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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Why would he buy a packet of condoms (when sober!) and suggest sex after telling me he wanted me to respect him more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - So yesterday I was kissing my boyfriend with tounges in a public place and kissing on his neck and he was like "please don't put your tounge in" so I apologized and he cornered me and told me how I was going too fast and he wanted me to slow down ...

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I...

How can I make sex easier for my virgin girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi, me and my new girlfriend (since last night) just had our first sexual encounter last night. We played with each other, no actual sex. I've noticed that she's extremely tight. As in, one finger only, two hurts. I asked her if this is normal f...

I am a virgin, girlfriend is not. I am afraid I can't measure up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I just met this girl 4 months ago and things couldn't have been better. We hit everything off perfectly. But I'll get directly to the issue. Eventually I brought up topic of previous sexual history and I asked to be honest. I'm 21 years old, only ...

I am concerned my boyfriend has never been sexually attracted to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend have been together for over a year. He was very shy in the beginning, and I was quite confident, so I was the one who initiated dating, but he was very interested and told me how much he liked me. We lost our virginity togeth...

I want to improve our relationship in so many ways, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So I'm going to an 18th party at the weekend with the new boyfriend. Planning on getting him drunk and then because we are sleeping the night (drunk) in a bed was gonna take things to the next level. He's a virgin though. We will have been going ...

We've never had sex before, so how do we get started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4298 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with this guy for a year now and we are deeply in love. Though we're both virgins we've done all the kissing and touching upper the waist but this time I really want to have sex with him. How do I get started and make ...

Will my husband be able to tell that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I had sex once before 5 years....i never had sex after that...will my husband know if am a virgin?.......

My boyfriend doesn't know how to kiss and is not interested in any form of intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Though the relationship is only new, me and my boyfriend get on really well. However, there is one problem. He really can't kiss and I'm his first. I got out of an 8 month relationship about 2 months before I started dating him, however. But th...

How should I go about initiating a conversation about sexual intimacy with a fairly recent virgin boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - How should I go about initiating a conversation about sexual intimacy with a fairly recent virgin boyfriend? I want to know how he feels but I don't want him to feel awkward from the beginning of the conversation as that may have an effect on how h...

I have no experience -- help me read the signs that might tell me she wants me to make a move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - hi, i have met this girl through a mate and we are kind of getting with each other privately just to see how it goes, we allways get off with each other, snog and stuff, but i would like some advice on taking it further... im still a virgin so ...

He's a virgin and I am not. Seems I only want sex from him and it's only been two weeks. He wants cute dates. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Why do I seem to only want sex from my boyfriend of two weeks? He's really shy and he's a virgin but I'm not - and I feel terrible! He keeps asking me out on walks and cute little dates, and then there's me; just trying to initiate more. How ca...

Am I her last option? Am I making a wise decision to marry her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

21 March 2013 (M) - This is going to be a long one. Please take time to read and help me. I recently started dating my best friend's sister. She had two past relationship, I was a virgin and she is my first. She told most of her past, hearing it all made me cringe a...

I'm confused...am I a virgin or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

19 March 2013 (?) - I was in a relationship 1year back but that guy ditched me very badly. We once tried to have sex. That time he didnt enter me compltely but I was having some pain when he started entring me therefore I ask him to stop and remove from inside me. ...

How do I make him regret leaving me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - my boyfrnd left me for no having sex i am a muslim and my religion doesnt allows sex before marriage what should i say to him so that he remebers it all his lifee and regrets wat he did with mee after promising soo man times that he wont leave me or ...

Am I slow to develop? Because I have no desire to sleep around and l would much rather have a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4305 days ago

18 March 2013 (M) - I am maturing at a very slow pace. I have never kissed a girl and i don't drink or go out. I know people younger than me who are engaging in sexual behaviour and it makes me feel like a child despite being older. I know who I am and I am working...

My boyfriend is a 38 year old virgin and won't finger me or go down on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4304 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 38 and a virgin. I'm 35 and we've been dating for almost three years. I've been married once before and have 2 children. I don't expect my boyfriend to have sex with me but he won't finger me or go down on me. I pleasure him in ...

I have needs too, and they are not being met!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - BACKGROUND: I have been with my BF for over a year now. We don't live together yet, but we see each other at least 3 times a week. Every time we see each other, I give him at least 1 blow-job, some times even 2. A quadruple amputee could count ho...

I'm not sure I can trust him. Should I date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - i've known this guy for close to three years now, and he has been there all this while doing nothing but watching me. He is eight years older than me, and i just liked him, because he was one person who loved to put smiles on my face. We went along ...

Are there guys that wait till marriage?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

13 March 2013 (F) - Are there virgin guys out there that want to wait till marriage with someone they really love? I feel very disappointed and alone when all I see is jerky guys and pregnant teens. People are so slutty and cold hearted these days. ...

We can't wait but it hurts her too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M) - Hello, my girlfriend and I are both 16 and have been going out for 3 months. We've both decided were ready for intercourse but we have an issue. When we first got together I could only fit one finger inside of her, now I can fit two most of the ...

My girlfriend is too innocent and it is causing problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

12 March 2013 (M) - Hey everyone :) I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and things are going alright. i have a slight dilemma though. My girlfriend is really innocent and she says she prefers being innocent than anything else. The thing is, i love bei...

My Bf tried to make love to me for the first time. How can I help him relax better next time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - Two nights ago, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever having sex, but it wasn't his. Prior to the other night, we talked about having sex before and we basically decided that it will happen when it happens....

Have you ever regretted your first time?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 March 2013 (M) - Dear aunts and uncles. Have you ever regretted your 'first time'? I'm a 17, soon to be 18, year old dude that is thinking about losing his virginity. When I hit puberty i never virginity or sex in particular was ever going to be a concern...

I didn't bleed after losing my virginity, is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

1 March 2013 (F) - i m 21 yrz old nd got married 4 months ago..I m having a sexual intercourse with my husband during my wedding night...its really painfull fr me...bt i lose my virginity after four months ....only 24 hours have been left but i didn't bleed during or ...

Can I find a virgin woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

1 March 2013 (M) - Hai, am 27 year old virgin guy, am a christian and i do not believe in premarital sex. Many women dont believe me because am quite succesful and goodlooking, my question is, is it wrong for me to ask a woman if shes a virgin? Am looking for a ...