him as much as i can to get his life back together
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell my fiance has hit rock bottom and told me that he doesnt want any one around and that i never tried to help and he use to say i was worth going to jail for but now he says he would have fucked me just wouldnt have gotten caught in the same way b cuz it wasnt worth it jail sucked and he'll never go back again for anyone but hes family i feel hurt and emotionally abused i didnt mean for him to go, he told me to leave him and also he keeps being really jealious over me but he talks about all kinds of girls to me and all he ever does is call me, he doesnt even want to see me. he calls me when no ones home than hangs up like 30mins later and then does the same thing the next day if he calls me every day. i cant go over hes house hes parents would freak they hate me. i try to talk to him about us and he ignores it and changes the convertsation if i cay he gets quite and doesnt say any thing. the only time he tells me he loves me is when we hang up and if i tell him he gets quite and doesnt answer so i just let him tell me.
what is wrong and why is he doing this to me i dont under stand my heart is broken but i cant break up with him i love him too much and he knows this and i think he might be doing this meaning to and that hurts me to think that but ive never had any one be as rude to me as him and kinda cold. hes starting to act like were friends and i got a crush on him and he plays with my emotions i really dont know whats going on i need help! please help me please i dont know what to do!!!!!
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reader, AdamPayseno  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 If I was in his position.. I would be depressed to!
You need to show him that serving time, because of you WORTH IT! Take him out... Make him the happiest guy alive.
You have to keep trying to get him to look at things more positively... If I was you I woulden't try to find him a Job.. If my partner found a job for me I would feel a little offended.
He needs to get his Pride back, you can help him with it.
Use your mind, more importantly.. Use your heart.
Good luck, and I hope he finds a job.
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