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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need his support. Why will my fiance not stand up for me when his Mom is appallingly rude to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My fiance's family are Mormon and his mother has never approved of me. She has always been rude to me and I have never stood up to her because I do not feel that it is my place. My fiance and I have had so many arguments about his family and he just...

To me he is disrespectful. Why mess me around? Is this how men act when they mess up?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were supposed to go to Jamaica yesterday. I booked the ticket for us back in April. He left to his home country in August and the first thing I said was remember our October trip. Anyhow three days ago, I kept asking if he had b...

He says he loves me, does not want to break up, but has no feelings for me, what do I do?/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just about eight years now, and until recently have been very happy. After a few months of feeling like he didnt want me around him, I asked if he was mad and had i done anything to upset him. He told me ...

He doesn't seem as interested as I am, what can I do to pull him closer??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - there is this guy like his single when i met him and like its being 2 months now he still don't want to start a relationship but the EMBARRASSING thing is that im in love with him and im afraid to tell him cause every time we talk on those things he ...

He is cruel, but I am afraid to break up with him, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid It might sound pathetic, but i love my bf to nuts. But he is often saying things like he is going to have sex with prostitute and he found someone else and he is thinking abt breaking up with me. Whenever he says things like this, he'll...

My sister, who irritates me tremendously, heard me call her a bitch, should I apologize??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Im 20 and my sister is 26 im the youngest and they have always treated me like a baby and since ive started growing up its been hell!! My sister and my mom are overbearing they come in my room telling me to go to bed,yell at me for being on the ...

His contacts with his ex's make me uncomfortable, should I be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Right so 2years ago my bf met up with his ex behind my back and said he hadn't and saved some half naked photos of her on his computer from her facebook. We had a big row and made up. We've been good since then but he still texts other ex's and I ...

I think I was wrong about him, what do you think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Why is this guy behaving like that? should I be offended? So I've been getting to know this guy. He loves himself and you can tell is all about him cos I ask a lot of questions trying to get him and he never asks me anything about me. He ...

Is it selfish, to want to spend time with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 23 and have been with my girlfriend who is 21 for 5months now with one break up during that time. i have graduated college and she is in her senior year and goes to school which is two hours away from me. we fell in love over the summer where ...

Why won't my LDR boyfriend see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My bf and I are long distance and have been for a long time. We don't get to see each other often, generally once every month or two. But lately it feels like he's trying to avoid seeing me. I'll admit that he does the work in visiting, he's u...

This guy is using me, isn't he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Please give me honest advice....There's an old friend of mine from high school who got back in touch with me a few months ago. We're both at different colleges now. He confessed how much he liked me since 10th grade and I had like him too but we ...

LDR boyfriend neglecting me so I got a fake profile and had sex chat with a guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - okay my boyfriend and i have a great relationship otherwise..its a long distance one..however i always had one basic problem..i dont like the way he talks to his female friends..as well as mine(when i introduce mine to him) he treats women with ...

I loved him. He hates me now. what can I do? Did he really cheat? I feel so much pain over this breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I was in a long-distance relationship for one year and a half. In a moment of intense weakness, I entered my ex-boyfriend's facebook account. There I found some chat history between him and a girl 15 years younger than him. She seemed to be flir...

Party? what Party? What does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend is going to a party and he didn't invite me. It's not the first time this has happened, really. We have been together for over a year and I think we should go to parties together! (I ALWAYS invite him to my parties ...

Did I over-react? my husband defended his friend. Ignored my feelings. The sexual joke was about me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Tell me if I'm over reacting or if I took this the wrong way. My husband has a male friend who I think has really disrespected me. They were talking online with a bunch of people. My husband's friend said: "We should get you a webcam and have ...

My girl friend wants to stop sex! I freaked out. Please, how can I make our relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Hi people of dearcupid I have a major problem with my girlfriend it is just that I love her so damn much and she all of sudden she asked that if we can stop having sex and I got freaked out and asked her why and if she is cheating on me or somethin...

Instead of looking for a job he's looking for escourts and transgenders. How do I leave him when I am penniless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I am so confused. I live the "perfect family lie," as I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids, one in school and one infant. Lately things have gone down hill majorly. My husband, who before the baby came, and still LOVES my first child, but I some...

Should I be worried? Her reasons are my snoring? my sadness is no intimacy. My wife and I haven't shared a bed in six years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms. We have been married for 19 years and this started about 6 years ago. Before that time, we always spent the night together. In fact, I can remember once when my wife was away at her mom's in another ...

My younger wife is having sexual problems. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am a 53 year old male married to a 25 year old and we are having sexual problems not by me but her. we also have 4 children. Can you give me some advice? ...