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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I don't know why but I've noticied my boyfriend doesn't like kissing much. I mean we pop kiss all the time but I mean really kissing. I just want emotion into it, pops don't really have a meaning. I feel kinda crappy cause like the guys in my past always wanted to kiss me and liked how I kisses so it's like why doesn't he? I want to feel wanted when he kisses me -___- lol. He usually only kisses me hi and bye or when were being physical obviously but I really don't like that. He wasn't like that before, in the beginning of the relationship we were always kissing. I think it's important :/ I've pointed this out to him but like nothing changes. What does this mean?
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reader, Zim  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 This could be for a number of reasons, or could simply be the fact that he wants to respect you and your body. Believe it or not, there are men like that out there.
Has his behaviour other than kissing changed? If not, or if it has changed for the better, then the reason could be simply the one given above. What you need to do, is not "need" the kissing. In a relationship, the kissing is important as it shows affection both personally and to others. What others think at your age is very important. However, kissing all the time, whilst enjoyable will not make a relationship work.
One of my best friends and his now wife confided in me that they both slowly lost that excitement of kissing over the years they have been together. That being said, they of course still enjoy it and want it, but to them it took a back seat, in that other parts of their relationship were more exciting.:-) What has he said back to you?
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