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As soon as I put a condom on my erection is gone... what's up with that?

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Question - (5 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A male Ireland age 30-35, *hatOneCroatian writes:

Alright, so two things now. I know it's been awhile since i've checked in here, but.. I've been abit busy with my girlfriend. SO.. first thing's first, don't call me stupid for asking, but how likely is it that my girlfriend can get pregnant while she's on her period?

The other night she was telling me how much she wanted me, etc., etc., and it eventually led up to sex. I was close to finishing, and when i told her, she tried to keep me inside, to have me finish inside her, i didn't, and ultimately, the night ended badly, but i was curious as to whether or not she's less likely to get pregnant while she's on that.

Second off, I'm having two SERIOUSLY irritating problems with my erection. Now, she can turn me on, definately no doubt about that, but he just doesn't get as hard as i KNOW he can, and then i have a hard time keeping him up, like i have to focus on it if i want it to stay there. What's up with that? the second problem is that when i do get him going.. as soon as a condom touches it.. it's gone.. like 'poof' and i can't get it back to it's glory while it's on.

Anything at all would be nice. I DON'T have a problem cause i think about it too much, trust me, i'm not thinking about keeping him up, i'm thinking about the sexy lady that's all on me. I don't smoke, i diet, excersize, all that, and i'm only 18.. what seems to be the problem there?

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A male reader, Wayward United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2008):

I think you may need to go and see your doctor about your erection problem.

As for your girlfriend wanting you to come inside her unprotected. Be careful there. I mean it might just be that she got lost in the moment, most girls like a guy to come inside them. On the other hand she might want to get pregnant and could possibly be the type to try without your consent.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008):

It's highly unlikely but still possible that a girl can get pregnant during her period. Although personally I think 'rainbow sex' is gross!!!

As for the condom one, I suggest you both get an STI check, and if you're both all clear, then she should go on the pill or the jab =]

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (5 December 2008):

tux agony auntI am going to call you stupid for asking this... but then again I am not being serious..

Seriously, I don't believe odds are in favor of you impregnating your gf while she is on her period. It's primarily more likely 2 weeks or so after her period. BUt I would be more concerned that she tried to keep you inside her to have you finish inside her... Does she want to get pregnant? Please explain how the night ended badly... If it was because you didn't finish inside her, i'd be cautious..

As far as the condom and other things.. it could be nerves... nerves can do a number on things down there.. Here's one tip that usually works for me.. Have her put the condom on you..

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