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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I seeing something that isn’t there and maybe she is just making excuses so I won’t hate her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2581 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - After about 4 years my girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn’t one that I wanted at all as I was ready to purpose She has distanced herself but not totally as we still have some contact I have informed her that I am moving and we are supposed to ...

Why did this woman pass such a comment on my 'almost' boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2584 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Hello. I'm a fitness model and I train at a studio with my friend who is also my trainer. We've just got involved together outside a business relationship. There's this other girl who he also trains. She's been with him almost as long as I hav...

My husband doesn't trust that I love him. Its getting old

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

27 October 2017 (F) - i grew up with my husband as teenagers when we were 16 he moved away.i never saw him for about 37 years , we both had spouses and children but seperated, when we met after all those years we fell for each other very quick got married 3 1/2 years ...

My boyfriend took small amounts of money from my purse! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

25 October 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for 3 months, who I love, and knew was broke/unemployed. 2 weeks ago, $15.00 was missing from my wallet. I thought I miscounted, so the next time he came over I took a pic of my wallet, so I knew for sure. $20.00 went miss...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

Am I being played here, or does he really associate being my boyfriend with one day marrying me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2589 days ago

24 October 2017 (F) - My ex-boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me last month, we had a pretty amicable breakup (he told me that we have a good thing and it was hard because he loves me but he just doesn't see himself married to me one day and tbh I don't either since ...

Do I keep trying to contact him? Or cut contact despite his debts to me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2573 days ago

23 October 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid. I think I know the answer but I need some advice... So, I have been helping out an ex from seven years ago with rent while he's jobless for the last six months (He rents out a room in a house) (I offered to help him) on top ...

My long distance love wants me to send sexy pictures of myself

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2589 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - I've been going out with this boy for 2 months now and it's a LDR situation. I knew it was going to be hard to not spend all that time together but I felt I could handle it. Lately he's been asking me to send naughty pictures to him and it m...

Why was he was so mad because I answered his phone?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2587 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - Hi. Last night my bf got so mad at me and left my place at 2 am. He fell asleep on the couch while I was watching a movie, around 130 am I noticed on his phone maybe like 10 phone calls then like 10 messages, his phone is always in silence so he ...

The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - The guy I'm seeing is always getting mad at me? We have an odd relationship, we say we love each other all the time. He says he's not ready to date (we've been in a like-dating stage for 3 years). I have fallen in love with him. But I feel like I'm ...

Being used by my boyfriend and I don't know how to get rid of him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2585 days ago

19 October 2017 (M) - I will try to make it short as possible, I am 35 years old gay and I dated a guy few months ago, specifically in May and I really liked him, everything was great , although he is way younger than me 24 years old, but I felt that he loves me, he ...

Was I out of line and is my boyfriend right in not trusting me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. A few months ago I met a guy at work who I messaged after I left the job. He was quite flirty with me in this conversation but I didn't think it meant anything. About a month later he messaged...

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone ...

What should I do about feeling inadequate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - First off, this is quite the premature question, but tonight, its all I can think about. A year ago, I had to escape a mentally, physically, sexually, and verbally abusive relationship. It was difficult to say the least. A few months after we ...

I think he likes another girl but I don't know how to broach the topic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

17 October 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months but it's not exactly official, his family don't know and only a couple of our close friends know, it's like a need to know basis. Recently he went on holiday back to his home town with a mutu...

His online world has me worried

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2595 days ago

16 October 2017 (F) - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Inst...

Boyfriend brings up his ex girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I went to a high school reunion this past summer. While there, I met a man who I really didn't talk to much in high school. We kind of hit it off, and for the past 2 months, we have been dating and getting to know each other. My question is abou...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

11 October 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

He cannot communicate and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - I've recently started dating a guy. We've known each other for 4 years in total and we've helped each other through a lot in those 4 years. He ended up adding me from a whatsapp group that we were both in 4 years ago and we started chatting...

How to move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

I have been helplessley in love with someone for too long, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I am in love with someone. I have known him for years now. When I fell in love with im, it was slow, and so pure. He was my first love. I love him with all of my heart. Around the time I fell for him he had a girlfriend. And that hurt my heart, b...

My boyfriend is sad after his ex girlfriend's revelation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hello, I have a story to tell. This summer my bf and I got together. He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her to be with me. At first we were friends and I knew he had a girlfriend but I was so in love with him and I was trying to resist for so ...

Should I kick him out of my house and my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Hi All!! First thank you for taking the time out to help me... Ive been dating the same guy for 5 yrs now. And for the past couple yrs he has changed into an unpredictable screaming heartless prick towards me. Im always caught off guard when he gets ...

My boyfriend is afraid of my beauty and that I will leave him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

7 October 2017 (F) - My boyfriend said he's scared of my beauty and is afraid I will leave him.what do I do to prove I won't and he doesn't take me out, prefers me staying indoor with him is dat y?. And I love this guy so much and it hurts me anytime he saids dat..pls...

How do you treat a friend who doesn't act like one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

7 October 2017 (M) - Since last year May I started hanging out with two new friends, Jennifer and Jackie. I knew Jackie since late-high school but we virtually never spoke. At the time, I was good friends with her best friend, Nancy, and they're still best friends ...

Other people have forgiven him, so why cant our children?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2594 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - One year ago my husband of 23 years was arrested, he had been looking at underage pornography. 45 counts of category a amongst other. Myself and our family were totally shocked as he had always been a very good person who helped all the family and ...

Is my Supervisor in the wrong for telling us about a colleague's mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - The other day my supervisor told me and a colleague during a meeting a mistake a co-worker made. This mistake is something that did not affect me or my other colleague whatsoever. Was this appropriate? I just feel if he was attempting to tell us the ...

Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...

It seems like our relationship was a big lie!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - First, let me start by saying the past week with my boyfriend has been great. He's been affectionate and talking about marriage, which itself isn't new, and spending all his time with me at my house aside from work. We'll call him D Then out of n...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...

My boyfriend stole money from my purse, I broke it off but am feeling sad.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - I am 48 years old and in a telation with a man my age ,we r engaged but since i knew him i felt that there is something missing in the relation and i wasn't sure that i love him and kept postponing marriage.he is so kind with me and generous in ...

Uncertain if he lied for the right reason

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I have been married for 4 years to a guy who seems devoted to me. I've had a lot of problems in the past. Before I got with my husband I had been through a rough time, I had had cancer and was just finishing chemotherapy and my youngest daughter ...

I keep comparing myself and feel like a loser!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - How can I stop comparing myself and feeling like a looser - I am 31 and I feel like I haven't accomplished much in life nor have I enjoyed anybting . I come from a broken home - nothing I did was ever good enough - I have two degrees a corporate job ...

How do I make this work for us both?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - I've been talking heavily (throughout the day and he calls me everydau) to a guy that I have known for that I have really grown to like. He works two jobs and at first this was really trying on the budding relationship in that, he was really ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

He's bragged about cheating on me behind my back but denies it when I confront him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

2 October 2017 (F) - Have been told by strangers, friends and family that my boyfriend of twenty years has bragged about cheating on me every chance he gets when he's working out of town. He actually butt dialed me during one of his bragging sessions to a friend and I ...

I'm heartbroken but he said he wouldn't get back together with me because I was acting crazy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

1 October 2017 (F) - Okay so I'm looking for a little perspective... I was dating this guy (both in our early to mid 20s) for 6 months. During this time it got very intense. In the beginning he was incredible... suggested we go on holiday together after 1 month, a...