New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (6), 2 (20), 3 (10), 4 (21), 5 (19), 6 (24), 7 (14), 8 (21), 9 (9), 10 (17),
11 (37), 12 (15), 13 (15), 14 (15), 15 (13), 16 (15), 17 (23), 18 (20), 19 (12), 20 (19),
21 (14), 22 (6), 23 (13), 24 (16), 25 (19), 26 (17), 27 (5), 28 (11), 29 (20), 30 (19),
31 (28),

Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...

How can I open up to him more when he talks about sexy stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i ...

Can you really go from being bi curious to straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Right here goes x im 17, ive been with my boyfriend since we were 13 and i love him to pieces. the thing is, he's always been openly bisexual, and ive always accepted that as part of who he is and i love him despite that, i honestly have no...

Am I not good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Heyy Peoples! Recently i started dating one of my childhood friends and everything is going great! I'm so happy! We both gave eachother our bebo passwords. One day i decided to check his private mail. I probly shouldnt have invaded his privacy...

He's ignoring me, what do I do? He was my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - please help me i really need help because i dont know what to do i feel so ill and sick. i have been texting a guy for nearly 3 months and we were getting on brilliant he was kinda my boyfriend! until 5.30pm today uk time. i messaged him saying what ...

I need him, he is my Romeo... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i just got busted for sneaking my boyfriend over to my house today to hang. My grandma's finace called my mom and she was pissed off, so she is taking my phone so i can not text or call him and we are in love. we made out an had clothes sex behind ...

Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than revenge on his cheating wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than sex? I'm 19 and have started an affair with a 45 year old man. His wife had been cheating on him for 2 years with his best friend before we even met and he stayed faithful to her ...

It seems like I'm going to lose her... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hey,Guys, I have some problems with one of my friends, And i need you help. This is the thing,one of my friend's a girl, who has been my friend since high school, is going to celebrate her birthday, and asked me if i can give her a prese...

Is it possible I could have an STD? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I really need to know, ASAP... can you get symtoms of an STD the day after you have sex? It was unprotected and my first time with him... such a huge mistake! I don't know what I was thinking!!!!...

Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...

Do I leave my boyfriend for this other guy even though I might not end up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - this is a very long and complicated story lol. so i was very good friends with a guy named "j" and i always had feelings for him ever since we met but i never said anything until 10 months after meeting. he admitted he like me as well but there was ...

How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too... But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I ...

My boyfriend thinks I am faking it when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hey , my boyfriend said i sounded like i was faking it during sex but i wasnt and i told him that. What does faking it exactly mean? Cause the thing is if i keep my mouth shut nothing would come out inless i make my mouth open, is that faking? I ...

I feel like she owes me a proper explanation of how she feels at least!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me after we started University last November, saying she didn't want to be in a relationship at that time. We were together for around 5 months after a friendship progressed and I had helped her through a suicide attempt and ...

The boys I've known have only been after one thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - i know im only 19, ever since i have been 15 i have always had boys attention,iv always had a boy to text and cheer me up when im down. but latley iv realised that they only wanted mefor 1 thing and kept we sweet to get it. since i have realised ...

When it comes right down to it boys never want a relationship with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm fed up of boys using me when they are bored. They give it all the sweet talk like " I really like you and couldn't imagine having this much fun with another girl" but when it come to it they never want a realtionship. This isn't the 1st ...

A few questions about the pill

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have a few questions about the pill. Does it cost anything? Are there any health risks from taking the pill? Where do I get it? I'm 16, does my mum need to know i'm taking it? I know that i need to use a condom too as it is the only contra...

I'm completely ready to give up my whole life for my online crush of 5years. Is this normal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I'm convinced that I'm completely in love with someone I've never met. We've spoken to each other online for 5 years, the first time we spoke then and got to know each other we'd said we liked each other but then disregarded ...

I had sex without protection, how do I ask my mum for a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - me and my bf were on a date we went to the movies when it was over we went to his car and we were making out then that leaded to sex i was leting him lead when i got home i was scared cuz i didnt use a condom and if i ask my mom for a pregantce test ...

Would getting a guy a teddy bear for his birthday be stupid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - He always tells me he's lonely and so I always tell him teddy bears help. So finally his 16 bday is coming up (we're just friends) and I was just wondering if getting him a teddy bear would be too embarrassing for him? He's a nice guy, I think he ...

I'm so confused, have I made the wrong choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - So i kind of need some advice, i dated my ex for 7 1/2 months and we broke up because he made out with my ex bestfriend and now im with a new guy and i love this new guy but when he is away i brake down in tears i feel like my heart was ripped out ...

After I masturbate, its hard to pee!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I'm a girl, after I masturbate it's hard to pee...Eventually once I do I have to go a lot. Is this normal? If not, I'm too scared to tell my parents. Please give me an answer....

Am I a tramp?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I've been a very bad discusting person well i think so anyway :( ive had sex with two boys in the space of a month, and other sexual acts with them too spreading over 5 months im just realising now that i feel nasty and horrible, im sucha tramp...

Should he be saying this if he's not my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (?) - Well, me and this guy have been talking for about two weeks. He's really sweet, we get along really good. I like him a lot. We constantly text, all the time. He keeps the conversation flowing asks me questions. We have hung out a few times, we've ...

How do I get over the pain of the relationship and be able to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - About three months ago my girlfriend of about 5-6 months broke up with me saying I don't want to be in a relationship at the time. The following day She went out with my friend and she insulted me when I told her it upset me and so did my friend. ...

Help my girlfriend cheated on me and I need to know what to do I'm so sad!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I have been dating this girl for 9 months. I am 16 years old. she is 15. i love her so much as she says she loves me just as much. at the beginning of our relationship she would talk to lots of guys and i would get jealous and tell her not to....

Does this mean that I'm gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I have only masturbated twice but have tried to much more but just can't, sometimes i have tried for hours and i ejaculate but it's only a dribble. One day after an hour or so of trying to cum i decided to try a new thing and put on some gay porn ...

I think I fancy my best mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I think I fancy my best mate, but I don't want to ask him out in case he says no and it breaks the great friendship we have, I'm so confused. we have been friends for 9 years help me please....

How can I be sure to impress him on our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - there's this guy i like, and he told me he wants to go out with me. how can i be sure to impress him on our first date? thanks for the help, love, Mandy....

Nitpicking everything and turning it into a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm nit-picking everything in my relationship and turning it into a fight. Sometimes, I feel like I'm so in love and I couldn't imagine being without my boyfriend, but ever once in a while, I don't want him t...

Am I too obsessive? I need something else in my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I feel really strong about each other, but the thing is I feel more strong then him.. He says he always loves me more, and I feel that's a lie. I know I love him more but I feel a little obsessive. If he doesn't call me back ...

17 & I have a foot fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - is having a foot fetish weird im only 17?...

Help!!! Are these rumours true???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - On Friday night I was out celebrating with friends as we've just left college. I'm a lightweight compared to them as I don't drink often, and had close to nothing to eat that day. Now I can't remember much from the night, but stories have got back...

Is this still phone sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Hey, well i was wondering if some one masturbates on the phone and the other person just listens does that still count as phone sex? Also do you get less nervous the more you do it? Thanks for your time....

Does it sound like he still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I've been in love with a guy for more than half my life. He asked me out when we where younger, but we grew apart. Our mothers are best friends and work together so we go over to their house allot. Im going to be working with him soon. His friend ...

I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still wi...

He sees her as much more than a friend, should I let her know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (M) - Okay, so being the caring friend that I am, i really feel that I need to step in and help a mate, but first I need you guys to help me. Basically, my mate (I'll call him Bob for the purposes of this) has a female friend, Katie (again not her real...

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...

What did he mean when he said "take care" in his text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Im kinda dating this guy and we got in a little fight and he said "I'm going to sleep k night sweet dreams take care muahh" what does take care mean in the text message ...

How can I make his birthday picnic more special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and I really love him. Well, his birthday is coming up and since it's going to be June and I don't really have a lot of money to spend, I want to surprise him by taking him to the beach and ...

Any new technique to make masturbating a better experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I am a 17 year old female who masturbates frequently. At least 2-3 times a week. I use my finger and own a dildo, but I am wondering if there is anything else I can do, or any new techniques to try to make it a better experience :) Thanks...

Face or personality? What attracts you, guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - For all of you males out there. Which one of these do you think is most important for a girl to have? beautiful face, nice body or good personality? which one is most important?...

How do I handle the feelings I have for my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I think I'm falling for my friend, or actually I may have already... It's so weird, usually when I have crushes it doesn't last long its just like a couple weeks and then when they get a girlfriend I get over it. But my friend has a girlfriend for a ...

What is his deal? I don't understand, does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have this guy friend who I like, who may like me I'm not sure. There are two things he did that really bug me because i don't know why. One was he and his best friend randomly stopped by my work (I work in a bridal store) to just say hi and ...

I cant find a good reason to talk to the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay so theres this boy at my school that ive had a crush on for a long while. Ive realised that im completely in love with this guy, and I pretty much think hes amazing. I cant think of anyone else id rather be with! Although the fact im so in love ...

Tricky love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Okay well i have this BIG problem Its really complicated and hard to explain but its a tricky love triangle basically. Well i'll start from the beginning... Me and my Best friend work at the same place, and theres this guy at work i REALLY...

How do I stay in touch without getting between them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I have this guy in my one of my classes.I really like him.BUT He has a girlfriend of 4 years and he's graduating this year and moving to another city. I know, i can't date him, but i'd really like to stay in touch with him beyond high school. How do ...

In Love, Or In Love With The Sex?..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I ...

Birth control question!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I have been on birth control for about 4 months and after the first two months I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend a bunch. A condom is not used AT ALL. Do you think I should have less sex, sex with a condom all the time, or ...

What's the right approach to ask her to be my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I've known this girl for about 3 years and she just broke up with her bofriend about 2 weeks ago and during those 2 weeks and still continuing we have been hanging out 3-4 hrs after school, we also hang out during school. she is always close by me, ...