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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is this a fair arrangement?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a single mom, with one pre-school child. I live with my boyfriend. My question is about expenses. We split the rent 50/50, I buy all the groceries, and he pays all the car expenses(it is his car). He will not share any expenses regardin...

He's so cold to me now we've slept together

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months.we had sex after three months of our relationship,but that changed everything between us.he is so cold to me,he doesn't care to answer my calls and if he does,his response is so cold.he also ...

I have left my family home and don't wish to return but my father is threatening to cut me off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - My parents are really hands on type of parents who some times can be wayy to strict. My parents are very religious and they have a lot of rules when it comes to dating.I have 5 brothers and sister. We arent allowed to really date. We can group date ...

How do I tell him that I don't want a man in my life anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I've divorced my husband. We've been married for 20 years. My husband is 10 years older than me is a selfish controlling and very mean with money. Even if needed he wont spend. I've met this man 16 years older have the same issue - money is ...

I hit my girlfriend's brother in the face during a game of cricket and now she wont speak to me! Is she blowing this out of proportion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - 10 days back, while playing game of Cricket , I hit my girlfriend’s brother in the face. Before that , he hit me for two long hits "Six Runs hit" which I couldn’t digest and bowled the next delivery with my full force, the ball took off from goo...

Do I have anything to be worried about? How can I confront her without letting on that I snooped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Okay, so I've been dating this girl for about 5 months. We live together now and everything. We've had very little problems so far and everything has been amazing. I'm a very insecure person because I've been cheated on in the past - and this ...

Did my ex miss me? Does he still love me? Should we be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I want to know how to go about a situation. I used to date this gemini guy in high school, 9 years later we started talking again and we clicked from the start. he made me happy and I know I made him happy. everything was perfect we started getting ...

Honest opinions: Are all boys like this over oral sex or is he out of order?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - hi, have been with my bf for 5 years. we are both 26. we keep on having the same arguement ALL the time its regarding oral sex and we he nearly finished our relationship over it a couple of weeks ago. bjs are really important to him but i re...

Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...

Why do I have the worst of luck in everything, including love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - My main question here is why do I have the worst luck. I wonder, am I cursed? I mean, I haven't had one girl say that they liked me, I also was rejected once. I don't mean to start any religious conflict, but does someone "up there" hate me?? Let me ...

What do you think, is it over? What would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid My question links on from this previous question... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/our-relationship-was-amazing-and-now-i-need.html Basically I gave my gf space for five days. Come Saturday I left her a voicemail saying I ho...

Is he loosing interest or just not enough communication?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - question: i'm starting 2 feel my boyfriend doesn't care about me well first off we are long distant relationship so i feel we should communicate more to feel closer to each other well he got me mad cause he was lagging it and than when i called ...

He's been away for three months, now when he's finally coming back home-he tells me he's thinking of going back again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - My guy has been gone for three months because of a work project in Costa Rica and he's supposed to come back in early Nov. Today, he told me he might have to go back again but it's voluntary-he wants to go back. Ok. But then he says he's missed me ...

Why is my fiance trying to look different?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - Ever since we got engaged, my fiance has been trying to look different. While I want her to have all the freedom she wants (I don't want to be controlling), She is no longer recognizable to the attractive, beautiful woman she was. She used ...

Was he cheating? What does this guy want out of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - well, not sure how to start this question.. My boyfriend and I had ended our relationship. What happened the last time I went to his house, I noticed that everthing was password protected, when he never had it like that before, his laptops, his...

I'm so stuck - days just go by and life keeps ticking away and I just don't know what to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

18 October 2011 (M) - I am in a rut and have been for a long time (although I appreciate many people are!). The last 10 years in my head are nothing but a blurred montage of bad decisions, depression, regret, anxiety, ill health and lack of motivation. From about 16 ...