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writes:I really need help, what do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together and your friends don't understand and your mum would proberly say that your not in love its proberly just a crush. Please I need help because im starting to feel depressed.
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reader, Olivia_likes_jake  +, writes (27 October 2012):
 I feel the same way. What i did was I went up to my crush (jake) and told him im in love with him. it was weird for a moment or two and after that we started going out because he felt exactly the same way i do.
So my advice is go tell him you love him! If it doesnt work out and they laugh just say it was a dare!
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reader, Steve Jackson +, writes (16 December 2011):
HEY....Same problem..this girl from India (name-Aady Singh) is THE most beautiful person you'll find in the world. Brown eyes, Silky straight brown hair, fair skin, perfect height, pinky cheeks and rosy red lips. HA the problem is 36 guys out of 41 in our class have fallen in love and crush with her. What to do??
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reader, grungegal  +, writes (29 April 2009):
I have a problem similar...See I'm friends with this guy. And I am in love with him :S I hate even sayin that almost,cos i'm very cynical about this whole 'love' thing....so it's a big deal that im even sayin that....anyway i've liked him for almost three years now..i told him once,and we kinda hooked up but it didnt work out,he's not the greatest with girls,not in a bad way though.....But ever since,I've been with a few guys(including now) and I like them and all....but I always find myself thinkin about him anyway,and always like him more than anyone. we are still friends and talk every day,we get on extremely well...dunno what to do,guess nothin to do but deal with it but it sucks:L
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): Ive got the same problem, i think im in love with my friend and ive told my aunt and she says that its probably a crush but now im feeling depressed every day and i cant stop thinking about him no matter how hard i try. Plz help thx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): hey everybody ...
for as long as i can rember we have been the best of friends we dated but we where young we never realli took notice of the relationship so we just became friends again he told me about everything his new girlfriends and everytime i talked to him my heart sank i wanted to be the one he talked about and loved wat should i dont wanna tell him cause he freaks out wen u mention the word love what should i say
please help thanks ..
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reader, JLoop +, writes (3 July 2008):
 Hey when i was 15 i had the biggst crush on this guy and we ended up dating cuz my friend set it up and it was a dream come true for me, but he ended up breaking my heart, i did get over him. but at the time i thought he was the perfect man for me, it just shows that sometimes ur wrong avbout love u shouldnt tell him u love him, you should just flirt and let him make the fist move beacuse you'll wonder if he is dating u cuz he really liked u or is it just cuz he knew u liked him and he wanted some guys r seriously assholes so u should be cautious ur still young and love will find u
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I have the exact same problem! There's this girl at school called Mia and she is soooooo pretty! I can't help staring at her everyday! She has nice blonde hair, very beautiful blue eyes, and magnificent pale skin. IF ANYONE CAN HELP US, PLEASE DO IT QUICKLY! WE"RE DESPERATE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): Yeah, I have the exact same problem. I have been in love with this guy for almost a year now, but I don't know, sometimes it seems like he likes me but a lot of times I just don't think theres any chance that he does. I'm really feeling depressed though, I just want to cry. I think about him NON STOP and I just can't stop no matter how hard I try. I've tried to get over him, but I just can't!!! Any tips??? I would really appreciate it if anyone has any suggestions. I'm a pretty shy person, and I think I'd rather die than tell him how I feel. I don't know what to do. Please help!!! Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): i think that you should follow your heart im in the same kinda prob yeh it makes you depressed but the best thing you can do is talk face to face it may seem hard but its important to do it face to face cause u get everything out u want to say and in txt message you cant reli see what he looks like like if he takes it bad or not dont matter what your friends think you can always make new ones and if they dont support you then there not really good friends and if he is older than you and your parents disagree think carefully like how much do you love each other and how far do you see the relo going
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): i think that you should follow your heart im in the same kinda prob yeh it makes you depressed but the best thing you can do is talk face to face it may seem hard but its important to do it face to face cause u get everything out u want to say and in txt message you cant reli see what he looks like like if he takes it bad or not dont matter what your friends think you can always make new ones and if they dont support you then there not really good friends and if he is older than you and your parents disagree think carefully like how much do you love each other and how far do you see the relo going
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Let the person no how u feel tell him straight dont do it by text do it face to face tell him wat u think and how u feel see how he reacts if he goes ok and nothing more it may mean he isnt interested or that he needs time to think about wat u just said he might say he feels the same just go for it you will no unless you try!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): just let the person know exactly how u feel, tell them that u have something to tell them but ur not exactly sure of how they will react, then tell them that u think u love them and that u would like to know how they feel towards you, also tell them that it might be just a crush, most likely, if they have any feelings, they would be flattered to know that they are liked and u'll never know if they like u back unless you ask
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): even if u fancy someone and that someone is a good friend who u get on with well u still find it hard to ask them out What do u do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): If you like the person, go for it. You'll never know until you try. Apart from what your friends think and your mum, what do you think you should do? If you try it and it doesn't work out, then at least you know what your answer is. Bring up some courage but whatever you do, don't let it get you down1 =) Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): I think you should tell the person how you feel that way you might be able to go to the next level. I am going through the same thing. I tried this and it worked. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): I've got the same situation but I have only told two friends I've told, who don't get it very much. Very little chance of getting together. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): Hey i have the same problem he seems like he likes me but i dont know for sure like whenever i talk to him he stares in my eyes and im always look away i dont know why but i have a huge crush on him and i love hanging out with him and ic ant wait to see him again:)!!3 but i dont know for sure if he likes me back! but my best friend likes him too and he dont like ehr thoe :S help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): if your in love than you need to tell that person that your in love with them or if you dont they may get a boyfriend so now is your only chance or you can ask her who do you like use a friends name that you know to see who she likes maybe she might say you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): i am in love also, but he is popular, and has dated spanish girls, and i am sort of pop and havent dated anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): My Advice would be to follow what your heart tells you. If you dont take the chance you'll never forgive yourself. Trust me. When your parents and your friends see you happy they will understand
Add me if you need any help:
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): I would suggest that you talk to the person that you like and ask them what they think about you, if it comes back positive then take it a step further and tell them your feelings for them and see how they react, don't rush into things, you might scare them
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): Maybe just talk it through with the person you like. Explain to them how you feel, but also let them know you are aware of how there is little chance of you getting together. See how they feel about it...good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): First of all you have to make sure you are really in love. At 16 we all think we are in love, please don´t be offended as by this, I don´t intend to say that what you feel at the moment isn´t of importance, or that the feeling isn´t very strong, but do you know this person well enough to decide if what you feel is love? Do you know if this person feels the same way, and would therefore be interested in a relationship with you? What are the circumstances that make you think there is very little chance of you being together? Ask yourself all these questions, and get advice from all your friends (there will surely be someone who understands) and good luck.
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (12 May 2007):
 Hi thereFirst of all let me say you are not alone, i myself am going through exactly what you are. Consider why cant you and this person be togeter? is it because of age, culture, gender or anything else. Tell this person how you feel at least before you consider getting depressed over sed person. Because you never know what they feel. the person might have strong feelings towards you or they might not.Try telling your mum that you are serious about sed person and that its not a crush its more than that. my advice to you is to write all your feelings in a book, this will help you at least get out some of the sadness you are feeling. One other thing you should never do is get drunk over this person. although it seems great at the time its actually really bad because you just feel really bad the day after with a hangover and mixed emotions.
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (12 May 2007):
 First of all.. Ignore your friends.You know how you feel, they don't have a clue.Parents have a way of putting young relationships' down and that can be frustrating..Care to follow up with abit more detail on the situation? Who are you in love with? How did you fall in love? Why is there such a little chance of you being together and how do you personally think you could work on it? I'll keep an eye out for your reply.
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