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He's so cold to me now we've slept together

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Question - (18 October 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2011)
A female Kenya age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months.we had sex after three months of our relationship,but that changed everything between us.he is so cold to me,he doesn't care to answer my calls and if he does,his response is so cold.he also doubt if i was a virgin before we met because i didn't bleed during the first sexual intercourse.i'm afraid to ask him if everything is okey between us ,he gets furious.please help,.

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A female reader, OneUnhappyLady United States +, writes (22 October 2011):

OneUnhappyLady agony auntHe actually wanted blood? Okay-sounds worse than it is right?

It sounds like he got what he wanted and he has put you on the bench.

I have news, he is not your boyfriend. He is just a jerk who is leading you on.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 October 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you are afraid to ask him ANYTHING, it's over. Do not waste anymore time on this guy and if you can don't waste anymore tears either.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 October 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntStop calling him

move on with your life...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2011):

I'm sorry hun, but this does not sound like a man who considers himself to be in a relationship with you :(

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A female reader, Rawrsie United States +, writes (19 October 2011):

Rawrsie agony auntYou need to dump him. You never once said how nice he was during the 10 months you were together. If he doubted you were a virgin how DARE he question your sex life. It's your own life you get to do w/e you want with it. Wait, if he had sex with you for 3 months and you've been with him for 10 months??? So for 7 months he's been distant and cold with you. Dump him, he doesn't seem interested in you anymore.

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