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Archived questions from: September, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there anything I can do to smooth things over between my parents and my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1151 days ago

30 September 2021 (M) - When I was in high school, there was a fellow classmate, Justin, who bullied me for being gay. He was downright mean to me. We graduated about 15 years ago. Eight years ago, he got my number from a mutual friend and called me out of the blue....

My sister's inlaws trashed our apt by the sea and she doesn't want me to talk to them about it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1150 days ago

29 September 2021 (F) - Several years ago my husband and I purchased a 2 bedroom apartment by the sea to use as a holiday home. We let our family and friends use it too when we don’t and we don’t charge them anything - they are responsible for buying their own...

My married father is having an affair with my wife's sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1151 days ago

29 September 2021 (M) - Names have been changed here to protect identities. I've been married to my wife Tarnya for 8 years now, we've been together since 2007. The main problem here is an issue concerning my dad. I confronted him over rumors that he'd been having...

Should I walk away from the marriage and make some saving and build my own home for my children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1152 days ago

27 September 2021 (F) - I have been married for 6 years and i am 36 years, and we have two children together with my husband. My husband has a child from a previous marriage that i take care of. My husband is 45 and has fairly paying job. We live in a house that is shared ...

How do you put up with a man who you can't ask questions to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1157 days ago

27 September 2021 (F) - How do you put up with a man who you can't ask questions to? How can there be any proper communication? I'm married for 4 years and at first he didn't mind questions. I'm talking basic questions not silly or uncalled for questions. Exa...

I find I can't seem to do anything right in her eyes and I have become frustrated with the relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1153 days ago

26 September 2021 (M) - Hi aunt's and uncle's So my gf and I have been together around 2 years. She finds things to complain about ALOT. For example I don't see her much , I don't text much , I don't call much in her opinion. In my opinion I find it complete...

My fiance's ex keeps showing up at our house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1157 days ago

25 September 2021 (F) - I've been dating my fiancee for 7 years now and things have been good. We got engaged November 2019, but delayed the wedding to mid-2022 due to covid. No exes to worry about, no drama, until now. Her ex-husband from 14 years ago when she lived...

Six years and no proposal. Should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1072 days ago

25 September 2021 (F) - I started my relationship 6 years ago right away after breaking up with my ex. It was very toxic, he was 6 years older, abusive, controlling, a liar but he also became a replacement for my dad in the sense that he was there for me after every issue ...

One of my really good friends just decided to cut me off because she doesn't agree with one of my decisions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

25 September 2021 (F) - One of my really good friends just decided to cut me off because she doesn't agree with one of my decisions. I think it's a little extreme and hypocritical. The decision is that I'm meeting someone for dinner tomorrow and may be pursuing a physi...

Is he freaking out about becoming a dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1157 days ago

24 September 2021 (F) - Hi there. I am 26 and my partner is 25. We have been together for the last five years. We got engaged two years ago, our wedding was postponed due to covid from April this year to April next. We always talked about trying for children once we got ...

I want to divorce my husband because he changes his mind all the time about plans he makes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1157 days ago

24 September 2021 (F) - My husband has a son and wanted to join the military. So we made all these plans to move and pack everything. Before getting swore in he backed out of joining. I was upset because I told my job I was leaving and my family. For months my husban...

Do I confront my cousin or leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1157 days ago

24 September 2021 (F) - In 2019 my husband and I got married. We had a very lavish wedding costing us around £50,000. We both worked extremely hard for a couple of years and made lots of sacrifices to be able to pay for it- we didn’t have any handouts. My cous...

Our LDR went from being fine to him saying he couldn't do it anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1160 days ago

23 September 2021 (F) - I started a long distance relationship in June 2021 I am in northern california and he is in southern. We had met through a gathering at a restaurant in LA when I was down there in April 2021. We started talking often and right when we decided to ...

How many people would find it impossible to tolerate someone in their home being rude and obnoxious to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1160 days ago

20 September 2021 (F) - My question is this: How many people would find it impossible to tolerate someone in their home being rude and obnoxious to them? I find I have a quick cut off point where I don't want to tolerate rude, obnoxious or threatening behaviour. I ...

Our breakups cause me extreme anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1161 days ago

19 September 2021 (M) - My girlfriend of many years and I can’t ever seem to resolve any conflicts very well. This means that almost any time we argue she gets VERY angry and very mean and seemingly wants to punish me. Most of the time an argument ends with her saying ...

Did I do anything wrong for leaving my dad's company? Is there anything I can do to help repair my relationship with my dad and brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1162 days ago

19 September 2021 (M) - My dad owns a welding company and I been working for him since I was 16 years old (I started out as cleaning the bathrooms and stuff like that and I went to trade school to become a welder myself). I love the work and my dad always told me that he ...

I can’t seem to ‘forgive and forget’ for what my partner has done in the past

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1163 days ago

18 September 2021 (F) - I can’t seem to ‘forgive and forget’ for what my partner has done in the past and it’s really affecting my mental health and our relationship. We’ve been together for 8 years and have a 2 year old son together. We’ve been through a lot together. I ...

My boyfriend seems to be addicted to online games, but won't admit to it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

15 September 2021 (F) - Hey all. Thanks in advance for your help. My boyfriend seems to play a lot of online games. I think they are useless and a waste of time. He plays one particular online game every single day and sometimes for hours. I would rather get back to real ...

How do I set reasonable boundaries with my mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1166 days ago

14 September 2021 (F) - My brother physically abused me for the majority of my childhood and into my teens, and my mother blamed me for it and didn't make any effort to try and help me. It's had some long term effects into adulthood. (Abandonment issues, identity issues, ...

It's the third year anniversary of my dad's death today and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1170 days ago

11 September 2021 (F) - My dad died on September 11, 2018 and today is the 3 year anniversary of his death. My boyfriend is not supportive of me at all and it feels like my grief is an imposition on him. It is a hard day for me but he doesn't seem to understand. He h...

My husband's family would not come to our wedding because I would not get vaccinated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

11 September 2021 (F) - So, I married my partner of two years last weekend. His parents feel very strong about covid and the Vaccine. Before the vaccine was developed, I was allowed to be around his family. I chose to not get the vaccine and since then it has been so much ...

Am I dealing with a narcissist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

10 September 2021 (F) - Has anyone of you aunts and uncles come across a narcissist? I’ve being dating an older man for over three month. He came across amazing, he’s got a good job, three children and seemed like he had his life sorted. He talked about our future, told...

Do I walk away? He ignored my daughter growing up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1170 days ago

9 September 2021 (F) - My daughter and I have a good relationship overall. However, when I divorced form her father I was 25 and met a new partner who was 5 years younger than me. 28 years later we are still sort of together - we have separated many times but always got ...

It bothers me that my bf likes other women's pics on social media

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1139 days ago

8 September 2021 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles So my bf and myself have been together about 2 years. He is very active on social media. Always liking womens pics. For some reason it does bother me I think because he has cheated in the past and I've asked him nicely...

I'm suspicious of my husband's actions and feel stuck and desperate

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

7 September 2021 (F) - Dear cupid I am married to my current husband for past 3 years and we have known each other for about 6 years He often hangs out with his friends and crash in their place for about a day or two, this happened thrice in past 2 months. His car ...

There are far too many red flags. Is this guy worth it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1176 days ago

4 September 2021 (F) - I’ve been seeing my partner 6 months. I’ve previously been in a business relationships which affected me and my daughter who is 16 so I am cautious. Until I met my partner I was happy with my kids on my own but on times would like company. Generally ...

I feel betrayed and dissapointed by my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

2 September 2021 (F) - I feel betrayed and dissapointed by my family. I'm not sure is it me or what i'm doing wrong that i deserve this kind of treatment. Basically it's favouritism just because i'm a daughter and not a son that develop into some kind of trauma that ...

I like this girl but I'm not ready for a serious commitment of any sort.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1181 days ago

1 September 2021 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this girl for a 2ish years. When we first met we were both pretty adamant that marriage was off the table. I told her I didn't see myself marrying and we continued to see each other. She's slowly made passes about mov...