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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

She said she knew I wasn't a Relationship Person and that I was not Emotionally Available. What does my Ex mean by this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I was seeing this girl for a while and last night we finally talked for the first time since we broke up. She said she always knew in the back of her mind that i wasn't a relationship person and we weren't going to be anything more than what it ...

We have children. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. Will he ever change? All his money goes on his lifestyle and we struggle at the best of times

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I guess like a lot of girls do, I thought I could change my boyfriend. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. His friends are no good and he doesn't look after me or our children as he should. I don't work as my youngest is 3 weeks old, and my olde...

What do we have together? He will not confirm if we are in a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi cupids any chance of a little help?? Been seeing a guy for 5 months now, it’s been ok-ish. I've began to fall for him and I’m not sure I’m doing the right thing allowing myself to as he's so complicated. He’s got a lot going for him, he ...

How do I go about getting rid of my lazy unmotivated Bf? But how do I cope with his threats to harm himself if I do leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - In my last question I had asked what I should do about my lazy, unmotivated boyfriend. Well, I'm at the point where I think I'm almost at a decision. But now, I need help in a different way. No matter how loving and nice he is to me..I just don'...

I don't know if he wants me to get pregnant or not. But why is he so obsessed about me being pregnant, or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi I have a boyfriend for six months we have been sexually active most of it. I have done a few pregnancy tests but all negative that's fine because we talked and not one of us is ready for a baby.. I am using the injection for 6 months now...fee...

Can I see both? Or one or the other? What should I consider, and how can I decide?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I am 16,i have a b/f who i took as a brother and friend. Not as a lover I can't imagine him kissing me because the love i have for him is brotherly. Since then I have met another guy, and i realise i like him very much. But how do i see this ...

We hug, kiss and hold hands. What should I do when I hug her and then realize I have an erection to deal with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 2 months now. She is a very sweet and simple girl. We have a had a lip lock, in fact a make out. But whenever I hug her or kiss her or even when we hold hands, I get an erection. I crea...

We want to start with a STD check. So how do I ask the Doctor for this? what happens? We've also agreed to let each other see the paperwork.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex for the first time. But before we do, she wants us to have a check-up from a doctor to make sure we're both OK. I completely agree with her and I respect her honesty. My question is, how do I go about wi...

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

How should I resolve this situation? My husband's Rock music addiction is causing me problems and now even the neighbors are complaining.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - On here, you often hear about partners with gaming addictions, well, how's this for an addiction; rock music ?? I knew my husband liked music, of all types, had nothing against it, but now he's missing out on sex with me, work, time with friend...

How can I help my Bf? He was sobbing uncontrollably after spending time with me. He admitted he has problems at home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Last night my boyfriend came over to my house. We talked, ate dinner together, then watched a movie in my room, we did make-out once and then we fell asleep. When I woke up it was about midnight and he was sleeping with his arms around me and I no...

How to deal with being hurt in the past so it won't ruin my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I would like some serious advice on dealing with past trust issues. I've been in three major relationships. One of them ended because I broke up with her over her getting into some things I found unacceptable - drugs and self-destructive behav...

Is my wife having a mid-life crisis? Is she headed for cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - My wife seems to be becomming more and more of a party girl. We both did our fair share of partying, drinking, hooking-up, etc in Highschool and college (before we met). Then came the dog years of building careers and pregnancies. Now that we are ...

Does low self-esteem lead to infidelity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - Just trying to make sense of something that probably isn't easy to make sense of. I recently broke up with my longtime gf of nearly 6 years after catching her in an inappropriate text/email/Facebook "flirtation" and the subsequent lies she made in ...

He's awesome. But would never date a HIV positive woman. Should I break up with him, or tell him I'm HIV positive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I am Hiv positive and have been positive for 10 years now I recently met this nice and awesome guy whom iv dated for 2 months now he always says he’s afraid of Hiv and he would never date a positive woman(he has never tested in his life) I don’t ...

I know she likes me. But would her friend really have a big influence on her decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I went on a date with this girl, who I have fancied for ages. It went really well, and we kissed for a good hour afterwards so was really good. we talk everyday and she is happy to meet again. She told her best friend and she is not happy this girl ...

Am I reading too much into the actions of my very nice boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Ok, basically I have a problem at work. From the moment I met my boss, I thought he was familiar and I couldn't place my finger on it, I still can’t. The thing is he's always stared at me, and made a point of talking to me. He made me feel I ...

Were we right to breakup? Should I try to get back together with my ex? We broke up after Christmas.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - This is kinda long ... thanks for slogging through it. My bf and I broke up right after Christmas. It was a mutual decision after several years together. He's kind, funny, generous (would give the shirt off his back to a stranger who needed it), ...

Was he just being polite? Or is a second date possible? He didn't seem settled during the date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Went out to a bar with this new guy, I was late so I insisted on paying for the drinks. He didn't seems "settled" during the date as he's always playing with coaster, wine glass, smoothing out his hair etc. we were out for about 3hours and HE deci...

Other than a credit card? How to purchase sex toys without the small town bank staff knowing what I purchased?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi! Very childish question here, but Im worried. Its a very miniscule problem but I am looking to purchase some "bedroom toys" but Im worried that if I use my debit card the bank will see my purchase! I live in an extremely small town Im taking ...

Am I with him for the wrong reasons? We are in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating my long distance boyfriend , X, for 3 1/2 years now but im afraid im with him for the wrong reasons. He lives in one place, and i live in a state far away. Ive met his parents, hes met mine and its gone really well. His parents ...

He's a real person. Met him on the Facebook. So why am I feeling So very nervous about meeting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4308 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy on Facebook, from what I can tell by his pictures he's a really good looking guy. We've been talking for quite a while now and we are finally going to meet each other for the first time on Friday, we're going to see the new movie ...

How do I get past this traumatic abusive depressing relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4311 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I finally broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I started dating him during a very traumatic time of my life and I was looking to be saved and he was a charmer. Soon into our relationship I noticed very possessive jealous behaviour. He was not ...

Was it appropriate for my Gf to start giving my (male) visitor a body massage while I was absent from the room?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I was getting my phone the other night and it turned out to be a long call from my daughter. when I came back to the living room my girlfriend had my friend's shirt off and was giving him a thorough massage. my friend had told me earlier he gets...

Did I do something wrong? This girl looked so irritated when I looked at her

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I was walking down the hall at school and a girl was coming my way. At first i didn't notice her because I was looking down when I was walking, then I looked up and saw her looking at me and when I started looking back she looked away, like she didn...