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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need advice! Someone I thought was a dear friend has scammed me for 2.5years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - can anyone advise me plaease. its taken me 2.5 years to realise the guy i thought was a dear friend has been using me and scamming me for money. i saved him from getting sacked and believed all his sob stories about being in financial trouble when ...

I am buying new home and the mortgage lender advised that my name does NOT go on the mortgage!!! Why?!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Mortgage lender told my hubby to NOT put my name on the title of the home, just put it in his will. That does not sound right, is this normal advice? So once again, we are having relationship problems when I thought we had worked it all out. Wh...

After what has happened do I have the right to be mad?!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - one night, my bf and i went out with another couple which the girl is my bff. and after bar we all expiremented a lil bit, we all never done this before. the first night was way akward, it was spose to be just me and my bff while the guys watched, ...

I regret the moment I cheated and am broken hearted, I need help from open minded people about what I can do now?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - Hello all please don't hate or judge me for this as i hate myself enough i need urgent advice here is the story: I had a ex for 8yrs and had two great kids the relationship broke down and i left but supported my kids i met a new girl who helped m...

He says he loves me very much, then says he would choose his wife over-how would you react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a married man for 5 yrs. I know he loves his wife and he won't leave her but he tells me at the same time he loves me very much and wants me and doesn't want to lose me. 2 days back, we had an argument abou...

I'm planning a big move to be with my boyfriend and my father is telling me it's the biggest mistake of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - I'm planning on movine abroad and start living a life with my boyfriend. I'll be leaving in early spring, take 6 months to see how things go both work-wise and love-wise then, if things don't work out, get back here and get my old job back (already ...

I know guys aren't mind readers, but...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Just how much and how often should I have to discuss issues with my boyfriend? I feel like all I do is point out things I'd like him to do or not do in this relationship. And he's been open and understanding in all our discussions. I've been...

She seems to be using me to break up with other guys, does she really need me? Or is she messing me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - i met a beautiful girl at a family party at someones house one night.....then on, my life changed. We facebook each other to the extreme and like it alot. I love her company on fb and we flirt quite alot as well. The problem is.....she was in a ...

Is she being honest about my performance in the bedroom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, i have a really small and thin penis and don't think i pleasure her when we have sex. she has told me she has had some huge penises before and her last boyfriend was the biggest she has ever had but tells ...

He says he wants a baby with me but sits there in my house 5 nights a week without even contributing to the costs when he knows I am struggling!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hi everybody i'm basically very confused in my relationship and need some honest answer's, i don't know if im just expecting too much or am i being taken for granted. So im a single mum of two school children ive always been pretty Independ...

Why would my girlfriend say that her ex was "just too huge"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - I've been going out with my GF for about a year, and we're discussing marriage. I've done quite well in my career, and some of the things my GF has said have given me the definite impression that this is quite important to her in a potential husb...

How can I show her that she can be vulnerable around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (?) - Ive been with my girlfriend over 7 months, however I told her how I felt about 10 months ago but uni commitments meant that we didn’t become a couple til 7 months ago She was a family friend as she used to ride horses with my sister who is...

Girlfriend sleeping in new male flatmates bed, when I am stuck abroad!

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24 October 2011 (M) - Hi, I am seeking advice in regards to my girlfriend. I am Irish and 21 and she is Spainish and 26.We have been together for a year, and I moved to Spain with her three months ago. Seen that the economic situation is shyte at the moment she failed t...

Do all girls use emotional blackmail to get things done for them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (M) - My girlfriend emotionally blackmails me that If I don’t do this or that , she will dump me. It has been happening for the last 8 months and we have been together since April 2006. She also loves me and three days back, when I came back from office, ...

Boyfriend went to the movies with another friend without me knowing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, My boyfriend is 22 and am 20 we are doing long distance relationship,we are both going to different universities!I love him and he loves me.we have been together for a little over a year now! My boyfriend has a way of doing certain...

He's like a jack in the box..popping in and out of my life, constantly. How do I deal with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - I met "busy bee" a year ago, we hit it off right away and the chemistry was just wow. at first he seemed excited i was excited he was my first of everything, my first real explosive kiss, we connected!! we would link up here and there, I thought he ...

I love him but hate his friends! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend and I know he is the one for me but I don't like his group of friends and it could potentially ruin us if I don't know how to communicate my feelings with him. I am in a blossoming loving LDR with a man I love and met through ...

How do I ensure we do NOT break up? Between school, homework, and work, he doesn't have any time for me anymore..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with D for seven months. He just started college and I'm still in high school and he barely has any time for me anymore and I'm getting fed up of being so lonely all the time. We both love each other very much and I do NOT want to...

Since starting university, I go from missing my B/f terribly and wanting nothing more than to be with him to wanting to ring him up and end things, several times a day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

24 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two and a half years. We're very close (I consider him my best friend as well as boyfriend), love spending time together and still find each other just as attractive as we did when we first started ...