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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I have a boyfriend but have the hots for my best friend's brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Ok... So.. I'm a 14 year old girl in year 9 at school... and I have a boyfriend... he is 15 and in year 11... I really like him but there's a problem... my best friend has a older brother and he is absolutely amazing... He is 17 and I know ...

I don't know who to believe, him or the rumours...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - There's this guy (let's call him A) who asked me out a few days ago. Before then, I had only known him for three weeks and had already heard many rumours of his womanising behaviour and lack of respect for his girlfriends and girls in general. ...

I really need someone to shake me up and tell me to get a reality check.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I know this is like a lot of typical cases.. but I really need help. I'm in my second year in high school, and I've had this same crush since the first week of freshman year. This guy had shared one class with me last year- which is how I got to ...

Should I tell him I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Well, I really like this boy and he's one of my REALLY good friends. We're freshmen in high school, and last year (8th grade) we met, and we became best friends, and I told him everything. I'm 14(15 next month) and he's 15, almost 16. Now that ...

Can my school fax four transcripts to different schools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I plan on transferring to another college for the spring but I am not sure exactly what college I want to go to. I haven't spoken with an advisor yet because I want to have my mind made up. Is it possible that they can fax my transcript to four ...

Was she expecting me to ask her out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - help! i'm 13 and i fancy this girl and i know she considers me a mate. the other day she asked me who i fancied and i said her. thing was, she'd already figured that out and thought it was really sweet. so what do i do now??? i am hopeless at this ...

Goths, Emo's, Chavs, what's the point of all this labeling?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey, Okay, basically, people like to label people, but why do they take it so far? Goths: They are supposed to be depressed, they wear black, and people don't like them because they are either different or they think that because they wear bla...

I hate not talking to him and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - i have started to like one of my best friends (DM) but my best girl mate likes him as well. recently he started bitching about her to me, but to her face he acts all nice. today someone told her what he said and he blamed me. now he wont talk to ...

Is he my toyboy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) - Hi everyone my question is this who come guys can date younger girls but girls cant date younger guys? I'm having this problem I'm 13 so's my bf but hes in the year below me I feel like we're falling in love we have loads in common and inseparable! ...

Does he like me, not like me or just not know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Right, typical teenage boy trouble: BAsically, there's this guy i like at school (NM), and i really like him loads, and i wanted to find out if he liked me... so on msn last night i atold my friend i liked NM and asked her if she could ask him be...

My boyfriend finds it very difficult to attach himself to anything or anyone... will this change with time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My bf's parents are divorced and he doesn't attach himself to anything or anyone saying he doesn't want to get hurt... he is not open to me.. it's been 2 years we have been seeing each other... Will this affect my future with him?...

He put his hand down my blouse and touched my breasts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some help I'm so confused. Myself and my best guy friend (Jack) have been flirting ever since we met 3 months ago, and I know you might think it's weird that he is my best friend after three months but as soon as we met we clicked! He ...

He died when I went to make a phone call and I feel so bad because I wasn't there.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I really need some help with this. My dad was my whole world but when i was nine he started drinking and became an alcoholic. He started hitting me and one night he raped me. I still thought the world of him as i learnt to separate the dad who drank ...

My ex hit me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My ex hit me. He put me down, told me I was fat and ugly and now this is affecting how I am with my new boyfriend. I have been with my current bf for a year. If he moves too quickly I flinch, if he shouts I get scared, and I'm always asking him if ...

It's a question of age!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey got a simple question. I just wanted to know whether its ok to date a guy say 5, 6, 7 years older than you?...

Every time I think that I may be actually getting over him it's like he knows I am and tries to crawl right back into my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Two years ago I had started my first job when I had met Dave. As soon as I had layed eyes on him I was infatuated. Within a couple of days knowing him I had made up my mind that I had grew feelings for him. A few weeks later I had found out that he ...

No win situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, My best friend Alexia has been with her boyfriend for two years +. I've become very close to both of them and her bf is now like a brother to me. Last year, he went to uni Alexia since then has slept with four other lads and at a party, she was...

Is it wrong of me to want to have fun before I settle down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I think relationships at my age are more to do with fun rather than love and she got really upset. I do love her but I don't want a serious relationship just yet. I'm only 17. I've been going out with her for over a year ...

I just want him to love me for me, not just use me for sex or try to make me the person he wants me to be.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my bf for just over a year, I love him so much, I nearly died a few months back and since then things haven't been right, he won't open up to me or talk to me. But now I have an STI and I think he has been cheating, he tells me he ...

I used to avoid his parents who don't like me but now we're invited over for X-mas, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - my problem might seem a bit silly. i lived at my boyfriends parents house for about 5months but i would always avoid his parents, i wouldnt talk to them and wouldnt come out of his bedroom until they went out. i have had some problems with his dad, ...

How can I show him how much he means to me and not go over the top?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year things havent really gone well, my dad died and we have had some problems. mainly because of me being very depressed and moody. he was going to leave but we decided to try again. how can i ...

He said he wants to forget about me but he doesn't even know me that well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - The guy I like, well people have told me that I had fallen for him and apparently is obvious, he told me that there was a connection and that because he didn't know me that well he didn't want anything more, because we don't have the same interests ...

He told me he felt trapped and wanted to be able to have me and have sex with other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. We moved in together earlier this year we was happy, but couldnt keep the place as we couldnt afford it. He is a bit older than me, 23. Then i got my own place and he wouldnt move in, then ...

We will wait until marriage to have sex, I know he likes oral sex but I can't do it, any ideas for a first-timer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My b.f and I started daing about 3 years ago.. we will be getting marring in about 1 yr. actully less then that the date is aug 2009. Anywho we decided a long time ago that we would wait till marrage to have sex well. hear we are im still a virgin. ...

How soon after having treatment for Chlamydia is it OK to have safe sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I had chalamydia last year i had treatment and so did my partner. But i have it again. I had treatment yesterday and so did my partner. Is it possible that the treatment didn't work last time? And how soon after having treatment is it ok to have ...

You won't believe this..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Okay, you are not going to believe this, but.. My gran works for a very rich man, and she is very friendly with him. I used to help out my gran, and so me and this gentlemen both new each other. This was around 7 years ago, so when I was 10-11...

He hardly spends time with me and says the more I whine, the more he will do this!...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about ten months..the longest relationship I've ever had. I don't think I've ever felt real love until him. It took me a while to realize this. I was with another guy when I first met him and he tried to convince me to ...

As soon as I put a condom on my erection is gone... what's up with that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Alright, so two things now. I know it's been awhile since i've checked in here, but.. I've been abit busy with my girlfriend. SO.. first thing's first, don't call me stupid for asking, but how likely is it that my girlfriend can get pregnant while ...

I caught my sister's boyfriend cheating on her, what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) - I saw my sister's boyfriend cheating on her (she's 14 and he's 17 and he's also is in my grade) at a party and I think he was drunk. I always had a bad vibe around him but I thought I being paranoid so I ignore it (plus my sis wouldn't’t have listen ...

Should I continue my friendship with my teacher? I don't want to fall in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'd really apperciate it if you read this and give me some feedback because I am reallyy confused! I had this " student teacher " that is now attending school. So he doesn't teach at my school anymore. I've always thought he was attractive a...

I'm obsessed by Matthew Lewis!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 (turning 19 in February), been crazily into the Harry Potter series since I was eight, and I've been OBSESSED with Matthew Lewis (the amazingly hot and sweet guy who plays Neville Longbottom in the series) since I was 10. I would say I'd ...

Opinions about perfume!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks...

I think my boyfriend likes someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 13 years old and my name is Narda! Well I have been having some problems because I have a boyfriend and I think he likes another girl which I am very mad about! I need some advice because I really like him and I don't want to break up...

How can I bring her to orgasm without actually having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - This is more a question to girls than guys but if they have any tips please share them. I've been with my girlfriend 4 months now. We've yet to have sex but we have done other things. Has anyone got any tips on how I could make her orgasm without ...

I'm afraid to have sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - hey i am 14 years old and i am really afriad to have sex because i am afriad that i will get cought and plus im agfraid that it is gonna hurt really bad.and that people is gonna call me a slut,whore (ect)but most of all ...my friend is 14 and she is ...

I need to take care of this problem, this guy keeps making sexual comments to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - there is this guy at school that is 13 and im 13 but when we are at tech school he keeps tellin me that he wants to have sex wid me and for me to give him a bj, i dont like him and its wierd cause he did the same thing to my cousin and almost got ...

My boyfriend barely kisses me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey, I don't know why but I've noticied my boyfriend doesn't like kissing much. I mean we pop kiss all the time but I mean really kissing. I just want emotion into it, pops don't really have a meaning. I feel kinda crappy cause like the guys in my ...