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Archived questions from: 30 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I confront my partner about his cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my partner for over 7 yrs. He has cheated on me once, early in the relationship when it was not 'exclusive' but it hurt me a lot. About 6 months after that I went through his phone and found lots of intimate messages between him and ...

Does he still have something for me or is it because he saw I'm a model?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I used to like this guy a year ago. I could tell he liked me too cuz his body language said a lot. Then I went to a party and hooked up with some guy he never talked to me I guess he was heartbroken.. Then online for months I would write him ...

Is she lying? She didn't bleed when we first did it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Hello, my question is my gf said that she was a virigin before me, but wouldn't that mean that when we first had sex that she would bleed? Or is she lying about me being the only one? I do trust her but Im not sure because she didnt bleed when...

How do I show my girlfriend I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend 3 yrs and she recently asked if i loved her. i was quite angered by this as she knows i do. what things should i be doing to let her know how much i love her other than the occasional flowers, chocolates etc?...

Ways to deal with my aggressive mother...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I'm bisexual and have been in a relationship with a guy for eight months now. I spend weekends at his, and make up excuses to my parents who are conservative and petrified/repulsed by homosexuals. To the point that any defence of homosexuality is ...

How do I avoid this feeling of anger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - hi i'm afraid that my boyfriend doesn't appereciate me enough,he doesn't communicate enough and i'm afraid that i also get angry too fast...how do i avoid this feeling of anger?...

What is love really - I just don't want to be hurt again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I just wonder if most of what we call attraction is just our animal instincts to mate, and we call it love? Does anyone know what love is? I've heard it labelled so many things, anyways, I think I've found a girl im in love with but I am so afraid ...

Do you think she'll cheat and be with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months. She is on holiday at the moment in Italy with her aunt, but she has gone camping, and has her own tent. For some reason, I keep thinking she is going to cheat on me, depsite the fact that she ...

I've tried to trust but just can't. I don't want to be alone forever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I was sexually abused when i was a child so i have very little trust in men as i've got older the guys i've dated have been abusive and cheated on me. Now i'm at the stage where i just can't trust, i've finally met a guy who treats me like a ...

My girlfriend's neighbor...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been in a long distance relation for a few years now. We are both looking into avenues that will finally put us in the same city. No luck so far. Anyway, my question is about a re-occuring issue we've had. Let me start by saying that my ...

How can I get my boyfriend to trust me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I dunno what to do, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for about 2 - 2 1/2 years. We split for about 6 months in 2008 and i had no idea that in 2009 we would get back together. When we split after i while i decided to try dating again, and i ...

Her daughter told me she is cheating on me...who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - i got a question for you all.. i have been in a long distance relationship for 12 months. 3 months ago my girl cheated on me with another ..he was an old boyfriend..she said it was the distance and booze that helped her do it.. she said that in wil...

I want happiness but I'm so afraid all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I am female just turning 41. I have been involved 2 marriages since i was 18 and have had a domestic violence marriages. I am aware of attracting those kind of man and have been working on that problem. My issue is now that I have been involved ...

What is he really thinking of when we make love, me or porn stars?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend nearlly 2yrs now. i am 18 and he is 21. we use to kiss and cuddle all the time but now we dnt do it very often. he never gives me sex i get it once a week. i am a pretty girl i am slim and smart dressed i like to make ...

My mum-in-law-to-be's questions make me feel like I'm in a police station!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - right so my partner and i have been going out over 2 years but mum asks loads off questions and i duno what to answer as i can say pretty silly stuff, witch can make me very stupid and some questions makes me uncomfortable. i cant say to my bf as he ...

Is he trying to get me pregnant again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger ...

He won't let me end it but it seems he needs a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 10 months has been really distant lately, sometimes hes really lovey dovey and i times hes makin comments like i dont think were gonna make our relationship ship last a year.. i found a couple of girls numbers in his phone.. he wont ...

Does he want to get back with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - okay, so i was in this relationship for 6 months... i was in love with the guy ..when the summer started things started changing becuase he was broke and we coudnt really go out and have fun .. so it was if the relationship was fading but the love ...

Need help with steps to get her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - hello, I am 21 and have been in a relationship with a girl for a little over a year. We were coming up on our anniversary with the titles as boyfriend and girlfriend. she just just broke up with me last wednesday because she fell out of love wit...