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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My wife feels upset because a woman at work doesn't like her but talks to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hello, We have been married for 19 months now. Originally both are from India. I am in the US since 2006, went back home got married (in 2010 May) and came back with my wife. Though we were complete strangers we started liking each other and e...

B/f still texts his exes and doesn't see why its a problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Right so 2years ago my bf met up with his ex behind my back and said he hadn't and saved some half naked photos of her on his computer from her facebook. We had a big row and made up. We've been good since then but he still texts other ex's and I ...

To me my wife is perfect. How do I help my wife to accept that I love her? she's still blaming herself for something that was not her fault, before we met.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I need advice on how to help my wife. We've been married a little over 3 years, have 1 daughter, and she is pregnant again with our 2nd. If our 2nd child is a boy we are going to stop, if it's a girl, we will have a 3rd trying for a boy. I ma...

Do men generally avoid a woman who has experienced sexual abuse in her past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone. I understand the moment anyone who mentions sexual abuse o/r abuse of any kind screams a red flag, but do men usually avoid women how have experienced abuse? Would you place a stigma on her as being emotionally unstable and avoi...

Married a man I did not love. Wish I could have loved him. Since then why do all my relationships end, leaving me depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I'm feeling really defeated and down so I'm hoping maybe someone can give me some advice since there have been some awesome agony aunts and uncles on this site. I was married to this guy for a few years. The only reason we stayed together for as l...

Can I ever make things right between us again? I lost a dear friend, what to do? She's blocked me every way she can.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I apologize in advance for this long story, but it is just complicated and those who read it, I appreciate it a lot! Well, I met a girl on Facebook. At first we communicated there for over 6 months, exchanging messages on almost a dail...

I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks since I found out his devastating news!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Ok,I need some advice. I've been to ashamed to share this with family or friends yet. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I'm 28 and he's 26. I found out recently almost by accident that before he started dating me he was involved...

How do I stop looking for a problem when it isn't there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I've taken a partner back after he had an affair - we are on a new road and taking back to our relationship. My problem is trust I keep looking in his phone and checking texts messages, this is my issue and I want to stop it. I recently sent a txt ...

Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...

Do I pretend that all these things never happened and gradually I'll forget all the trauma?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I used to have a crush on this guy Ax early this year but Ax made it clear that he wasn't interested in me. I was cool about it. Then months later he told me that he liked me. But I did not like him anymore. But because so many of our mutual friends ...

How I can help my friend? Should I just stay out of her problems and be a good friend to her in other ways? Or should I try to do something more to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I am trying to help a friend of mine but need advice please. The woman in question was with her partner for about 14 years and, during that time, he treated her very badly indeed - drinking, being abusive, even hitting her and showing little ...

Our relationship was amazing and now.... I need help knowing what to do next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid I’ve been in a relationship for just over seven months and it’s been amazing up until recently. Before I ask my question, here’s a bit of background that I hope will help… My ‘girlfriend’? and I met and it was very much love at fir...

Should I tell my GF I ended up having sex with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - So here is the question. To tell or not to tell? Before everyone jumps to answer this the second they read it, take a moment to chew on it. So I met this girl, we had been going out for about 2-3 weeks before I went back to school. I...

How can I change my insecurity issuses so I don't drive him away once again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My bf of almost three years and I just got back after being broken up for about six months. In the past I became insecure because I felt him becoming distant and then he would lie and hide certain things from me and then as I felt him pulling away I ...

Why would he want to help me if he does not love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend said it wont work anymore because i do not respect him. But i never saw it like that and i thought i was being open about me feelings. Like when something happens or when he says something to upset me when i confront him about it he ...

Do I open Pandora's box to ease my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been fairly open and up front with me about the women in his life. He has talked about one at work that apparently all the guys ogle, and another that has befriended him (I think she has a crush on him). We're friends on Facebook ...

Should I tell my b/f that I was raped as a teen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend that I was raped when I was in my middle teens? I've worked with this guy for almost four-years, but we just started going out a month ago. He is my first date since I was raped and I feel like I am having difficulty ...

College teacher taking it to far???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - *** of note:this is college not highschool. Thanks I'm currently taking a horticulture class and our teacher is pretty cool.Jokes around a lot and sometimes in the most ADD of ways.Class got out for lunch, and he, myself,two of my friends came alo...

Relationship of 12 years not going anywhere, so I'm cheating and want to be with that girl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I,ve been in a relationship 4 12 years now but the relationship doesnt seem to be going anywere. recently i,ve been seeing someone else behind her back, shes allot younger than me, when ever i see her i feel complete, ive even risked a kiss and ...