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writes:i m 21 yrz old nd got married 4 months ago..I m having a sexual intercourse with my husband during my wedding night...its really painfull fr me...bt i lose my virginity after four months ....only 24 hours have been left but i didn't bleed during or after sex....as i loses my virginity....i want to know that whether bleeding is necessary during or after losing virginity or its not important for all girls or women....??? plz tell me m really confused...
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reader, aisjaw +, writes (3 March 2013):
aisjaw is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone here for reading my question..... it was really confusing for me...but now I a little bit satisfied...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 March 2013):
 No you can lose your virginity without bleeding. I never bled when I lost mine.
if you are uncomfortable or in pain make sure you are well lubricated and aroused before sex. lots of foreplay and lube if needed...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2013): If your husband goes slow enough it's very possible for your hymn to not break. When me and my spouse first started having sex it wasn't until the fourth time I did break because he went a little too rough for me :/
So if your husband is being gentle it's possible that he could wear it down instead of breaking it.
Also what fishdish said could be very plausible too. Everyone is different :) You're not the only one.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (1 March 2013):
 Bleeding is not necessary, it does not happen for all virgins. Sometimes, the hymen breaks a little before intercourse just over time through other rigorous activity-riding a horse for example. I also experienced a lot of pain. So much that he had to stop, but I never bled. Different bodies react differently to the same stimulus.
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