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Was he just being polite? Or is a second date possible? He didn't seem settled during the date

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Question - (5 February 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2013)
A female Singapore age 30-35, *eized writes:

Went out to a bar with this new guy, I was late so I insisted on paying for the drinks.

He didn't seems "settled" during the date as he's always playing with coaster, wine glass, smoothing out his hair etc. we were out for about 3hours and HE decide we should make a move. (we talked about proper stuff throughout, he wasn't touchy at all etc.)

We ended the date with a HANDSHAKE and he says it was great meeting me. We didn't mention anything about meeting again. Since it ended in such weird way, I didn't expect any MSG from him. He text me 2 days later and we start talking a little, didn't talk about the date though.

He say he's going for a trip and I replied "share your encounters when you are back" he say "okay will surely do, drinks on me the next time"

Do you think this "second date" may occur or he's just being polite? And did I sound too desperate like im fishing for a second date?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree with Honeypie... if he was not interested he would not have texted you.

see what happens when he gets back...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 February 2013):

Honeypie agony auntI think he is a little shy perhaps and was not sure if YOU were interested, I would wait and see when he gets back from his trip and perhaps then suggest meeting up.

I think if he really wasn't interested he wouldn't have texted you at all.

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