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*arika
writes:I am deeply in love with a boy.one day i mate((sex) with a condam) with his at that time my hyman was broken and bleeded. now he doesn't have any interest in me so can i get marry another person? if so can that person know about my virginity? what i have to do to hide this hyman break? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2011): what if he had sex before marriage and came to you, what is the guarantee that he is virigin, he will also be a non virgin don't worry be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): Don't hide it...have no shame...if he does not like it tough!!!
spunky monkey
Lie to no one, especially oneself.
spunky monkey
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): If I was you and asked about virginity I would not lie but just say 'how dare you even ask such a question' showing off anoyance.
Blood isn't always present. it can even be enjoyable with LOTS of foreplay..
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 You don't have to DO anything. NOR do you have to volunteer the information. I would not LIE if asked forthright "are you a virgin" but to be honest it is NO ONE's business but your spouse/partner.Many hymens are broken on virgins before they lose their virginity. MINE was... there was no pain or bleeding on losing my virginity... a broken/missing hymen does not mean a woman is NOT a virgin.... but do not lie. LIES are the worst thing.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 Only you will ever know, trust me, I never knew my gf was a sleep-around until many months after our first encounter.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 December 2011):
 Your hymen can break from falling weirdly, doing the splits as a kid, doing pretty much anything that could possibly strain and poke that area.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 I'm shocked with some of the answers on here.Having sex once will not make your vagina loose, doing kegals will not make any difference to the fact that your hymen has broken. Having a tighter vagina doesnt necessarily mean that you have has no sex or less sex than anyone else. Any other person will not know about your virginity, unless you tell them. Some people are born without hymens, some are broken as a child while running around, with use of tampons, doing sport, masturbating. If its marriage you're after, I would advise you to find a man who will wait until you're married for sex. Trusting any man who says they love you is foolish, actions make a man not words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): please stop being so tensed. Hymen can break even if u do rough excersice, its not just through sex. So be cool about it. No one will know you till you open your mouth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): If you don't have sex again for at least several months, your vagina will tighten up. Doing the Kegal exercise also helps.
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reader, sweetness123 +, writes (26 December 2011):
 First of all I dont know how old you are. The fact that you used a condom your a responsible young lady. Why do you need to hide this situation? If a boy really likes/loves you for you his feelings wont change. Pretending to be a virgin will only hurt yourself emotionally do not be ashamed be honest with yourself. Emma
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (26 December 2011):
 I don't know exactly what the rules are where you are from regarding your question. Using pelvic floor muscles (look them up on Google if your confused) you might be able to "tighten up", but if it does come to crunch time and your confronted about it, then just tell the truth, the guy will be more grateful for the truth than any lie you could come out with.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (26 December 2011):
 when you meet a guy in the future the worst thing you can do is not be honest to him. you can't build a relationship of trust by covering up truth with a lie, or trying to hide the truth from him. when you meet the right man being honest will free you up from feeling guilty of having to worry on down through the years ( what if he finds out ). things that are covered up can be uncovered. you will meet mister right don't worry.
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