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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My former fwb keeps looking for me. He found out where I work and used that as an excuse to message me. He wants to have sex of course. I've been single and abstinence from sex by choice and I'm content with that. I've had declined his advances, ignored him and blocked him from social media but he doesn't get it. He has a pregnant girlfriend as well. Not sure what to do now? Reply to this Question
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reader, ashleighkaylin  +, writes (7 January 2018):
 Answer his call ONCE to tell him you blocked him for a reason! You won't be having sex anymore and he needs to leave you alone. Tell him you'll call the police if he tries to contact you. Document everytime he tries after that. Tell your boss there is a man named His Name who is This Old, This Tall, with This Color Hair and Eyes who keeps bothering you. Show a picture if you have one. You don't have to tell him you were FWB. Just that you don't want to talk to him.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (14 May 2017):
 Threaten to tell his girlfriend what he is doing if he doesn't back off. That should make him think twice.
He is not getting the message because, being a woman, you are probably being far too polite, not wanting to hurt him.
Put yourself in the shoes of his poor pregnant girlfriend. At the time she is at her most vulnerable, that snake is trying to hook up with other women (you are probably not the only one) for sex.
You have tried the polite approach and the blocking approach. Now tell him in words a 5 year old can understand that, if he doesn't stop stalking you, you will tell his girlfriend what has been going on. I bet you never hear from him again.
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