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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is masturbation okay if you're saving your virginity for marriage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I am certain on not having sex before marriage as I am a christian, but I masturbate... I know its dirty and i shouldn't do it but I just love it and I can't stop, I maybe do it at least once a week. Will god forgive for masturbating since I am ...

18 year old virgin getting married don't know anything about romance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - hello , im 18 years and 6 months from now im going to get married I don't know anything about sex I never had sex and I know how to have sex but I don't what man and wife doing in bed before having sex do they talk or laugh or i dont im still a ...

My Bf thought I was a virgin, because I lied. But someone sent a pix to him disproving that. How do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, I know what I did was wrong. But when I meet my current boyfriend I couldn't believe having found such a lovely guy. Having been used by guys in the past, my previous relationship were just sex. No love at all. But this guy ...

Can I operate to become a virgin again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Can i have my virginity back by doing an operation?...

My dog died and now I feel incredibly depressed and guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hey guys, This isn't about a romantic relationship but my heart is shattered in pieces all over the floor. I am grieving for my baby angel, a beautiful German Shepherd. She was 15 years old and she gave me unconditional love for half of m...

How do I hide that I'm no longer a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I am deeply in love with a boy.one day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i ...

I'm starting to develop love/hate feelings towards my best friend. I'm not in love with her but I'm starting to feel weird and jealous of her boyfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - Hi cupid, here's the deal. My best pal in the whole world is a girl, let's call her Penny. Penny and I have know each other since high school but have become great friends since college which we're in now. At first when we just started getting ...

I thought I would be a sex goddess by now but I haven't even been kissed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hello! I have 16 years old and im about to have 17 next month, January! When i was 13 i made a promise to myself and to my closest friend that at 16 i would loose my virginity. However i have 16 years old now and there is only one month left for...

Is there any difference between pleasing yourself and being pleased by someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 19 and pretty much completely inexperienced, generally and sexually. The only sexual thing I've done is given a guy a handjob. I have never shown skin before, and have never experienced anything sexual on my part with a guy. ...

Why are some girls like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - not realy a relationship question as such, but why are some people just 'slags' or 'sluts' i know this girl shes 14 im 18 i dont have a crush on her or out, just started talking and i suppose you cud say we are freinds and thers 'rumours' about her ...

We want to have sex. How do we stay safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Hello, i'm sixteen and ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 and a half months, we both want to have sex, and neither of us never have. I dont know how to know if im ready, and i dont know if its to early in the relationship, should we wait ...

Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

15 December 2011 (M) - Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...

If I've lost my virginity already, is it normal for me to still be feeling pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - I lost my virginity to my ex back in may and between then and now I've only had sex 7 times. My ex was roughly below average (about 3.5-4 inches) and he had a small girth so I don't know if that has anything to do with why I'm experiencing so much ...

Any tips on how I can be confident about my body for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - So I have a few questions which Im not comfortable talking to my mother about. Well Im still a virgin because I havent found the right person not waiting for marrige. I knew I wasnt ready when I was younger but I am now and have found a guy Im r...

I just lost my virginity to my best guy friend, but he is returning to his home country tomorrow. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Here's the whole story. I met this guy when we started secondary school together (we were both 11) and we had a sort of thing going on. We were both too young to know what we actually wanted and both were too immature to think about having a ...

Have I lost my virginity and could I be pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi...I'm a 21year old and I'm still a virgin so I'm really clueless about sex. My boyfriend and I were making out so things got heated, we both ended with just our underwear on. I don't know if this is regarded dry sex or not but I was laying flat ...

We are both virgins. And committed to each other. But what can I do about my erectile issues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

12 December 2011 (M) - I'm a 19 year old male and I started dating a girl from my university dorm this school year. Up until then, neither of us had a very serious relationship and both of us are virgins. Things have progressed naturally and we both enjoy spending time ...

Raging hormones are making me want to have sex just to relieve the feelings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

7 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Well this is something I dont really have anyone to talk to about, normally id speak to my mum but she isnt very open to sex talks, and makes it very uncomfortable. Well Im almost 21 and Im still a virgin not because Im religious ...

I feel I can't say no to him. What should I do?" What advice is the best to help me in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 18 year old . Both of us love each other very much but we are of diffrent caste and our family is highly orthodox but he had promised me to marry and now he is asking me to have a physical relationship. I ...

Can I rebuild after so many set-backs? I desperately need experienced advice on my heart ache

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have been a dear cupid reader for 3 years now. This is the time of my life I really really need support and advice. I feel I am really ugly and unattractuve. Please I urge you to read cause it is going to get really long but I will k...

Am I justified or being selfish by telling my bf that his sexual persistance annoyed me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He's my first sexual partner and we've been together for 2.5 years. I've always felt bad that we have sex as I wanted to save it for marriage. We're going through a difficult patch at the moment. I ...

Our first time, losing our virginity together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I am planning to lose my virginity in a few weeks :) My boyfriend is also a virgin, therefore I want it to be a special, loving and satisfying time for both of us :) But especially him! Any tips ? Lingerie? Positions? etc :) Thank you!! ...

Should I wait for the right one to lose my virginity or find a complete stranger on Craigslist?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 December 2011 (M) - I am a 21 yr old male and I am a virgin. I am thinking about using Craigslist and having sex with a complete stranger to lose it. I know craigslist isn't the best place to go. . . My question is should I have sex with a stranger or wait until I ...

We're both virgins, should I expect him to be somewhat skilled?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - Okay, this might be a little odd and maybe shallow, but I was wondering: guys, how were you the first time you had sex? And girls, were you pleasantly surprised or not? I ask because my boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time and...