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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them behind your BF's back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to have male friends and go out with them on ocassion? But behind your boyfriend's back? I ask this because I've had a good guy friend for 2-3 years. We don't talk all the time just when we want to hang out. Initially, we we...

He said he has a 'lust' problem and looks at other naked girls. He wants me to help him, should I believe it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. While we were on a walk at the park when i found pictures of girls (not models) posing nude. We argued about this for hours. He told me that he has a problem with lust and sometimes likes to look. ...

Should I split from him, hes never physically cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hello readers, I hope you can give me your perspectives on my situation as it's making me sad. I've been with my bf 10 years. We lived together pretty happily for 7 years, until last year, when he broke up with me, saying he didn't know what he ...

Does everyone read their SO's emails?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I wonder what everyone's opinion is regarding their signifigant other's email? Reading the questions here, too often I see questions asked prefaced by the person saying they read their SO's emails (or messages on myspace or facebook). Am I...

Does he have erectile dysfunction or does he not desire me? How can I figure this out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - How do I know ,if my husband has erectal dyssfunction,or he just does not desire sex with me? It is important to know, as it is too different situation,one,what I can handle, and the other, I can't. He is not medically sick,as he went for check u...

I feel trapped in this relationship - it's becoming abusive but I'm stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have just recently moved out of town and are living together for the first time. About a year and a half ago i was raped by someone who was a coworker and someone who i thought was a friend. ...

Are these comments he makes about me on this online forum normal "man" behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - This question is for the men. I have been dating a man for almost 2 years now. He is a Christian man and I adore him. He has this website that he goes to often called ls2.com. When we first started dating every time I went to his house he had a ...

Getting over the past... how can I help the man I love deal with mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. Four years ago was the darkest time in my life. I met my current boyfriend and his best friend and ended up sleeping with both of them when my current boyfriend was helping me out of a horribl...

My pregnant girlfriend is WAY too flirtatious! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Ok ,my gf is preggers and she is way to flirtatious. I`ve asked her to stop and I just discovered that on the 15th she send an invite to her ex on myspace and left: "so sexy! mmm mmmm mmmmm *kisses you* " as a photo comment. ...

Is she wearing the ring for me, or for the guy she is talking to? I'm so confused by her... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - holy hell some one help asap. i had this girl i was dating for 4 1/2 years. i loved her more then anything in the world. and two months ago she killed me on the inside when she broke up with me to c other people. i love this girl still. well a few ...

My boyfriend told me he never loved her this way! Their emails say different...help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 or so months now but he is so much older than me and has lived so much life before me. He never really wants to talk about his previous relationships, bad times he went through, or he never ...

A week of the ex-factor. The more I learn about men, the more I hate them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - i have had the worst week of my life it started at 10 am last thursday i got a call from a friend of mine saying that my ex had just been arrested and is in jail on 4 felonies and a misdeminor. first of all this was my bestfriend i was fucking for a ...

I think my girlfriend is hiding something!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I hav a girlfriend and I think she's hiding something. I'm getting worried. I'm getting worried. She isn't acting the same as she used to. And I don't really see her much. But we used to text all the time, but now she doesn't. Can you help me?...

Do I confront my girlfriend about her trivial lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Hi - I have started seeing a new girl, have been going out for just over 4 months now and everything is going great. However, there are a few small issues that I have. The main problem is her lying (or what I believe to be) - we have had discuss...

I am insecure and paranoid that she would leave me for someone better

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - hi, recently my girlfriend and i have been talkin and i learned she was still physically attracted 2 him..as he is her usuall type...tall head full of hair 6 pack etc....while i am short around 5 6 and built but stocky ...i am kind of feeling a ...

Two of my friends slept with my ex, should I befriend them again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

17 July 2009 (?) - I found out that my good two "friends" were sleeping with my now ex-boyfriend. I dumped them all and I haven't talk to them for about 2 months. Well My "friends" have been begging me to hang with me because they are sorry and want us to be buddies ...

He is constantly making comments that I'm cheating and checks my cell phone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 4 yrs. we moved in together 18 mos ago. he no longer makes me feel desirable, which is damperin my self esteem. he used to make me feel so beautiful. we are intimate ocassionally but nowhere close to how much we used ...

He asked me to bring lunch, but then was a no-show because of his female trainees! I'm furious!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Should I be upset or making too much out of it? B/f calls me prior to my lunch hour, asks me to pick up burgers and come to his work. I come with food, he's not there. I call his cell, no answer. His co-workers say they haven't seen him all morning, ...

I pushed my wife away because of insecurities, now she's gone to study and all I want is her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - After 9 months of marriage, i broke up with my 19 year old wife and now she's left town for further studies which i disagree with her because i felt insecure that she might be use by some male friends in her college just for enjoyment. I'm no more ...