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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

We broke up but I want my ex back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

31 May 2017 (F) - Hi cupids..I might be all over the place but thank you for reading this. So..I keep calling my ex lately and he hasn't been picking up the last few random times. Of course.. he is probably annoyed since I block my calls.. We broke up 8 months ago. ...

I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex ...

Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told ...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

She's broken up with her boyfriend, is it too early to ask her out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hey there everyone! Hope you all are well! I'd like some advice of you could. So I'm a 30/male this girl I need advice about is 25 I believe. She moved in to the apartment next door to me about 6 months ago. I instantly thought she was one of the ...

How can I make my partner's ex not hate me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - My current partner and I got together while he and his then wife were going through a slightly bumpy divorce. Our relationship evolved pretty fast, and I didn’t see this as an issue because they had since moved away from each other, living in their ...

Does my ex have unresolved feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - So I dated this girl long distance about 3 years ago. The relationship was fine until the very end when she started lying and treating me horribly. Long story short, she ended up cheating on me with her best friend (shd denied that she cheated on ...

Closure on possibly unfaithful ex boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I was in a four year relationship in which I pretty much did everything for my partner. I paid for everything, was disrespected, even had him move in with me for a couple months until he got back on his feet. I come from an extremely broken family ...

Boyfriend's emotion letter to ex for closure has left me feeling second best

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2733 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - I'm in a confused relationship, my boyfriend of 3 years (were living together) send a closure to his ex-gf behind my back. She cheated on him with another guy 5 years before we got together. He already told me that he dated one girl after her before ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2735 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

Is my ex a manipulator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2734 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - Hi All, I would like some advice on a person I stopped seeing recently and whether she sounds like a manipulator or I am thinking too much into things. We split up after about 18 months and we went no contact, I was doing fine and then she deci...

My girlfriend left me to go back to her husband. She said she didn't love me enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - My girlfriend recently broke up with me of 4.5 yrs to go back to her husband she left 8 yrs ago. She never stopped working for him and has been doing the same dead end job for 28 yrs. He is a grandiose type person, a bit of a show-off and loud. He ...

I've done all the normal things to block my former fwb partner but he keeps trying to find me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

14 May 2017 (F) - My former fwb keeps looking for me. He found out where I work and used that as an excuse to message me. He wants to have sex of course. I've been single and abstinence from sex by choice and I'm content with that. I've had declined his advances, ...

My boyfriend needs time to figure his life out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

13 May 2017 (F) - I've written on here before about concerns with my boyfriend not saying I love you after about 5 months. However, we split up/decided to take a break yesterday although I'm unsure exactly which it was. Our relationship has been very happy...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

Why would my ex male friend partially ghost me instead of going to complete NO Contact? How do I end this madness?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - First he tried to ease me into a FWB, after agreeing to friendship. We spoke, text and video chatted practically everyday. We did have sex twice. He wanted to continue to have sex as an FWB. I informed him recently that I was not FWB material. I ...

What should I do? Four years after we broke up my ex still hangs around, tries to get my attention and stares at me whenever he sees me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Hi I split from my ex boyfriend 4 years ago, after I had a miscarriage. Neither of us wanted to split up but after the miscarriage he ended it with me i moved on met another man and had a baby girl. Yet my ex still hangs around and stares at me an...

Do you think he'll ever be open to friendship with me? Two weeks after dumping me he was back on dating sites.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Hello, I am hoping for some advice and help to make sense of a situation I am in. Was together with a man for 9 months. He lived about 90 minutes away, and for various work and child matters we saw each other from Friday through till Sunday ever ...

Feeling upset. Is this just natural or am I wrong? I love my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Well...not been on here for a while. I am engaged, pretty happy with my partner of 5 years then my mother goes and mentions my ex who split with me when times got hard on my family farm and I got very depressed and lost everything. Things got na...

I do have trust issues. How do I resolve this situation with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - Please no negative replies!!! I feel low enough!! I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year. I had known him for 2-3 years before that as a friend. We split about 4 months ago but have kept in touch. The reason for the split was because...

Could I successfully end up with my first love after all the years we've been apart? Been divorced, now separated from my second husband.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - I need serious advice. Do you think you can end up with your 1st love after years apart? I have 3 children, seperated for over a year, married twice but all my children from my 2nd husband. When I was 15 I fell in love for the 1st time-was no...

I'm thinking about people in my past! Also I'm not satisfied with my sex life! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - A little back story before getting into my concerns-I have been married for almost half a year. We are both very much in love and have a great relationship and I'm treated very well. I'm happy! I lost my virginity to my husband, as he's the only one ...

Should I let my b/f go to a party where his troublesome ex will be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - I have a question i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we seperated for a year but kept seeing each other on and off here's the thing he left the house when we seperated and went to live with his brother whichhis brother has a wife that has 2 ...

What do I tell my child if he wants to know about his father's side of the family? My ex has another son, do I tell my child about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - !6 years ago i was in a relationship and had a baby , the ex decided he didnt want us both so 'disappeared' moved away and denied it was his child. He was 8 years older than me i was 23 so not like we were young and didnt know about things. I neve...

Am I being unreasonable? When is it okay to not feel comfortable having your boyfriends ex flings hanging around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2748 days ago

4 May 2017 (F) - Two months ago I started seeing this guy. Three weeks into our relationship he tells me he has to go away for work. He asked me to stay at his place and watch his cat. The morning he's leaving it comes up that it’s his ex from months ago who hire...

Why is he denying things about his past that I believe are true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

3 May 2017 (F) - Hey all..need a little advice.. This guy I had been in a relationship has recently come on the scene, He basically moved away with work then met another girl, become engaged had a baby with her etc.. He doesn't know I know all this. I found out vi...

Do I confess to my date about his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

3 May 2017 (M) - What do I do? I've got a date with this guy who I've fancied for a long time, but last year, I catfished his ex. Not on purpose, I just wasn't comfortable at the time with my sexuality. We spoke every day and then I realised after a couple ...

I'm now taller than my former boyfriend and feel uncomfortable about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2750 days ago

1 May 2017 (F) - Hi I used to date a guy in school (we were young and it wasn't really serious.) He was taller than me back then and often teased me about being shorter than him. I didn't really mind because it was always meant jokingly. After 10th grade he we...