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Face or personality? What attracts you, guys?

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Question - (30 May 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

For all of you males out there. Which one of these do you think is most important for a girl to have? beautiful face, nice body or good personality? which one is most important?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010):

Im guessing complete opposite of girls attraction but here goes.

FIRST FACE THEN BUTT AND THEN BOOBS.If that all checks out then personality.Don't let anyone tell you differently.We do have different opinions on what is a good face butt or boobs though, that's the hard part to figure out.Generally speaking pretty face ,small butt, big boobs can't go wrong with that combo.If you have it all we can die a happy man.Except if you cheat on us then we have to start all over.It happened to me that way.Add faithful to the list then you have super woman.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

That depends on whom you are marketing at, a good looking girl with little personality may get the man at first but soon be dumped, a great personality and less than beautiful girl may get over looked at first. So if you are looking for personal advice for yourself, then look in the mirror and make the most of your face as you can by wearing make up that suits your colouring, having a hair style to suit your face. Check out your clothes to make sure what you wear suits your body shape and not forgetting the colours that make you look gorgeous. Finally, make sure your both a good listener and can talk back clearly and not over the top loudly, not forgetting to beable to have a joke laugh. Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

Looks first then personality.

Unless the woman is attractive I wouldn't approach her, unless she has a great personality I wouldn't stay.

Luckily my wife is a 10 out of 10 in both aspects :)

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A male reader, Starmonster888 United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2010):

Starmonster888 agony auntI can't approach a girl who isn't facially attractive to me, and I once I approach who IS facially attractive girl, I can't stay with her is she doesn't have an awesome personality about her.

Body and face,for me, kinda go hand in hand to a certain extent.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

A beautifull face definatly captures a mans attention.

Imagine a man walking and scanning a crowd of people, or walking into a room full of people, if he makes eye contact or see's this pretty face he's definatly going to want to know more about the girl, thats where personality comes into it.

I wouldnt say personality is the most important though, as you only get to know a persons true personality the more time you spend with that person. Alot of people get nervous or act a different way when getting to know someone, some people are even shy around new people, yet when there truley comfortable they could be the loudest, craziest person they know.

Everything plays a part. Individuality being the key part.

Every person is different, therefore you cannot determine what will be more important for one person or another. Thats why you also can't define what beauty is. One person may find another person beautifull, yet another may look at that girl and think 'what's he doing with her? shes ugly.'

Each to there own. Be yourself. Express yourself as you wish. Someone will think your amazing for you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

I can only speak for myself. I do notice a girl's face and body and think that those do attract me. But I could not get in a relationship for those. Plus most girls are fine on those, even though it seems like even the most beautiful ones are very self-conscious. Personality really matters most to me. The girl I care about has a nice face and body, but so do a lot of other girls. But I couldn't imagine wanting a different girl for a face and body.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (30 May 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntYep, looks and then personality.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntEach one follows the other. Notice face first, then body gets checked out, then - the personality could be the dealbreaker!

Actually, she doesn't have to have beautiful physical features - just 'interesting' to each individual guy.

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A male reader, quiquechapin91 United States +, writes (30 May 2010):

My girl is beautiful and has a great personality..but I pick personality first cuz I gotta put up with it. And I don't start liking a girl because she is gorgeous, I need to know her alot more deeply.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

the face is most important for the initial attraction and it doesn't need to be prety but attractive. e.g the face of actress Sigourney Weaver is not beautiful by classical standards but has one hell of attraction. after that for the attraction to grow to love, personality, femininty, good manners, softness, loyality are the most important factors. body is not decisive as long as it is not fat.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

Well, this changes for all guys, but I prefer a better personality. While that is usually the most important thing, for most guys, it doesn't mean the rest is unimportant. I wouldn't date an ugly old hag with a good personality, or a bitchy super model.

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