A
female
age
41-50,
*imbymoo
writes:think he is at it again my husband was caught internet cheating 2 months or so ago and hes suppossedly was behaving but in the last 2 weeks or more hes deleting his internet stuff off the phone again (our only access to internet at home) im sure he gets on it at work. and he just doesnt seem interested in me anymore im happy he wants to be with his son and happy about the twins on the way (due in another month or so) im afraid that he is chattong lying about everything since he has lost my complete trust i feel he just doesnt want to be with me as a couple anymore and hes only lying to himself trying to make himself look good and sticking around so i dont have to go back to work and can stay at home with the kids. like i have been doing with our almost 17 month old son. i know im not the only one out there with this type of situation . please some advice male or female as i know it works both ways men arent the only ones who stray i realize that but i have been faithful to my husband since we ve been together. and he has not and why do i keep giving him chances when its obvious hes not gonna change
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reader, kimbymoo +, writes (28 July 2009):
kimbymoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your input im feeling that we are headed down that road towards divorce because he wont stop and im not gonna stay with him just for the kids if im unhappy. i know all relationships married or not have their own issues in one form or another but im getting to the point im tired of it and am not gonna put up with it anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): Look there is no easy way to say this,but from my own experience,some people cant stop it,just attempt to hide it better. If you had no internet,he would probably use personal ads.Obviously he has lost your trust,basically because he isnt trustworthy. I too felt like i wasnt good enough and was there until something better was found. Eventually not even asking as it fell on deaf ears or i got accused of being paranoid,mentally abusive,insecure,or i am i`m imagining it. Not looking good this from this i think you need better.
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