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writes:This guy has been demonstrating to be attracted to me for the past few months, yet I have reason to believe he just got a blow job from another female at work. What's this all about? Guess I'll drop out of the picture totally and not even speak to him, or feel sorry for her because she was used. Need your advice, please!!
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (27 May 2008):
 First thought that comes to mind is a legal term: heresy. How do you actually know that this happened? I mean, who/what is your source? ...and what's their relationship to all this? ...somebody that might prefer you not be interested in this guy? ...and that's both for male or female reasons... all that is just for you to think about because unless you saw the blow-job with your eyes, don't jump to conclusions.
Next, assuming that it's true, then I might be more cautious about him. If he's approached you since this "event", then back off from him. As far as the other woman, well she made her choices and has to live with them.
But, assuming it's not true, you probably should consider some of my first statements... how did you find out about it? What's the reasoning for telling you this? To upset you or possibly drive you away from him. I really think you need to ask yourself some of these more logical questions... then finally ask yourself if you're interested in this guy at all and take it from there.
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Just because he's attracted to you it doesn't mean he's tripping over you. Maybe he did get the orals from another woman, he may not be using her, he might actually have sexual feelings for her, but just has attraction for you. Also he's not commited to you just because he's attracted to you, he can still go off with other women he finds attractive, different matter if you were going out, but your not, so find a guy that's interested in you and not just the pleasure you will give him, or in this case, hang back from giving him
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