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writes:I've been dating this guy for about ten months..the longest relationship I've ever had. I don't think I've ever felt real love until him. It took me a while to realize this. I was with another guy when I first met him and he tried to convince me to be with him the couple of months I was with the other guy so when we broke up, I decided to give it a shot and it turned out to be the best relationship ever... up til now.He used to want to have this super cling to each other, major serious relationship more so than i did. So we would always be together 24/7 every second of the day and we would never hang out with our friends or anything. I know that's not healthy but I like it that way because I felt like he was 100% completely devoted to me. So the past like, month, he's been hanging out with his friends constantly and blowing me off. But we've talked and fought about it and he says that the more i whine about it, the more he's gonna do it. I know I need to give him his time to hang out with his friends. but he's over doing it and hardly spending any time with me...and the worst part is he's doing it on purpose. But I just don't know why because I've gave him opportunites to break up with me and told him that maybe we should just go ahead and end it but he refuses. What can i do to make him want to be with me again?He knows that if I just act like ive completely just stop caring that I'm just using reverse psychology because I tried that. I wouldn't have anything to do with him for 3 days but it didn't matter because he just ran off with his friends, and he said that he knew I was doing that on purpose.Does he just want to have the upper hand all the time and do whatever but still keep me or what?Help please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Let me say if we spend time with our friends it gives the relationship some space.
Space is very important in a relationship.
But....
the way he is treating you is HORRIBLE!!.Girl,Show some spine.
Dump him Pronto!Never go back again.This is emotional abuse.
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