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writes: Well, me and this guy have been talking for about two weeks. He's really sweet, we get along really good. I like him a lot. We constantly text, all the time. He keeps the conversation flowing asks me questions. We have hung out a few times, we've made out a lot. I'm usually not like that, I've only made out with one other person... Okay, he said I love you the other night... Through a text. He said "goodnight hunn, I love youu" I just said "okay, goodnight" I completely ignored it... We're not even in a relationship, its only been two weeks... What should I do? Please help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUmm... Sorry, I didn't mean to do two things. I didn't think the first one I wrote worked, so I tried it again.... So, sorry:o Haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat is true, I'm making it seem okay to just be friends with benefits... But don't you think saying I love you is wanting to be a little more than just friends with benefits or playfull. Isn't it suppose to be a really bad sign if someone says they love you early on in the relationship? It could be that he just wants to get in my pants... But, I have told him I want to wait, he says he does too. Is it true that all guys want is sex? I can't seem to find a decent guy who wants to wait... I thought maybe him, but now I'm lost. I'm scared that he has done this with a million other girls. And, is it bad that we always text?
By the way, thanks soo much to both of you for the answers! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's true, I do allow him to make out with me even though we're not going out... He knows I'm not normally like that though. But, isn't saying I love you more than just friends with benefits and playful..? I am scared that he does this with a lot of girls. I just don't think he loves me, I'm scared he's only saying it to get in my pants. Even though I've told him a million times that I want to wait, he says he does too. And, we're always texting, is that bad? I just don't know what to do... Should I explain to him that its too early for me to say I love you. And, some people say its a really bad sign if someone says they love you early on in the relationship.
Thank you both soo much for your answers! :)
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 Ahhh, he might love you! I know it seems a bit early, and I applaud you for being honest and not saying it just because he does. If he's your age, I'm sure he's saying it because he's never felt this strongly for someone else before he met you. Just let him express how he feels, and you don't have to say it until the time is right for you.
If he asks you how you feel, just be honest. If he is saying he loves you to get you to be physical with him, he'll find out soon enough that that does not work with you.
If it bothers you that he's saying it, a loving and gentle conversation telling him how you are feeling would be good.
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reader, vssia +, writes (31 May 2010):
Well you are friends with benefits, what can you expect? ;) No, don't try and deny it, you make out with him even though your not going out, he clearly wants a less open relationship. Or he's just playful.
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