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writes:So I have a few questions which Im not comfortable talking to my mother about.Well Im still a virgin because I havent found the right person not waiting for marrige. I knew I wasnt ready when I was younger but I am now and have found a guy Im ready to share myself with but Im really nervous. Not about the actuall act but let him see my body, Im not fat but I am chubby but only in my stomach ive recently started working out and eating better but Im not at my goal yet. And I know that if he really cares about me he wont care but its more about my self conscious about my tummy but I do want to share myself with him. So I guess do guys really care and any tips on how to get over my nerves? Thanks for any advice :)
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reader, trishy909  +, writes (13 December 2011):
Hey girl
To make the tummy disappear, you have to drink hot water. Drink it every morning, about a litre of it and also try drinking it before bed. This works wonders. It will take some getting used to though.
About you sharing your body with him...I think you should discuss it with him, let him know you're not comfortable. By sharing your body you mean have sex with him right? Don't go straight to sex as you're not comfortable. For a couple of times. You guys should have making out sessions, in private where you can kiss and explore each others bodies..clothed. Once you're used to this you will then move to the next level..exploring each other half naked or something. Take things one at a time.
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