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writes:I want to know how to go about a situation. I used to date this gemini guy in high school, 9 years later we started talking again and we clicked from the start. he made me happy and I know I made him happy. everything was perfect we started getting serious and I was prepared to give up everything for him. We used to go out together and I used to visit him at his house we talked non stop on fb and skype and yahoo. The day before christmas I went to his house again and every thing seemed fine he even but up a cute little message about it on his wall later that day I got an email it was him telling me he his sorry and he can't be the reason I give up everything and he feels its best if we part. My heart was broken he started saying bad things about me to our friends and I did the same we both got so mad at each other he deleted me from fb I deleted him from bbm and so on. It know almost a year I haven't forgotten him still thinks about him and misses him a lot. So I took a chance and invite him on fb again we didn't say a word to each other even though we both were online went on for a month then suddenly he said hi and ask how I am we started talking about lots of things and mostly common things I was tired and gave him my bb pin and he invted me we started talking on there I invite him for coffee and he said yes but why not at my house so I went it felt kinda awkward but I'm so glad to have him back in my life and even though. He broke my heart I still love him.not one of us wanna mention the past I tried and he ask me not to go there it hurts to much. however I did ask him if he thought about me when we where apart and he replied yes. My question is did he miss me does he still love me? Should we be friends?
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reader, librafairy +, writes (20 October 2011):
librafairy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNope we are living in the same city other girl I'm not so sure I watched the movie and asked him if he ever watched it its one of his fav love stories didn't tell him that I asked for help scared he will run away.
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reader, landomando  +, writes (19 October 2011):
I hope you enjoy the movie. Are you two living far apart? How far apart are the two of you?? Because that could be the reason he is acting like this. He obviously still is thinking about you. I believe he doesnt want you to give up stuff to be with him. Also is there another girl in his life?
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reader, librafairy +, writes (19 October 2011):
librafairy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTy I will go and watch the movie, yesterday he tagged us in a photo of a year back and when I told him he isn't playing fair he made as if its not a big deal I told him it brings back memories of how good we use to be and how I miss it and suddenly. He is like no no we said we wernt gonna talk feelings. How can I not if he is doing this. And why is he doing this to me
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reader, landomando +, writes (19 October 2011):
Have you seen the notebook the movie? If not please watch it! This reminds me of it sooo much... He loves you. I dont know your whole story but what i got from what you said is he didnt want you to give up everything for him. So he broke up with you and started saying bad things about you. I know thats not okay, and i dont know exactly what he said, and all the details but a lot of guys have to hate the person they care about or love to let them go. and maybe that was a way for him to forget you. or let you go.Does he miss you? yes! does he love you? yes! should you be friends and just friends, well can you see the guy you love, and have feelings for be with another girl? If you can then you should be friends. But i really think you two still have feelings for each other. And idk that may be hard to be just friends. Its hard to be friends with someone you love.Hey, you only live once.
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