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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Threesome question please - Advice on before, during and after

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hello, My Fiancee and i have been in a relationship for 12 years and still have amazing sex. First and foremost, i have always been curious about being with a woman but never tried it beyond kissing and fondling. However since i turned 40 thre...

I can't stop thinking that he stole money from me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend may have stolen from me, but I can't prove it. Saturday night, I came home from my waitressing job and counted my earnings and put it all away very neatly in my wallet to take to the bank. The next day, a large bill was m...

This whole year with him has been trying! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I need help with some advice from some wise people. The relationship im in now is going sour atleast from my view it is. Its almost been a year and In the beginning my bf wasn't as bad as he is now. He cared about how I felt when he acted a way I ...

Good or bad idea to write him a letter explaining things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I really need some help! My boyfriend of six months and I broke up a month ago and I ahve been devastated. His mom told me a while ago that he was too. For the last month we have been in contact every day and even got back together. I pushed him ...

My blood boils with rage when a good looking young woman is present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid, my life is ruined by insane jealousy. i cannot bear any man i have been with to even look at another woman, not even on television. my blood boils with rage when a good looking woman especially if they are young and sexy are present. i ...

I feel like if I have a threesome, the other person will fall in love with my man. Have you been in this situation before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am a bisexual woman who is dating my soulmate. He is a great guy and has all of the qualities that I have dreamed about since I was a child. I love him so much. But I am bisexual and I do have my moments where I crave other women. But I have ...

Boyfriend's friend said he's cheating on me, but he insists his friend's lying. I don't know if I can trust him now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3years now. But it has been a long distance..but since this year started he has been distancing me. And we i ask him he claims he had problem.this went on until this month. He started trying to get intouch with me ...

I've lied about trivial things, but he broke it off anyway. Will he ever take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating this taurus for a year now and unfortunately I've lied to him about trivial things about myself simply because I have low self confidence and I felt that I needed to zest myself up a bit to make me look interesting to him (I'm...

He says if I bring jenny into the situation he will end it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Urgent Advice Needed Please Hello everyone who helps people on Agony Aunt. I really need some advice regarding a long distance male I have had contact with for the last 6 months. He lives in Sydney. I live in Perth. To cut a long story short when ...

I think my husband is having online affairs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - think he is at it again my husband was caught internet cheating 2 months or so ago and hes suppossedly was behaving but in the last 2 weeks or more hes deleting his internet stuff off the phone again (our only access to internet at home) im sure ...

My girlfriend is pregnant and wants to end our relationship. But I don't want to lose her and our baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for 14months and we are not married. she is pregnant with our first child and says she wants out of the relationship because i have been neglecting her, and she suspects i'm having an affair with one of my ...

He constantly makes up lies! Do you think he's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relashionship.I am a registered nurse with two children, uprooting my life is complicated.The person I am in the relashionship with lives at home with his Grandmother,works but is not really successful.When I first met him he ...

Why not let me see the message? Why lie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Im am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 27. Before we got together he used to cheat on a girl he was seeing but changed when we got together. We have been together for just under a year and he hs never cheated on me and we have a really good ...

How can I prove that I won't do the things he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl that i met on a online dating site, who originally approached me online first likes me a lot and I MEAN A LOT, probably the most a girl has ever liked me, and i like her as a person and her looks. Ive seen hundreds of pics of her and she has ...

Can I really say I love him if I have these doubts and insecurities at times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We've been on and off for different reasons. I'm the one who called it off most of the time... Anywho, he changed so much this year (2009) that he's like a different person. He says I have ...

Please help, missing pieces!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'ved dated this guy for seven years, he is the first and last person I've ever have to asked if I need or wanted something however, he has cheated twice that I know over and we've been seperated for over six months and I've began to sleep with some ...

He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:( here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT ne...

I think he's still logging into his online dating profile! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend (6 months). Things are going good!! Anyways, we met online and still have our profiles up. In the beginning he had mentioned..'yeah, I should delete this profile that I hardly log into.' And as time went by I n...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...