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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. We moved in together earlier this year we was happy, but couldnt keep the place as we couldnt afford it. He is a bit older than me, 23. Then i got my own place and he wouldnt move in, then he told me he felt trapped and wanted to be able to have me and have sex with other girls. I agreed to this as i love him. Now he doesnt want sex with anyone else, but he wants us to watch porn together. I have done this with him and he gets really excited. He is going into the army soon and im worried he will cheat or sleep with someone else.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (5 December 2008):
Honey!!! You are setting yourself up as a door-mat. Why on earth would you agree to letting him sleep around and still stay with the guy. If you want anyone to respect you sweetie, you have to respect yourself. I know its hard but if you dont do this now you will be treated like crap for the rest of your life. Believe me I know.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (5 December 2008):
I dont think this guy is really committed to you, he has said he feels trapped and also wants to sleep with other girls.... okay so you tried the porn thing and it has helped spice up your sex life, but honestly I dont think that this relationship is going to last. Once he is in the army, you wont be there for sex and he is going to look for it elsewhere. Sorry to be so harsh!
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