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He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

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Question - (28 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2009)
A female India age 36-40, *inxie40 writes:

PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:(

here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT nearly every other day.

there were a few habits of mine that he asked me to change but i kept on bugging him by teasing him and taunting at him.

last time when i mocked at him he got very angry and he dint talk to me for 10 days and i just sent a single message saying sorry but got no reply. after 4/5 days i called him but he switched off his cell phone and refused to talk. i kept on apologizing but he never listened. a day later i sent him a msg that now I’m done with all the excuses and if you dunt wanna talk then it's up to you. the same night he saw a guy on my facebook and sent me a msg that how dare i tok to a guy....and he dusnt want a relationship with me.

i called him but he refused to listen to anything. i was trying to explain that he is my cousin and 4 years younger than me. but still he kept on arguing and creating a fuss. in the end he put down the phone and said he dusnt want to continue and i also agreed.

after two days he returned back and said " i luv you no matter what you say or do"

BUT NOW HE IS SHOWING ME SUCH A BAD ATTITUDE......he says that he would see for a month whether i change or not.....he says he has no feelings for me but still calls me and talks to me the whole night till the morning and then when we meet he’stotally normal doesnt ignore me fully and it dusnt seem as if he has no feelings for me........but he keeps on scaring me by saying that again and again..........WHAT DOES HE WANT I AM VERY CONFUSED?????????

when i ask him if you have no feelings then y do you call me? then he says just to fulfill my duty........now what the hell does he mean by that?

he just keeps on changing statements....."i luv you " and then "no feelings for you”

please can you help me out with this..........

are these the signs that a guy has no feelings:

he calls you almost every single day

he chats with you for hours

he meets you normally

he’s jealous when you talk to other guys

BUT SAYS THAT HE HAS NO FEELINGS FOR you AND HE WANTS TO SEE FOR A MONTH IF you CHANGE OR NOT AND THEN HE'LL MOVE ON..........he even swears at it that he has no feelings:p

has he gone mad????????:p

PLEASE HELP WHAT DO I DO?

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A female reader, jinxie40 India +, writes (28 July 2009):

jinxie40 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

He's not cheating i am sure.......he has told his parents and they have met mine.....and they know everything so he isn't cheating

What do I do? These were so confusing replies!

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A female reader, MRS.SCOOTA United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

girl let it go..he jus wants his space..jux give him his space...then if he comes back hes urz...if he doesnt mve on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009):

he does still have feelings for you he just trys to hide it or wants you to think diffrent so you would change but the signs are completely there, he LOVES you!

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A male reader, timbo United States +, writes (28 July 2009):

Let him go, he's trouble now and it will only get worse. Good luck

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A female reader, Amsieee(: United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2009):

Amsieee(: agony aunta guy did that to me for three years lol.um he was playing me but every case is different maybe? good luck x

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