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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, I am 15 years old and want a girlfriend but I lack the social skills and confidence to talk to people. How can I stop myself from being so shy? And what sort of things should i say to interest girls? Cheers,Jersey
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reader, Cordelia +, writes (10 January 2007):
Hey im also only, 15 and female so i can probably help you with this. First of all we dont think boys with no confidence is cool. Act proud and bold make us notice your there instead fo fading into the background. Focusing on one girl, everytime she walks past smile at her, then try saying hello, next time your in a lesson together, say hey and maybe ask her how she is. Interest her in things, you like. And if all fails just think, that was just pratice and start again. I hope this helps you. Dont let us knock your confidence were not worth it. xxx Cordi
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): ok..if ur very shy to girls..never think of them as a girlfriend..always come up to them and treat them like they're your friends..like -- wassup?..and / or ask them a question if they're in ur class..hmm..usually. most girls like guys that give the respect..but dont be a nerd and stay 5 feet away frm them!!..just make ur self comfortable..o yea..starting givin them a hint one by one..if ur sure that she likes u..
t-t, 16
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